While all eyes may be on your bride's gorgeous gown on your wedding day, as the groom, your attire will play a big role in setting the tone and style for your celebration, too.
We know you have quite a few factors to consider when it comes to nailing your wedding day look. To help, we've compiled some guidelines on selecting groom wedding apparel, including tips on fabrics, colors, accessories, and the latest trends, to help you look and feel your best on your big day.
Suit vs. Tuxedo: Pros and Cons
One of the first decisions you'll need to make is whether to wear a suit or a tuxedo. Both options have their advantages and drawbacks, so weigh your options carefully.
Suits: Pros:
-Suits are more versatile and can be worn for other formal occasions.
-They're generally more affordable than a tuxedo.
-You'll have a wider range of colors and styles available.
Cons:
-A suit may not be as formal as a tuxedo for an evening wedding.
-Your outfit will require more coordination with your groomsmen's attire.
Tuxedos: Pros:
-Tuxedos create a classic and formal look, perfect for evening weddings.
-They're easier to coordinate with groomsmen's attire.
-You can't deny their timeless and sophisticated style.
Cons:
-Generally, a tuxedo will be more expensive than a suit.
-It's less versatile for future use.
-A tuxedo is considered formal attire: It may not be an ideal choice for a casual or daytime wedding.
Day vs. Night Weddings
The time of day you're getting married also plays a role in determining the appropriate level of formality for your wedding day attire.
For daytime weddings, suits in lighter colors or breathable fabrics like linen or cotton are popular choices.
Dark suits or tuxedos are usually reserved for evening affairs: They have a more formal and elegant feel.
Formal Wedding Considerations
If you're having a traditional, formal wedding, a tuxedo is often the way to go.
Choose a classic black or midnight blue tuxedo with a crisp white dress shirt and a bow tie or necktie.
Add a stylish cummerbund or vest to complete the look.
For a touch of sophistication, consider a peaked lapel or a double-breasted jacket.
Outdoor Wedding Considerations
Outdoor events present their own set of challenges when it comes to choosing the right wedding attire.
This is particularly true for a summer wedding when you'll want an outfit that keeps you cool and comfortable while still looking sharp.
Linen suits in light colors like tan, ivory, or pale blue are a classic choice. Pair them with a crisp white dress shirt and a lightweight tie or pocket square for a touch of seasonal flair.
If you prefer a more casual wedding look, consider a seersucker suit or a linen blend blazer with chinos or dress pants.
Don't forget to consider your wedding venue's terrain: If you'll be walking on grass or uneven surfaces, choose shoes with good traction.
Winter Wedding Considerations
Winter weddings call for warmth and sophistication.
A classic black or charcoal grey suit in a heavier wool or wool blend fabric is a timeless choice.
You can also opt for a velvet blazer or a tuxedo with a sleek overcoat for added warmth and style.
Don't forget to accessorize with a stylish scarf or pocket square to complement your look.
Fabrics and Colors
The fabric and color choices you make can significantly impact the overall look and feel of your wedding attire.
Here are some popular options to consider.
Fabrics
-Wool: A classic and versatile choice, suitable for both suits and tuxedos.
-Linen: Lightweight and breathable, perfect for warm-weather weddings.
-Cotton: Affordable and comfortable, great for casual or rustic weddings.
-Silk: Luxurious and smooth, often used for tuxedo jackets or dress shirts.
-Velvet: Rich and elegant, ideal for winter weddings or formal affairs.
Colors
-Black suit: A timeless and formal choice for tuxedos or suits.
-Navy blue: Sophisticated and versatile, a navy suit is a popular option.
-Grey suit: Available in a range of shades from light to charcoal, a grey suit is stylish and modern.
-Khaki or tan suit: Relaxed and casual, perfect for outdoor or beach weddings.
-Burgundy/plum: A rich and bold color choice for a touch of drama.
-Light blue suit: Fresh and summery, a great option for warm-weather weddings.
Suit and Tuxedo Fits
Not all suits and tuxedos are created equal when it comes to achieving that perfect tailored look.
Understanding the different fit styles is key to selecting an option that flatters your body type.
Classic Fit: The classic fit provides a more generous, relaxed cut through the chest, waist, and legs. It's a safe choice for most body types.
Modern/Slim Fit: Slimmer through the chest, waist, and arms with slightly tapered legs. This streamlined silhouette creates a sharp, contemporary look popular with younger grooms.
Super Slim/Skinny Fit: Ultra-slim and tailored throughout for an exceptionally trim silhouette. This edgy style works best for very slim builds.
Athletic Fit: Cut with room in the shoulders/chest but a trimmer waist and seat for a masculine, confident look on muscular frames.
Getting the Right Fit
While off-the-rack suits can look great, getting professionally measured and fitted by a tailor ensures an unbeatable customized look and feel. Even small adjustments like nipping in the waist, hemming sleeves or adjusting the pant length can drastically elevate the fit.
For the finish you want, don't skip working with an experienced tailor who can adjust your suit to your precise measurements and posture. Ask about getting a basted fitting before your final suit is constructed for the highest level of customization.
Personalizing Your Look
Even if adhering to tradition is a priority for your wedding day, adding a few personal touches can help you stand out and showcase your unique wedding style.
Consider incorporating elements that reflect your personality or the wedding's theme.
Special touches could include:
-Patterned socks or fun shoelaces
-Colorful pocket squares or boutonnieres
-Unique cufflinks or tie bars
-Custom embroidery or monograms
-Stylish suspenders or braces
Shirt Selections
While the wedding suit or tuxedo jacket gets most of the attention, the shirt you choose is equally important in completing your overall look. The right shirt can elevate your outfit and add a personal touch.
For Formal Weddings
If you're going with black-tie attire, a crisp white shirt is the classic choice. Look for dress shirts made from high-quality cotton or cotton blends with a subtle sheen. You can opt for a wing-tip collar to pair with a bow tie or a spread collar for neckties. French cuffs also lend an extra dapper touch.
For Semi-Formal/Casual Weddings
With a wedding suit, you have more flexibility with your shirt's style and color. Light colors like pale blue, pink, or lavender can inject some fashionable flair. Or go for subtle patterns like micro-checks, striped, or herringbone designs. When it comes to fabrics, opt for high-quality cotton, linens, or cotton-linen blends that breathe well.
Shirt Fit
No matter which style you want to wear, proper fit will be crucial. Your shirt should follow your form without being overly tight or billowing. Leave enough room to move freely but sleek enough to tuck crisply into your pants.
Consider having your dress shirt professionally altered for a truly tailored silhouette.
Finishing Touches
Pay attention to the small details that can make a big impact: boutonniere, cufflinks, tie bar, or collar stays. These accessories allow you to further personalize your shirt while staying polished. Having spare shirts on hand is also wise in case of any spills or mishaps on the big day.
Your Shoes
Your shoes are just as important as the rest of your wedding day outfit: They'll help shape your look and have a big impact on your comfort. Opt for well-crafted, comfortable dress shoes that complement your suit or tuxedo.
Classic options include Oxford or Derby shoes in black or brown leather. For outdoor or rustic weddings, consider a pair of stylish boots or loafers.
Coordinating with Your Groomsmen
As the groom, it's essential to coordinate your attire with your groomsmen to create a cohesive and polished look. Decide on a color scheme and style that complements your own outfit, and provide clear guidelines to your groomsmen on what to wear. You can mix and match suits and tuxedos or have everyone in identical outfits – the choice is yours!
Groom Apparel Trends
Like any fashion industry, groom's wedding apparel is constantly evolving, with new trends emerging each season. Here are some of the latest styles and trends to keep an eye on:
-Textured fabrics: From boucle to corduroy, textured fabrics add depth and interest to your look.
-Pastel shades: Soft, muted colors like blush pink, sage green, or a powder blue suit can be a refreshing change from traditional hues.
-Printed suits: Bold and daring, printed suits in patterns like florals or paisley make a statement.
-Slim-fit silhouettes: Modern, tailored fits with a sleek and streamlined look are in vogue.
-Vegan suits: As sustainable fashion gains momentum, eco-friendly options like vegan suits are becoming more prevalent.
Choosing the perfect wedding attire is an important part of your big day. By considering factors like the formality of your event, the season, and your personal wedding style preferences, you can find an outfit that not only looks dapper but also makes you feel confident and comfortable.
Don't be afraid to add a few personal touches to make your look truly unique, and remember to coordinate with your wedding party for a cohesive and stylish overall aesthetic.
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