Your wedding band can speak volumes.
It will represent the bond and commitment between you and your soon-to-be spouse.
And…depending on the rings you and your partner select, they can reflect your tastes and personalities.
A classic gold band, for example, can say that your focus is on romance and tradition. On the other hand, you may want a custom design that reflects your creativity, bold choices in metal and stone colors to show off your individualism, or a ring design—like connected waves—that reflects your strong commitment to everlasting love.
Because selecting your wedding rings is such an important part of your wedding planning process, we’ve put together some helpful information and guidelines for you.
Here are your 10 tips for selecting a wedding ring.
1. Decide how much you want to spend. In 2023, the average price of wedding rings ranged from $1,000 to $3,000. Remember, those are averages. It is entirely possible to find a ring you love at an affordable price.
2. Don’t put off your search. Give yourself time to get the right size and find something you love enough to wear forever. If you’re interested in having the rings engraved, you’ll need even more time. Try to start shopping at least six months before your wedding date.
3. Have your finger sized. Take the time to visit a jewelry store and request this free service. You want your ring to be comfortable and to remain securely on your finger.
That said, size isn’t the only factor that impacts comfort. When it’s time to shop, consider the weight and overall feel of the rings you try on, too.
4. Don’t shy away from online retailers. You can find a variety of options, including designer brands and independent jewelers who can create custom designs, online. And, you’ll have the flexibility of shopping with your partner at odd hours, if necessary, to accommodate your schedules. Whether you shop in person or online, be clear on the vendors’ return policies.
5. Decide which metal you want. Possibilities include gold (yellow, white, or rose), sterling silver, cobalt, palladium, platinum, titanium, and tungsten. Each has something to offer in terms of visual appeal, affordability, and durability, depending on what your priorities are.
Gold, a popular choice, is available in a multitude of styles. While it is a “soft” metal, gold is strong enough for the average person. Gold alloys, 14-18 carats, are more durable than pure, 24k gold, but some people are allergic to other metals, such as copper or nickel, in the ring. You also should know that gold can be discolored if exposed to certain chemicals, including bleach, and it requires occasional maintenance.
Here are some of the pros and cons of other metal options.
-Cobalt: Strong; as a newer option, it can be harder to find; looks similar to platinum, but can be easier to scratch; can only be resized up to half a size
-Palladium: Resembles platinum but is more affordable; strong but not as durable as platinum; lightweight; resistant to tarnishing
-Platinum: One of the strongest metals in the world; one of the most expensive ring options; pure—hypoallergenic; will not corrode, discolor, or tarnish; one of the heavier ring options; can be scratched (true with all metals)
-Silver: An affordable option; some silver rings resemble platinum; requires more upkeep than other options—can tarnish
-Titanium: Mainly used for male bands; very strong; lightweight; available in a variety of shades; cannot be resized
-Tungsten: Extremely strong; more affordable than platinum; cannot be resized
6. Think about your engagement ring. Assuming you have an engagement ring, consider how your wedding band will feel and look with it. Some brides select matching metals and designs, but you also can select something different that complements your engagement ring’s look and color.
7. Check out a variety of styles. Look at flat ring styles and round ones, simple bands along with twisted and woven designs. You may find yourself falling in love with an option you’d never thought about.
8. Decide if you want to add diamonds (or other precious stones like sapphires or rubies). The number of diamonds—five small stones or diamonds that encircle the ring—will impact your price, along with the quality of the diamonds.
If you want small stones to line the band, there is a risk of a stone falling out or snagging on something. Another option is a channel setting, meaning the jeweler sets the stones into a small channel cut into the ring.
9. Decide if you want your ring engraved. You can have your ring etched with a design or have letters or words engraved into it. Etched and engraved rings are harder to clean, though.
Engraving costs about $25 for machine-carved characters, according to Brides magazine, and $75 for eight hand-engraved characters.
10. Make sure you understand your warranty. Talk with your jeweler about what’s covered. Ask about cleaning services, changes, and repairs—and if these services last for the lifetime of your ring.
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