Selecting the Right Musical Vibe for Your Corporate Event

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Ever been to a corporate event where the music felt... off?

Maybe it was too loud, too cheesy, or just plain boring. The truth is, music can make or break the atmosphere of your event. It can reflect your brand, engage your guests, leave a lasting impression... or fall flat.

The key is making the right selections for your particular event. If you're not quite sure where to start, we can help.

This guide covers tips for selecting and presenting music at corporate events, mistakes to avoid, budgeting considerations, and more.

The Basics: Music Selection and Presentation

If you're curating music for a corporate or nonprofit event, begin by clarifying the event's purpose and the atmosphere you're aiming for. Are you hosting a formal gala, a lively team-building activity, or a networking reception? Your musical choices should complement the event's tone and objectives.

One way to make sure your music resonates with attendees is to take the time to understand your audience. Research their demographics, such as age and cultural background, through surveys or informal conversations with potential attendees. You can gain more insight into their musical preferences by analyzing past event playlists or conducting polls through social media or company communication channels. Armed with this information, you'll be able to select genres and artists that will appeal to the majority while still offering enough variety to cater to diverse tastes.

Whenever feasible, involve key company stakeholders in the music selection process. This collaborative approach ensures that your musical choices align with the company's values and its vision for the event. By working together, you can create a harmonious and memorable experience for everyone involved.

Pitfalls to Avoid

While the right music can elevate your event, it's equally important to be aware of common missteps that can detract from the experience.

Here a few don'ts to keep in mind when selecting music for your corporate event.

The Commercial Trap

While incorporating a few popular hits can be fun, relying solely on trendy or commercially successful music can feel inauthentic and alienate attendees with more diverse tastes. Strive for a balance between crowd-pleasers and more unique, thoughtful selections that reflect the event's theme and your company's personality.

Technical Turmoil

Even the most carefully curated playlist can be ruined by a subpar audio setup. Poor acoustics, feedback issues, unexpected volume fluctuations, or awkward transitions between songs can quickly derail the ambiance at corporate events. Invest in quality sound equipment and line up a skilled audio technician to manage the sound throughout your event.

Sonic Overload

Music should enhance, not overpower, the event's atmosphere. When music becomes too loud, it can hinder conversation, disrupt presentations, and create an uncomfortable environment for attendees.

Regularly monitor volume levels to ensure a comfortable balance that allows for easy conversation and active participation.

Ignoring the Mood

Music has a profound impact on emotions and energy levels. Avoid playing overly energetic music during a formal dinner or mellow tunes during a high-energy networking event. Carefully match the music tempo and genre to the desired mood of each segment of your event.

Copyright Conundrum

Using copyrighted music without proper licensing can lead to legal troubles and hefty fines.

Always obtain appropriate permissions or explore royalty-free music options so your event complies with copyright laws.

The One-Size-Fits-All Fallacy

Every corporate event is unique, and so should be its soundtrack. Avoid generic playlists or relying solely on pre-made mixes.

You want to tailor your music styles and selections to the specific audience, purpose, and atmosphere of your event.

Background Music Considerations

For more conversational settings like networking receptions or meal functions, background music should enhance the ambiance without becoming the main attraction.

Explore instrumental options, possibly a jazz trio, string quartet, or solo pianist, for a sophisticated undertone that won't compete with dialogue.

Update playlists regularly to keep things fresh and avoid repetition. Mix in global genres and lesser-known artists for an eclectic, curated feel.

Pro Tip: With background music, "less is more." Allow periodic breaks of silence to reset the auditory experience.

The Art of Live Musical Performances

Nothing compares to the raw energy and captivating atmosphere that live music brings to corporate events.

It creates an immersive, multi-sensory experience that can leave a lasting impression on your guests, showcasing your commitment to curating a premium and unforgettable event.

Selecting the Perfect Act

When choosing live performers, consider your event's theme, brand identity, and target audience.

A high-energy rock band might be ideal for an edgy product launch, while a sophisticated jazz trio could complement a formal awards ceremony. If your company has a specific message or cause it champions, consider artists whose music or personal brand aligns with those values.

Logistics and Collaboration

Once you've booked your talent, clear communication is key.

Provide detailed information about the performance space, technical requirements (sound, lighting, etc.), and any logistical considerations (load-in times, parking). Doing this will foster a smooth setup and minimize the risk of technical hiccups.

Creating a Seamless Experience

Strategically schedule breaks and transitions between sets to maintain momentum and avoid awkward lulls in the entertainment.

Consider incorporating engaging visuals or brief interludes during these breaks to keep the energy high and the audience entertained.

Unleashing the Power of Collaboration

Don't be afraid to explore creative collaborations. Invite company talent or stakeholders to join the musicians on stage for a song or two, or consider incorporating a unique musical element into a keynote speech or presentation. These unexpected moments can create a buzz and leave a lasting impression on your attendees.

Transforming Your Event into a Dance Party

After a day filled with meetings and presentations, there's nothing quite like letting loose on the dance floor. Creating an inviting and energetic atmosphere encourages guests to step out of their comfort zones and celebrate together.

Here's how to get them grooving:

Start Strong, Then Surprise

Begin with upbeat, recognizable hits that are sure to get people moving. Once the dance floor starts filling up, gradually introduce more eclectic remixes or lesser-known tracks to keep things interesting. Consider incorporating a few nostalgic throwbacks to get different generations mingling and reminiscing.

Engage with Entertainers

Collaborate with your DJ or band to brainstorm creative ways to encourage participation.

This could include choreographed dance breaks led by professional dancers, interactive activities like a "freeze-mob" dance, or even fun contests with prizes for the best dancers.

Transform the Space

Create a visually stimulating environment that complements the music. Project vibrant lighting effects, dynamic graphics, or even themed visuals on the walls or dance floor. This will enhance the overall atmosphere and make the experience more immersive and exciting.

Lead by Example

Encourage key company leaders or event organizers to hit the dance floor early on. Their enthusiasm can be contagious and inspire other guests to join in the fun.

Embrace the Unexpected

Don't be afraid to throw in a few surprises to keep the energy high. This could include a special guest performance, a surprise musical theme, or a fun prop giveaway like glow sticks or light-up accessories to enhance the party atmosphere.

Finding the Right Genres and Vibes

With so many musical genres and sub-genres these days, it's wise to strike a balance that delights as many guests as possible without alienating any particular group.

Safe crowd-pleasers span decades and genres, from oldies and Motown to pop/rock hits of the 80s/90s/2000s to today's mainstream dance/hip-hop tracks.

For more eclectic diversity, sprinkle in world music, jazz, electronic, country, and regional genres representative of your location or workforce.

Pro Tip: Refreshing genre blends like "jazz-tronica," "country/folk-tronica," or "pop-reggaeton" fusions can expose guests to novel yet accessible sounds.

Backup Plans and Alternatives

Even with thorough planning, unexpected obstacles can threaten the musical experience at your corporate event. These can include audio/lighting malfunctions, power outages, travel delays for booked acts, performers calling out sick, or inclement weather (for outdoor events).

Always have backup entertainment options arranged, from DJ/audio alternates to acoustic performers who can go unplugged if necessary.

And don't forget to consider alternative corporate event entertainment offerings beyond playing music. Photo booths, dance troupes, cirque performers, comedians, and more can add excitement and variety throughout the evening.

Pro Tip: For outdoor corporate events, make contingency plans like renting a portable stage with awnings/tents to protect performers, equipment, and guests from the elements.

The Final Note

Selecting the perfect musical soundtrack for corporate events is both an art and a science: It requires understanding your target audience's preferences while artfully curating a dynamic, multi-sensory experience. Put in the proper planning and resources, and you'll create an event that has guests grooving from the moment they arrive until the final curtain call.

What musical magic will you orchestrate for your next corporate event?

The Bell Tower on 34th is an elegant event space with valet parking and onsite security serving the Greater Houston area. Our central location is a short drive from the Galleria area and the Houston Heights area.

Learn more about holding a corporate event here.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

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How to Stay Comfy and Radiant on Your Wedding Day

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Planning a wedding is no easy feat. With countless decisions to make and details to finalize, it's no wonder that many brides forget to prioritize their own well-being. But trust us, taking a few simple steps to ensure your comfort can make all the difference in how you experience your big day.

Let's dive into some practical tips that will help you feel your best from start to finish.

Don’t Neglect Self-Care

It's easy to get swept up in the whirlwind of wedding planning and celebrations. But prioritizing basic self-care like getting enough sleep, eating nutritious meals, staying hydrated, and managing stress will play a surprisingly large role in keeping you feeling and looking your best on your big day.

Aim for seven to nine hours of quality sleep for a few nights leading up to your wedding. Drink plenty of water and eat foods that provide lasting energy like complex carbs, lean protein, and healthy fats. Incorporate stress-reducing activities like yoga or meditation into your routine and stick to your regular skincare regimen. Don't forget to schedule some downtime to relax and recharge and pack a small self-care kit with essentials to keep you feeling comfortable throughout the day.

Remember, taking care of your physical and mental well-being is just as important as finalizing those last-minute wedding details.

Choose the Right Undergarments

While shapewear can create a smooth look under your dress, try to avoid compressed or binding garments that limit breathing or circulation.

A well-fitted supportive bra is key, as is breathable seamless underwear that won't show panty lines.  

Look for pieces made from moisture-wicking fabrics to keep you feeling fresh and dry. It’s also a good idea to break in any new undergarments well before the wedding to make sure they're comfortable for long wear.

Dress for the Weather

Being too hot or too cold makes it hard to fully relax and enjoy yourself. Consider the forecast and wedding location (indoor versus outdoor) when choosing your dress.

If it will be warm, go with a lightweight, breathable fabric like chiffon or organza. A dress with well-placed vents or an open back can help with airflow.

For cool weather, think about long sleeves, a lined dress, a wrap, or coverup. Make sure your heating/AC plans minimize discomfort indoors.

Find Shoes You Can Really Walk In
You'll likely be on your feet for hours from the ceremony through photos and dancing at the reception. Shoes that pinch, rub, or lack support can quickly lead to pain and blisters.

Break in your wedding shoes by wearing them around the house for increasingly longer periods well beforehand.

This is a time when comfort features like extra padding, supportive soles, ankle straps, and walkable heel heights could be extremely worthwhile.

 And even so, it’s a good idea to bring a backup pair of flats or sandals to change into for the reception dancing.

Another tip for comfort: Apply anti-friction balms or hydrating oils to high-friction areas like your heels and between toes before putting your shoes on.

Get Your Dress Customized

An improperly fitted dress that's too tight, too loose, or weighted down by excessive beading/embellishments can be torturous to wear for an entire wedding day and night.

Work with your seamstress on making sure your dress has a comfortable, breathable inner corset/bodice lining. The fabric should skim your body without being overly clingy or restrictive in the bust, arms, and hips.

Adjust any heavy ornamentation to the back of the dress instead of the front, where it can weigh you down.

Stay Hydrated and Refreshed

You’ll thank yourself later if you implement a few key wedding-day strategies.

-For starters, have your planner or maid of honor keep water, hydrating face mists, and blotting papers on hand to help you freshen up periodically throughout the day.

-Snack on things like nuts, fresh fruit, and granola bars to maintain your energy levels.

-Build in breaks during your timeline to sit, rest your feet, and reapply makeup as needed.

-And, yes, use the restroom when needed rather than holding it and becoming uncomfortable.

Remedies for Problem Areas

If there are specific body areas that tend to make you uncomfortable on a regular basis, look into specialized products. For example, women with large busts may want to use adhesive bra cups or sewn-in bust support to avoid straps digging in.

If you’re prone to foot pain, you can get customized orthotics or inserts for your shoes.

Do you endure back pain? Look into specialty low-back bras.

The bottom line is that you shouldn't have to just "grin and bear it" through discomfort on your wedding day.

 You really do have options to look and feel your absolute best as you wed your soulmate surrounded by loved ones. Don't let potential problems like thirst, pinching shapewear, or aching feet put a damper on this joyous once-in-a-lifetime occasion. Prioritize your comfort so you can stay relaxed, radiant, and fully present to soak in every magical moment.

Since we opened more than a decade ago, The Bell Tower on 34th has earned a reputation as the best wedding venue in Houston.

Our spectacular Houston venue, with a waterwall and dance floor lighting, is a popular choice among couples throughout southeast Texas.

Contact us to schedule a tour.

 The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

Selecting Your Wedding Ceremony Flowers

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What's the first thing your guests will see as they’re seated for your wedding ceremony?

Chances are, it's your stunning flowers.

But with so many options, how do you choose the right blooms to frame your "I dos"? This guide will help you answer that question and more.

Managing Costs

Before we dive into your floral options, though, let’s take a moment to talk about how much you’ll be able to spend, which will be guiding all of your wedding-planning decisions. Generally, ceremony florals make up 10-15% of most wedding budgets.

To keep ceremony floral costs from overwhelming your budget, focus first on the areas that will show up most in photos: the bouquets, aisle decor and the altar/chuppah area. Get the most impact by going a little bigger here first. For entry areas or windows/pews, you can go a bit more minimal with simple greenery, single blossoms, or more affordable filler flowers like baby's breath.

Another option? You can use potted plants, trees, or greenery like palm fronds to create a lush, living backdrop that may actually be more affordable than scores of cut floral arrangements.

Get creative by using minimal arrangements and enhancing them with candles, ribbons, or signs. Renting props like planters, pedestals, or other display pieces can help stretch your floral funds, too.

You’ll find that going with in-season flowers; more affordable blooms like carnations, daisies, sunflowers and zinnias; and using more textural greens can help cut costs as well.

Don’t be shy about talking about cost considerations with your florist. An experienced florist will help keep you on budget while maximizing the impact of your wedding flowers.

Your Bridal Bouquet

Moving on to the many flowers that you’ll be selecting for your ceremony, let's begin with the star of the show—the bride's bouquet.

This is often the biggest splurge when it comes to your floral budget. Popular options include lush, rounded bouquets with roses, peonies, ranunculuses and trailing greenery or more tightly gathered nosegays featuring garden roses, sweet peas, and eucalyptus.

Decide if you want to go big and bold or daintier and more delicate for your bouquet style.

Keep seasonality in mind, too. Peonies will be less expensive in late spring, garden roses more affordable in summer.

Discuss bloom sizes with your florist as well—you may be able to create a lush look with larger-headed blooms using fewer stems.

Do you have a family heirloom piece like lace, jewelry or a brooch? You can have it incorporated into your bouquet wrap.

Flowers for Your Hair

This year, increasing numbers of brides are opting to accent their hairstyle with fresh flowers.

This is an easy way to enhance your bridal look. One simple option is tucking in a few budding stems like baby's breath or a single peony or garden rose. You could also go for a flower crown or halo with lush greenery and delicate blooms like ranunculuses.

Bridesmaids' Bouquets

Your bridal party’s flowers are another chance to make a statement. You can stay cohesive with the bride's bouquet in terms of colors and flower varieties or mix it up a bit.

Quite a few modern bridesmaids go for smaller, simple bouquets like a few gathered roses or a handful of eucalyptus and trailing greenery. Another possibility is to embrace mixed bouquets brimming with texture and different types of flowers.

For Your Bouquet Toss

If you plan to include the tradition of throwing a bouquet, you don’t necessarily have to use your bridal bouquet. If you’ve been hoping to save your bouquet, you can make one bridesmaids' bouquet a toss-able piece (minus any pinned elements or jewelry). It's also becoming quite popular to have a designated toss bouquet made just for this moment. With less embellishment, these tend to be more budget-friendly.

Flowers for the Flower Girl

The flower girl's accessories are classic wedding touches.

A floral crown, wrist corsage or pomander ball (a kissing ball design carried like a mini bouquet) would all add a lovely, whimsical touch.

For the Men

For the groom and other gentlemen like fathers, groomsmen, and ushers, boutonnières are a must-have accessory.

These small bundles of flowers pinned to the lapel can be simple like a single ranunculus bud or clustered spray roses. Adding textural elements like crisp greenery or succulents adds a touch of personality.

Ceremony Flower Arrangements

The ceremony site itself offers many opportunities for beautiful floral decorating:

Entry urns or potted plants will create an elegant opening atmosphere as guests arrive. If you’ll be holding an outdoor wedding, these containers can line the aisle itself.

Decorative arches, chuppahs, or other structures can be accented with floral garlands or overflowing arrangements around the base or posts.

Pew ends or ceremony chair aisles can be marked with pretty clusters of blooms, greenery pieces, or pomanders.

Window boxes, hanging baskets, or other architectural details can be brought to life through florals.

We also encourage you to think about a statement piece like a floral hedge or garden "wall" backdrop behind the ceremony structure. It's lush, romantic, and creates amazing photo ops.

Also think about ways to decorate other ceremony elements with flowers: this could be your guest book table, unity candles, or an intricate floral stair runner leading up the aisle.

Suspended Installations

Suspended installations are big in 2024. These are floral arrangements that hang above the ceremony space, creating a dramatic and immersive atmosphere. They can take many forms, including:

-Floral chandeliers: These are elaborate arrangements of flowers and greenery that hang from the ceiling, often resembling a chandelier. They can be large and opulent or smaller and more delicate, depending on the desired effect.

-Floral clouds: These are clusters of flowers and foliage that appear to float above the ceremony space, creating a whimsical and ethereal feel.

-Floral arches or arbors: While traditional arches rest on the ground, suspended arches or arbors are hung from the ceiling, framing the couple with blooms.

-Floral garlands or swags: These are long strands of flowers and greenery that can be hung in a variety of ways, such as across the aisle or above the altar.

There are a few reasons why suspended installations have become so popular. For one thing, they add a wow factor to any ceremony space, creating a stunning focal point and a sense of grandeur.

Plus, they can be customized to fit just about any wedding theme or style, whether you’re going romantic and whimsical or modern and minimalist.

They make for beautiful photos and create a truly memorable experience for guests.

If you're considering a suspended installation for your wedding ceremony, there are a few things to keep in mind:

-Venue: Make sure your venue has a high ceiling or sturdy beams to support the installation.

-Budget: Suspended installations can be expensive, so factor this into your overall floral budget.

-Safety: Work with a professional florist or event designer to ensure the installation is secure and won't pose a safety hazard.

More Floral Trends

Additional popular ceremony floral trends to consider include:

Minimalist Designs

Less is more with this trend. Simple, elegant arrangements featuring one or two types of flowers in a single color are gaining popularity.

Dried Flowers

Dried flowers are making a comeback and can add a unique, rustic touch to your ceremony decor.

Sustainable Choices

Many couples are prioritizing eco-friendly options like locally sourced flowers and avoiding floral foam.

Bold Colors

While soft pastels are always classic, don't be afraid to incorporate brighter hues for a more vibrant and energetic feel.

When choosing your ceremony flowers, consider your personal style, wedding theme, and venue. Ultimately, your choices should reflect your tastes and style.

The Bell Tower on 34th, one of Houston’s leading wedding venues with a chapel, is committed to helping recently engaged couples realize their wedding vision.

Our venue, a short drive from downtown Houston, is designed to provide seamless transitions from ceremony to cocktail hour to wedding reception.

Contact us to schedule a visit.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

Incorporating Bold Colors Into Your Wedding Décor

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After years of muted color palettes dominating wedding trends, 2024 is the year for couples to embrace vibrancy.

Bold, saturated hues are taking over, allowing brides and grooms to truly put their individual stamp on their big day. From deep crimson reds to zesty limes, electrifying yellows to audacious oranges, this year's hottest wedding colors aren't for the faint of heart.

If you're a couple that loves making a statement, going with bold colors in your wedding decor and attire is the perfect way to design a truly distinctive wedding experience for you and your guests. Not sure where to start? Here are some creative ideas for making bold or bright colors work with your wedding color palette.

The Psychology of Bold Wedding Colors

Colors aren't just visually appealing; they evoke emotions and set the tone for your entire wedding experience. Understanding the psychology behind bold colors can help you make informed decisions that align with your vision and create the perfect atmosphere for your big day.

Red: This passionate hue symbolizes love, excitement, and energy. It adds a touch of drama and romance, perfect for couples who want to make a bold statement.

Orange: Represents creativity, enthusiasm, and joy. It brings a sense of fun and playfulness to your wedding and is ideal for couples who love to celebrate life.

Yellow: This cheerful color signifies happiness, optimism, and warmth. It creates a bright and inviting atmosphere, perfect for couples who want to radiate positivity.

Green: A refreshing color that symbolizes nature, growth, and harmony. It brings a sense of tranquility and balance, ideal for couples who value peace and serenity.

Blue: This calming color represents trust, loyalty, and serenity. It creates a soothing and elegant atmosphere, perfect for couples who want a sophisticated celebration.

Purple: Purple is a luxurious color symbolizes creativity, spirituality, and royalty. It adds a touch of mystery and intrigue, ideal for couples who want a unique and memorable wedding.

By considering the emotions you want to evoke and the atmosphere you want to create, you can choose bold colors that resonate with your personal style and wedding theme.

Mixing and Matching Bold Colors: A Mini Guide

Creating a harmonious wedding color palette with bold hues doesn't have to be overwhelming. Here are a few tips to help you confidently mix and match vibrant colors for your wedding:

Complementary Colors

These are colors that sit opposite each other on the color wheel, like red and green, blue and orange, or yellow and purple. Using complementary colors creates a high-contrast, energetic look perfect for making a statement.

Analogous Colors

These are colors that sit next to each other on the color wheel, like yellow, orange, and red, or blue, green, and purple. Using analogous colors creates a harmonious, cohesive look that's visually pleasing.

Triadic Colors

These are three colors that are evenly spaced on the color wheel, like red, yellow, and blue, or orange, green, and purple. Using triadic colors creates a vibrant, balanced look that's full of energy.

Monochromatic Colors

This involves using different shades and tints of a single color. For example, you could use light pink, hot pink, and fuchsia for a monochromatic pink palette.

This creates a sophisticated, elegant look that's easy on the eyes.

Neutral Colors

Don't be afraid to incorporate neutral colors like white, black, gray, or beige into your wedding palette. They can help ground the bold colors and prevent them from feeling overwhelming.

Example Palettes

  • Tropical Paradise: Coral, turquoise, lime green, and yellow

  • Rustic Romance: Burgundy, burnt orange, mustard yellow, and olive green

  • Modern Minimalism: Fuchsia, navy blue, and white

  • Bohemian Chic: Teal, orange, pink, and purple

Remember, these are just suggestions. Feel free to experiment and create a color palette that's uniquely yours.

Pro Tip: Use a color wheel or online color palette generator to visualize different combinations and find the perfect hues for your wedding.

Stationery Suite

Your save-the-date and wedding invitations give guests their very first glimpse into your personal style as a couple.

Kick things off with a bold first impression by having your stationery suite printed in a eye-catching jewel tone or saturated bright color. For a modern look, print vibrant red, orange or yellow text on a crisp white background. Or create a lush vibe on your wedding invitations with emerald green calligraphy against an ecru card stock.

Ceremony Arches and Aisle Decorations

Walking down the aisle is one of the most iconic and photographed moments of your wedding day. Make it extra unforgettable by flanking the aisle with vibrant floral arrangements overflowing with flowers in rich shades like fuchsia peonies, golden sunflowers or violet irises.

You can also elevate your ceremony venue with striking decorative arches in front of which you'll exchange your vows. Adorn wooden or metallic arches with lush green vines or swaths of boldly colored fabrics and flowers.

Bouquets and Floral Arrangements

When it comes to your bouquet and other floral arrangements, putting together monochromatic displays of bright blooms makes for a dramatically modern look.

Bouquets featuring single varieties of flowers like red roses, orange ranunculus or fuchsia peonies have a luxuriously lush feel. For centerpieces and other decorative arrangements, mix in pops of greenery to make the vivid floral hues really stand out.

Wedding Party Attire

What better way for a bride and her 'maids to coordinate than by having everyone wear the same bold color?

Lime green, mustard yellow, and cherry red are a few head-turning options for bridesmaids' dresses this year. You can keep the bridal look soft and romantic with an ivory gown, or really commit to the vivid palette by rocking a blue, fuchsia, or sunshine yellow dress yourself.

Bright-colored suits for the groom and groomsmen can also give the entire wedding party a cohesive, fashion-forward vibe.

Cocktail Party Decor

No need to wait until your wedding reception to start incorporating those punchy pops of color. For your cocktail hour, try renting sunshade umbrellas, lounge furniture, and bars designed in brilliant shades.

Set out colorful glassware and coasters to reinforce the palette. Another option would be to set up a signature cocktail station featuring a bright, festive drink that complements your other decor.

Reception Tables

When it comes to the reception tablescape, there are countless opportunities to incorporate the bold hues in your wedding color palette.

Brightly colored table linens, whether you choose a single vibrant shade or a pattern, can brighten up the entire room in an instant. Display arrangements of vividly colored florals for a lush, romantic feel. Or mix things up by setting each table with a different contrasting color scheme for an eclectic, artistic ambiance.

Dinnerware and Glassware

Skip traditional white dinnerware in favor of setting each place setting with plates, chargers, glasses, and flatware in coordinating bold shades. This unexpected touch can give your reception an upscale, luxurious feel. You can keep things tonal by sticking to one daring hue, or embrace an artsy aesthetic by mixing and matching an array of vivid colors.

Accent Decor

Bold accent pieces like pillows, candles, picture frames, and vases are the perfect way to pull your vibrant color story throughout the reception space. Stay on theme by displaying bright, contemporary art pieces as well.

And don't forget the smallest details—brightly colored votive holders, napkin rings, and chairs with colorful cushions can reinforce your wedding palette.

Lighting

Lighting can make a huge impact in reinforcing your color scheme, especially as the night goes on. Up-lighting in saturated shades like violet or emerald green can bathe the entire space in a theatrical glow, while spotlights and patterned gobos can create dynamic colorful accents on surrounding walls and dance floors.

String lights or laser light installations in vibrant hues can also cast a festive ambiance over your evening celebration.

Desserts and Favors

In addition to a show-stopping wedding cake adorned in brilliant colors, think about having a dessert display complete with brightly colored candies, macarons, or a doughnut wall decorated in your distinctive color palette.

Send guests home with matching vivid favors, possibly a box of colorful candies, a personalized tote bag, or cheerful pashmina wraps.

The key to pulling off a memorably bold and vibrant wedding? Consistent use of color throughout every single design element and detail. So whether you opt for head-to-toe crimson red, cheerful lemon yellow or a custom contrast of a few coordinating hues, carefully carry that motif through from start to finish.

Most importantly, embrace colors that speak to you and your partner's taste and personality. The result will be an unmistakably unique wedding that lets your most daring, colorful selves shine through.

The Bell Tower on 34th, one of the leading wedding venues in Houston, is known for our beautiful grounds, full planning services, and talented chef.

Our venue serves couples throughout southeast Texas.

Learn more about holding a wedding here.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

Your Outdoor Wedding Guide

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Spending time outdoors comes with a long list of benefits. It’s rejuvenating. It improves our memory and enhances creativity. Being outside can create feelings of happiness as well.

 So, it only makes sense that in 2024, holding wedding ceremonies, receptions, or both outdoors remains as popular as ever. It’s a way to infuse one of the most important days of your life with the calm, beauty, and pure joy that outdoor setting can deliver.

 True, there is an element of risk that comes with getting married outside. Weather doesn’t necessarily care about the hours of planning you put into creating a magical outdoor wedding. But there are steps you can take to keep your guests comfortable and minimize weather-related risks.

 We’ll cover them here, along with some tips and outdoor wedding ideas for you to consider.

Timing Matters

 If an outdoor wedding is a priority, select a month when you’re most likely to get cooperative weather.

 The best months for outdoor weddings will vary, depending on where you live. Here in Houston, where we’re based, the best windows of time are from mid-March to mid-May and mid-October to mid-November, when you’d be able to enjoy mild spring or fall weather.

 The time of day you get married will be important, too.

 In late spring/early summer, you’ll want a schedule that will help you beat the heat. You can do that, and capture that magical golden hour light, with a ceremony in the late afternoon followed by a reception as the sun sets. If you’re getting married in late fall, consider an earlier ceremony and reception to enjoy the sunset and comfortable temperatures before the evening cools down.

Give Your Guests a Heads Up

 Not only will an outdoor wedding require some extra planning on your part, it also will require your guests to put some thought into what they wear and bring with them, from comfortable, breathable clothing to sunscreen.

 Ideally, you should make it clear your wedding ceremony and/or reception will be outdoors on both your save-the-date and your invitations.

 Possible wording could be:

 Option 1: Formal

"We kindly request the pleasure of your company at our outdoor wedding ceremony and reception."

Option 2: Semi-Formal

"Join us for an outdoor celebration of love and laughter as we exchange vows under the open sky."

Option 3: Casual

"We're tying the knot outdoors! Come celebrate with us in the fresh air and sunshine."

Additional tip: To make it even clearer, you could add a small note after the main wording, something like:

"Please dress comfortably for an outdoor setting."

"Weather permitting, our ceremony and reception will be held outdoors."

"Don't forget your sunglasses and sunscreen!"

Preparing for Weather Glitches

One of the most important aspects of planning an outdoor wedding is developing a “what if” strategy.

If it rains, for example, you’ll want to know far in advance whether your wedding venue will allow you to move your guests indoors. Or maybe you’ll want to have a large tent or pavilion area where you and your guests can take shelter. Setting up one or more tents, by the way, is also a good way to protect your food, cake, gifts, and anything else that you don’t want to get soaked.

Other rainy-day precautions, including some suggestions geared for southeast Texas, could include:

-Providing umbrellas: Have a stash of umbrellas available for guests to use as they move between locations. If you go with clear umbrellas, you’ll be able to preserve visibility and photo opportunities.

-Having a shoe station: Set up an area where guests can swap out their dress shoes for rain boots or sandals if the ground gets wet.

-Preparing for wind: If your ceremony includes any lightweight decor like paper lanterns or fabric draping, make sure they're securely fastened so they don't blow away.

-Protecting the aisle: If your ceremony aisle isn't paved, we recommend putting down a runner or mats to prevent guests from sinking into the mud.

-Offering towels: Have a basket of towels available for guests to dry off if they get caught in a sudden shower.

-Embracing the weather: Have fun with it! You can provide colorful rain ponchos for photos or have a "rainy day" playlist ready to keep the mood upbeat.

-Thinking about hair and makeup: Suggest that your wedding party and guests use waterproof makeup and hairspray that can withstand humidity.

-Planning for humidity: If it's not just raining, but humid too, provide fans or cooling towels to help guests stay comfortable.

Audio Considerations

I still remember attending my cousin’s lovely outdoor wedding ceremony a couple of years ago. The setting was gorgeous. The bride was radiant. I still can picture it. But my memories have no soundtrack, because I couldn’t hear what the bride and groom were saying.

With that in mind, I highly recommend taking sound and acoustics into consideration for your outdoor wedding or reception.

Here are a few tips to consider:

-Invest in a sound system: Don't rely on just your voices carrying. Rent or buy a sound system that can adequately project sound over the area where guests will be seated. This will be especially important if you’re have a large wedding or if there's a chance of background noise (like traffic or wind).

 -Use microphones: Make sure the officiant, you and your partner, and anyone giving readings or speeches are using microphones. Then you’ll have the peace of mind of knowing that everyone can hear the important moments of the ceremony and reception.

-Hire a sound technician: If your budget allows, hire a professional sound technician to handle setup, sound checks, and any technical issues that may arise.

-Consider the acoustics: Trees and open spaces can disperse sound, making it harder for guests to hear. If possible, position the ceremony and reception areas in a way that naturally amplifies sound, possibly against a wall or under a canopy.

-Test the sound beforehand: Do a sound check a few days before the wedding or at the very least the morning of the wedding. You’ll want to make sure the volume is appropriate, and everyone's microphone is working properly.

-Have a backup plan: If you're using wireless microphones, have backup batteries on hand. Look into renting or borrowing additional audio equipment in case of technical difficulties.

Decorating Your Outdoor Oasis

Outdoor weddings offer a unique canvas for personalizing your big day. Here in Houston, where nature provides a stunning backdrop, your décor can complement the beauty of the surroundings while reflecting your style.

Here are a few ideas for inspiration.

Embrace the Natural Beauty

Let the natural landscape shine. Use the existing foliage, trees, and flowers as part of your décor. Choose a wedding venue with picturesque views, like a garden, park, or waterfront, to minimize the need for excessive decorations.

Lighting Is Key

As the sun sets, create a magical ambiance with lighting. String lights, lanterns, candles, and fairy lights draped on trees or bushes can add a romantic glow. For a more dramatic effect, try uplighting trees or architectural features.

Floral Arrangements

Fresh flowers always add a touch of elegance. Choose seasonal blooms that thrive in Houston's climate, like roses, hydrangeas, and sunflowers. Incorporate them into centerpieces, bouquets, and ceremony arches.

Don't Forget the Details

Personalize your décor with unique touches. You can do this with customized signs, a photo display of your love story, or mementos with special meaning.

 Weather-Proof Your Décor

As we mentioned, weather can be unpredictable. Use sturdy materials and decorations that can withstand wind, rain, and humidity. Go with waterproof fabrics, sturdy vases, and securely fastened decorations.

Think Comfort

Provide shade with umbrellas, tents, or pergolas to keep guests comfortable during hot days. Consider adding blankets or shawls for cooler evenings.

Hire a Pro

If you're feeling overwhelmed, consider hiring a wedding decorator. They can help you create a cohesive look, source décor items, and handle the setup and breakdown.

Feasting in the Fresh Air: Food and Drink Tips

When it comes to weddings, the food and drinks can make or break the experience. When your wedding will be outdoors, it becomes even more important to plan your menu and service with both flavor and function in mind.

Keep it Fresh and Seasonal

Embrace the flavors of the season. If at all possible, select fresh, local produce that's in peak season. This not only supports local farmers but also ensures your dishes are bursting with flavor. Consider a menu that complements the time of year, like a refreshing berry salad for a late spring wedding or hearty chili for a fall celebration.

Beat the Heat (and Bugs)

If there’s any chance temperatures will soar on your wedding day, choose dishes that hold up well in the heat. Avoid mayonnaise-based salads or creamy desserts that can spoil quickly. Your best bets are grilled meats, fresh vegetables, and fruit-based desserts. And don't forget to provide plenty of cold beverages to keep your guests hydrated. (You might also consider adding a bug spray station to ward off those pesky mosquitoes.)

Put Thought Into Logistics

Consider how the food will be served. Buffet-style is often easier for outdoor weddings, but you'll need to make sure the food is kept at safe temperatures. If you’d prefer a plated meal, make sure you have enough servers to efficiently serve everyone.

Think Presentation

Make your food and drinks visually appealing. Use colorful garnishes, attractive serving platters, and creative displays to make your spread look as good as it tastes.

Hire a Caterer with Experience

You always have the option of hiring a caterer who specializes in outdoor weddings. They'll be familiar with the challenges and have the expertise to make sure your food and drinks are delicious and safe, no matter the weather.

A Few Thoughts About Cake

And don't forget the centerpiece of your dessert table—the wedding cake. When choosing your cake for an outdoor celebration, consider both taste and resilience. Rich buttercream frostings may not hold up well in heat, so opt for sturdier options like fondant or whipped cream. Choose flavors that are refreshing and complement the season, like lemon, raspberry, or a fun, tropical twist.

 Talk to your baker about using fillings and frostings that are less likely to melt or soften in warm temperatures. And if you're worried about bugs, ask about having a smaller cake for display and cutting, while serving sheet cake to your guests.

Since The Bell Tower on 34th opened more than a decade ago, it has earned a reputation as the best wedding venue in Houston.

Our southeast Texas venue with a chapel, waterwall, and beautifully tended grounds, can accommodate both small and large weddings.

Learn more about getting married here.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

What You Should Know About Wedding Linens

Reception tables covered with white linen at The Bell Tower on 34th in Houston, TX

Ever wondered why wedding cake looks more elegant on a certain linen? Or why some tablecloths cost a small fortune? The world of wedding linens can be more involved than you might think.

With that in mind, we've pulled together a guide for you that includes materials and uses along with tips, trends, and some creative ideas to help you make informed choices during your wedding planning.

Materials

Let's start by taking a look at the tremendous variety of materials available to you.

Cotton

Lightweight, breathable, and affordable, cotton linens are a classic choice for weddings.

They come in a variety of colors and patterns, making them versatile and easy to coordinate with your wedding day theme.

Damask

Damask linens are known for their intricate, woven patterns and luxurious feel. They add an elegant touch to reception tables.

Embellished

If you'd like to infuse your big day with a touch of glamour, embellished linens adorned with beads, sequins, or embroidery can add a hint of sparkle and sophistication to your reception tables.

Lace

Delicate and romantic, lace table linens are a beautiful choice for weddings with a vintage or bohemian flair. They work especially well as overlays and table runners.

Linen (the fabric)

Linens made of linen fabric have a rustic charm and a slightly textured feel. They're perfect for creating a relaxed but elegant vibe.

Organza

This sheer, lightweight material can be used for overlays or runners. If you'd like to add a touch of whimsy and romance to your tables, organza is a perfect choice.

Polyester

Yes, polyester is a more affordable choice, but using this material doesn't mean you can't create beautiful reception tables. Polyester linens are available in a large range of colors and work well with most wedding formats and themes.

Raw Silk

With its natural luster and subtle texture, raw silk linens exude a sense of luxury and sophistication. It's a beautiful option for formal or black-tie weddings.

Satin

Smooth and glossy, satin linens have a rich, elegant feel. They can be used for tablecloths, napkins, or opulent chair covers.

Taffeta

This fabric is known for its crisp, slightly rough texture and sheen. Consider taffeta if you'd like to add a touch of drama and visual interest to your reception tables.

Velvet

Plush, luxurious velvet is ideal for creating a cozy, intimate atmosphere.

It works especially well for winter or evening weddings and adds an element of warmth to decor.

Uses: More Than Just Tablecloths

While tablecloths might be the most obvious linen choice, a whole world of other options exists to elevate your wedding décor.

Each type of linen serves a unique purpose:

Liners

Often the unsung heroes of table settings, liners are placed beneath tablecloths to provide an extra layer of protection against spills and stains. They also help to smooth out any imperfections in the table surface and create a more polished look.

Overlays

Want to add a touch of drama or a burst of color? Overlays are your answer. These decorative cloths are placed on top of tablecloths, offering an opportunity to introduce texture, patterns, or a contrasting hue. Popular choices include lace overlays for a romantic touch or sequined overlays for a glamorous feel.

Runners

Long, narrow runners are typically positioned along the center of tables.

They can be used to create a visual focal point, drawing the eye down the length of the table. Runners are also an excellent way to incorporate a bold pattern or color without overwhelming the entire table setting.

Linens for Chairs

Chair covers, sashes, and bands can transform ordinary chairs into elegant statements. They can be used to coordinate with your table linens or to add a contrasting accent.

Using chair linens is a fantastic opportunity to tie your entire décor scheme together and create a cohesive look.

Sizes for Rental

When renting linens, it's important to know the standard sizes to ensure a proper fit.

Tablecloths typically come in various sizes, such as 90x90 inches for a 60-inch round table, 108x108 inches for a 72-inch round table, and 120x120 inches for an 84-inch round table. For rectangular tables, common sizes include 90x156 inches for a 6-foot table and 90x180 inches for an 8-foot table.

Tips for Selecting Wedding Linens

The right linens can elevate your event décor from ordinary to extraordinary.

To make sure your choices harmonize with your overall vision, consider these factors:

Theme and Color Palette

Select linens that complement your event's theme and color scheme. If you're having a rustic wedding, natural fabrics like linen and burlap would be fitting, while a glamorous ballroom affair might call for luxurious satin or velvet.

Venue Style

Consider your wedding venue's ambiance when choosing linens. A formal ballroom might demand elegant, floor-length tablecloths, while a relaxed beach wedding could be enhanced with breezy, lightweight linens in pastel hues.

Mix and Match

Try experimenting with textures, patterns, and colors. Layering different linens can create depth and a more personalized look. For instance, pair a textured linen tablecloth with a smooth satin runner for a sophisticated touch. Just take care to maintain a cohesive look.

Fabric Care

Before falling in love with a particular fabric, check the care instructions. Some linens require special handling or professional cleaning, which might not be practical for your budget or timeline. Opt for durable, easy-care fabrics if you prefer a hassle-free approach.

Linen Trends

Stay ahead of the curve with these emerging linen trends:

-Sustainability: Couples are increasingly opting for eco-friendly and locally sourced linens, embracing a commitment to sustainability. Look for fabrics made from organic materials or recycled fibers to reduce your wedding's environmental impact.

-Textural Combinations: Mixing textures is a trend that's here to stay. Combining velvet with lace, satin with organza, or linen with burlap creates a multi-dimensional look that's both visually appealing and tactile.

-Metallics and Sequins: For a touch of glamour, consider try incorporating metallic or sequined linens into your décor. These shimmering fabrics add instant sparkle and can elevate the overall sophistication of your reception.

-Bold Patterns and Colors: Couples are moving away from traditional neutrals and embracing bold patterns and colors in their table linens. A few of the ways you can achieve this include vibrant florals, geometric prints, or animal prints.

The Bell Tower on 34th, which has earned a reputation for being the best wedding venue in Houston, is committed to helping recently engaged couples realize their wedding vision.

Our Instagrammable venue near the Houston Heights features full event-planning services.

Learn more about holding a wedding here.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

Timeless Elegance: Creating a Vintage-Inspired Wedding

Bride and groom in classic car at The Bell Tower on 34th

Ever dreamed of a wedding straight out of a classic film or a cherished family photo?

Are you drawn to the unique, the authentic, and the vintage charm of yesteryear?

If so, a vintage wedding might be a good fit. It's a perfect way to weave your love story into the fabric of time. It's a celebration where old-world elegance meets modern romance, where every detail whispers of a bygone era. Imagine twirling in a gown that evokes the glamour of the 1920s or exchanging vows in a garden that echoes the charm of the Victorian age.

Intrigued? Let's dive into some creative ideas for creating a beautiful vintage wedding that's uniquely you.

Save-the-Dates and Invitations for Classic Vintage Weddings

Your save-the-dates and invitations are the first glimpse your guests will have into your vintage-themed wedding.

They hint at the romance, elegance, and nostalgia that await.

Here's how to create stationery that transports your guests to another era:

Paper

Opt for luxurious paper stocks like cotton or linen for a tactile experience that evokes the past. Consider using deckled edges for an added touch of vintage charm.

Fonts

Elegant calligraphy or vintage-inspired fonts are key to creating an authentic look. Some popular choices include:

-Script fonts: Edwardian Script, Palace Script, Snell Roundhand

-Serif fonts: Bodoni, Didot, Garamond

-Display fonts: Cooper Black, Goudy Old Style, Clarendon

Colors

Choose a color palette that complements your chosen era. For example, muted pastels or jewel tones work nicely with Art Deco-inspired designs. And bolder colors like red and turquoise would be well-suited for a 1950s theme.

Embellishments

Touches like wax seals, ribbon, lace, or vintage postage stamps can add a touch of sophistication and personalize your stationery.

You could even include small mementos like dried flowers or antique buttons.

Designs

Look to vintage postcards, posters, or old photographs for design inspiration.

Incorporate elements like floral motifs or geometric patterns, elements that are associated with the era you'll be recreating at your wedding.

Wording

Use formal or poetic language to match the vintage aesthetic. For an especially romantic touch, iinclude quotes from classic literature or love letters.

Here's an example of possible save-the-date wording for a vintage wedding:

"Save the Date

for the wedding of

[Your Names]

[Date]

[Location]

Formal invitation to follow"

Here's an example of wording for a vintage wedding invitation:

"[Your Names]

request the pleasure of your company

at their marriage

on [Date]

at [Time]

[Location]

Reception to follow"

Vintage Attire for the Bride and Groom

On your wedding day, you'll be the stars of your very own vintage love story. Let your attire set the scene.

For the bride, the possibilities are endless. You could choose a glamorous gown inspired by the golden age of Hollywood, a romantic lace wedding dress with Victorian-era details, or a bohemian frock that evokes the carefree spirit of the 1960s.

For the groom, if you want a timeless and sophisticated look, consider a well-tailored three-piece suit in a classic fabric like wool or tweed. Choose a neutral color like navy, charcoal, or brown, and accessorize with a vintage tie, pocket square, and cufflinks. A boutonniere of fresh or dried flowers will add a touch of romance.

If your wedding has a more playful or casual vibe, the groom could opt for a retro-inspired look. Think high-waisted trousers, suspenders, a patterned shirt, and a newsboy cap or fedora. This look is perfect for a 1920s or 1950s themed wedding.

Vintage Hair and Jewelry for the Bride

Complement your vintage bridal attire with hairstyles and jewelry that evoke the era of your choice.

Here are some thoughts for hairstyle inspiration:

Soft, Romantic Waves

Flowing waves, loosely tousled or carefully pinned, exude elegance and would complement a variety of vintage styles. Could could recreate film noir actress Veronica Lake's peek-a-boo waves for a touch of 1940s glamour or the soft curls of a Gibson Girl for a Victorian-inspired look.

Finger Waves

These sculpted waves, popular in the 1920s and 1930s, offer a touch of drama and sophistication. They would pair beautifully with a sleek, fitted gown or a flapper-style dress.

Victory Rolls

A signature hairstyle of the 1940s, victory rolls are bold and playful, and they's add a touch of retro charm to your bridal look. They're perfect for a pin-up inspired wedding or a wartime-era theme.

Structured Updos

Intricate updos with braids, twists, or chignons are a great way to channel the elegance of a bygone era. Adorn them with vintage hair combs, jeweled pins, or fresh flowers.

Hair Accessories

Don't be afraid to experiment with vintage-inspired hair accessories like birdcage veils, headbands adorned with feathers or lace, or delicate floral hairpins. Elements like these can elevate your hairstyle and enhance your vintage look.

And here are some jewelry possibilities:

Pearls

A classic choice for vintage brides, pearls evoke elegance and sophistication.

You can go with a simple strand of pearls, a pearl drop necklace, or pearl earrings for a touch of understated glamour.

Cameos

These carved portraits, often featuring figures from mythology or history, would add a touch of antique charm to your ensemble. You can choose a cameo pendant, brooch, or earrings.

Art Deco Pieces

Geometric patterns, bold lines, and shimmering gemstones characterize Art Deco jewelry, which was particularly popular in the 1920s and 1930s. Possibilities include a statement necklace with intricate designs, a pair of dazzling earrings, or a bold cocktail ring to capture the glamour of the era.

Vintage Brooches

Repurpose a vintage brooch as a hair accessory or pin it to your bouquet for a sentimental touch. Choose a design that reflects your personal style and the era of your wedding theme.

Antique Rings

A family heirloom ring or a vintage engagement ring would add a touch of history and sentimentality to your bridal look. If you don't have one, consider browsing antique shops or online retailers for a unique and meaningful piece.

Vintage Touches for the Wedding Party

Extend your vintage theme to your bridal party by incorporating vintage-inspired elements into their attire.

Your bridesmaids, for example, could wear tea-length dresses in rich hues or delicate lace designs. They can accessorize their look with vintage-inspired jewelry or hair pieces.

For the groomsmen, you could recommend classic suits with suspenders, bow ties, or vests for a dapper, old-school look.

The Cocktail Party at Your Vintage Wedding

Cocktail hour is the perfect opportunity to transport your guests further into your vintage dream. Let the clinking of glasses and the hum of conversation mingle with the nostalgia of a bygone era.

Here are a few ideas to create a cocktail hour that's both sophisticated and unforgettable:

Libations

-Signature Cocktails: Craft a signature cocktail menu inspired by your chosen era. Think Gin Rickeys for a 1920s vibe, Mint Juleps for a Southern belle soirée, or Harvey Wallbangers for a groovy 1970s feel. Don't forget to name them with vintage flair.

-Vintage Glassware: Talk with your wedding venue about serving your drinks in vintage glassware for an extra touch of authenticity. Look for coupe glasses or highball glasses.

Cocktail Hour Ambiance

-Seating: Arrange plush velvet seating areas for guests to lounge and mingle. Look for antique sofas, armchairs, or chaise lounges in rich fabrics and colors.

-Lighting: Create a warm and intimate atmosphere with dimmed lighting. Use string lights, lanterns, or candles to cast a soft glow over the space.

-Music: Curate a playlist of vintage tunes that fit your chosen era. You could go with jazz for 1920s, big band for the 1940s, or period rock and roll for the 1950s.

-Decor: Incorporate vintage decor elements like antique mirrors, framed photographs, or vintage travel posters.

Vintage Floral Arrangements: Blooming with Timeless Elegance

Your wedding flowers will be more than just beautiful decorations; they'll be living works of art that capture the essence of your vintage vision.

Here are some ideas to create floral arrangements for your vintage wedding.

Roses

No flower says romance quite like a rose. Think about garden roses in soft hues of pink, peach, or ivory for a vintage feel. Or, you could go with antique varieties like Souvenir de la Malmaison or Charles de Mills for a truly unique touch.

Peonies

With their lush petals and delicate fragrance, peonies evoke a sense of old-world elegance.

Choose white or blush pink peonies for a classic look or try bolder colors like coral or burgundy for a dramatic statement.

Dahlias

These dramatic flowers with their layered petals come in a wide array of colors and shapes, making them a versatile choice for vintage floral arrangements.

Choose dinner plate dahlias for a show-stopping centerpiece or smaller varieties for boutonnieres and corsages.

Ranunculus

These delicate, multi-petaled blooms resemble miniature roses and would add a touch of whimsy to any arrangement. Choose ranunculus in pastel shades for a soft, romantic look.

Other Vintage Favorites

There are so many more possibilities for flowers at your vintage wedding. Take a look at blooms that were popular in bygone eras like hydrangeas, sweet peas, baby's breath, or carnations.

Complement your flowers with vintage vessels and accents. Possibilities include:

Antique Urns

Large, ornate urns would create a dramatic focal point for your wedding ceremony or reception. Look for urns made of materials like brass, copper, or silver.

Milk Glass Vases

The milky white hue and delicate patterns of milk glass vases evoke a sense of nostalgia. Use them to create charming centerpieces or accent tables throughout your wedding venue.

Copper Pots

Copper pots add a rustic touch to vintage floral arrangements. Fill them with wildflowers, herbs, or succulents.

Mercury Glass Vases

The shimmering surface of mercury glass adds a touch of glamour to arrangements. Look for vintage mercury glass vases in various shapes and sizes.

Vintage Accents

Incorporate vintage-style accents into your floral arrangements, possibly lace ribbons, antique brooches, or strings of pearls. You could also repurpose vintage handkerchiefs or doilies as unique vase wraps.

Vintage Reception Décor

Transform your wedding reception venue into a vintage wonderland with thoughtful decor choices.

Ideas for your vintage wedding decor include:

-Linen and lace: Drape your reception tables in luxurious fabrics like velvet, satin, or damask in rich jewel tones or muted pastels. Use vintage lace tablecloths or runners for a touch of delicate beauty.

-China and silverware: Set the tables with vintage china or mismatched patterns for a charming, eclectic look. Silverware can be antique silver or gold-toned for a touch of glamour.

Candles and centerpieces: Illuminate your tables with candlelight. Use antique candelabras, mercury glass votives, or mismatched vintage candle holders for a warm, inviting glow. Create centerpieces with floral arrangements in vintage vases, antique books, or collections of vintage trinkets.

-Lighting: Set the mood with soft, warm lighting. Use string lights, chandeliers with Edison bulbs, or antique lanterns to create a romantic ambiance.

-Furniture: Incorporate antique furniture pieces like settees, chaise lounges, or wingback chairs for cozy seating areas. Rent or borrow vintage tables, dressers, or trunks to use as bars, dessert displays, or guest book stations.

-Mirrors and Art: Adorn the walls with vintage mirrors in ornate, antique frames, paintings from the era you're featuring, or framed photographs. Try using vintage postcards or maps to create a unique wall display.

-Photo Displays: For your vintage-style wedding, showcase your love story with a display of photographs. Use antique frames, clothespins, or string lights to create a photo wall or table display.

-Antique props: Scatter antique props like vintage suitcases, typewriters, or globes throughout your wedding venue to add personality and character.

-Record players: Set up a vintage record player with a selection of classic tunes for guests to enjoy.

Remember, the key is to choose wedding décor elements that reflect your chosen era and create a cohesive vintage atmosphere. Don't be afraid to mix and match different textures, colors, and patterns as you select wedding decor to create a personalized space.

Cake Inspiration for Your Vintage Wedding

Your wedding cake should be a showstopper that captures the essence of your vintage wedding theme.

Consider classic designs like all-white cakes with intricate piping or lace details, or go with a luxurious metallic-accented cake with a Art Deco flair.

Incorporate vintage cake toppers, possibly figurines or fresh flowers, for an added touch of nostalgia.

Vintage Signage

Guide your guests through your vintage wedding celebration with stylish signage that complements your overall aesthetic.

Use vintage-inspired fonts or calligraphy on chalkboards, vintage mirrors, or reclaimed wood signs. Incorporate vintage frames or embellishments like lace or ribbons to add visual interest.

Vintage Music

Transport your guests through time during your upcoming wedding with a carefully curated music playlist inspired by your vintage theme.

Incorporate classics from the era you've chosen, whether it's big band sounds of the 1930s, the crooners of the 1950s, or the rock 'n' roll tunes of the 1960s. Another possibility is to hire a band or a DJ specializing in vintage music to keep your dance floor alive.

A Grand Exit in Vintage Style

After a day filled with timeless elegance and romantic charm, make your departure as memorable as your entrance.

A vintage getaway car is the perfect way to seal the deal on your vintage wedding and leave a lasting impression on your guests.

Choosing Your Chariot

Opt for a vintage car that embodies the era of your wedding theme. A 1920s Rolls-Royce, a 1950s Chevrolet Bel Air, or a 1960s Mustang convertible are all iconic choices that exude style and sophistication.

Or, you can go with less traditional options like a vintage VW bus, a horse-drawn carriage, or even a vintage bicycle built for two. These choices add a touch of whimsy and personality to your exit.

Decorating Your Getaway

Adorn your vintage vehicle with lush floral garlands or swags of greenery for a romantic touch, and hang a "Just Married" sign from the back of the car for a classic touch.

Another possibility is to add a touch of personalization with ribbons in your wedding colors, a custom license plate, or a vintage suitcase strapped to the roof rack.

More Vintage Wedding Ideas: Favors

Send your guests home with a memento that captures the essence of your vintage wedding.

You could offer favors like personalized matchboxes, vintage-inspired soaps or candles, or small bottles of liquor or wine with custom labels. Present them in vintage-inspired packaging like kraft boxes or muslin bags.

The Bell Tower on 34th, one of the leading wedding venues in Houston, is known for our beautiful grounds, full planning services, and talented chef.

Our venue serves couples throughout southeast Texas.

Learn more about holding a wedding here.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355


Choosing the Perfect Wedding Earrings: A Bride's Guide

Bride at The Bell Tower on 34th in Houston, Texas

Earrings: they're not just accessories, they're the exclamation points to your wedding day ensemble.

 Choosing the right pair can elevate your overall look, framing your face and complementing your gown. But with so many options, where do you begin?

 We have some tips and trends to help you, along with a look at popular earring styles, metals, gemstones.

Factors to Consider When Choosing Wedding Earrings

Before diving into the different earring styles, let’s explore a few key factors that will guide your selection process:

Face Shape

Your face shape plays a big role in determining which earring styles will flatter you the most. For example, diamond or oval-shaped faces tend to look best with longer, dangling earrings, while round faces are complemented by studs or smaller hoops.

Hair Style

Will you be wearing your hair up or down? Your hairstyle can influence the visibility and impact of your earrings. If you plan on an updo, consider statement earrings that will be easily visible.

If you prefer to wear your hair down, opt for smaller, more delicate styles that won't get tangled or hidden.

Neckline

Another consideration is the neckline of your wedding dress.

A strapless or sweetheart neckline could call for larger, more dramatic earrings, while a high neckline or embellished collar might be better suited for understated studs or drops.

Personal Style

Above all, your wedding earrings should reflect your personal taste and style.

Don't feel obligated to follow trends or conventions if they don't resonate with you. Your wedding day is about celebrating your unique beauty and individuality.

Wedding Earring Styles

Now, let's explore some of the most popular types of earrings and their benefits for brides.

Chandelier Earrings

These glamorous earrings feature multiple tiers of dangling gems or metal components, creating a cascading effect.

Chandelier earrings are perfect for brides who want to make a bold statement and add a touch of drama to their bridal look. They are particularly stunning with updo hairstyles and strapless or sweetheart necklines.

Cluster Earrings

Cluster earrings feature a cluster of gemstones or pearls arranged in a symmetrical pattern, often with a central larger stone surrounded by smaller ones.

These earrings offer a sophisticated and elegant look, making them a popular choice for brides seeking a timeless and classic style.

Dangle Earrings

Dangle earrings are versatile and can range from simple and understated to elaborate and eye-catching.

They feature a gemstone, pearl, or metal component that hangs gracefully from the ear lobe. These earrings are flattering for many face shapes and can complement a variety of wedding dress styles.

Drop Earrings

Similar to dangle earrings, drop earrings feature a single gemstone or metal component that hangs from the ear lobe. But drop earrings tend to be shorter and more streamlined, making them a great option if you prefer a more understated look.

Ear Climbers

Ear climbers are a unique and trendy style that wraps around the ear, creating the illusion of multiple piercings.

These earrings can add a touch of bohemian flair to your bridal look and are a good choice if you have multiple piercings or want a distinctive and eye-catching accessory.

Hoop Earrings

Hoop earrings are a classic and timeless choice that can add a touch of elegance to your bridal look.

They come in various sizes and styles, from delicate and understated to bold and attention-grabbing. Hoops can be a great option if you have a round or oval face.

Huggies

Huggies, also known as huggie earrings, are a type of small hoop that hugs the earlobe closely.

They’re a strong choice if you’re aiming for a subtle and understated look, or if you prefer to keep your hair down and don't want your earrings to get tangled.

Stud Earrings

Stud earrings are a versatile and classic choice that can work with a variety of wedding dress styles and necklines.

With stud earrings, you can achieve a look that’s simple and understated or elaborate and ornate.

Studs are a great option if you’d like a timeless and elegant look.

Teardrop Earrings

Teardrop earrings feature a gemstone or pearl in a teardrop shape that hangs gracefully from the ear lobe.

These earrings can add a touch of romance and femininity to your bridal look and are often a flattering choice for many face shapes.

Threader Earrings

Threader earrings feature a gemstone or metal component that threads through the ear lobe, creating a sleek and minimalist look. These earrings can be a great option if you’re looking for a contemporary and on-trend accessory.

Tips for Brides with Multiple Piercings

If you have multiple piercings on your ears, you have the opportunity to create a truly unique and personalized bridal look.

One option is to mix different earring styles like studs and climbers or huggies and dangling earrings.

Just be mindful of balance and proportion to avoid an overwhelming or cluttered appearance.

Metals and Gemstones

When it comes to metals for your wedding earrings, your options are plentiful.

Let's take a look at some popular choices and their pros and cons:

Yellow Gold

Yellow gold earrings add warmth and richness to your bridal look. If you prefer a more modern look, you may find gold a bit too traditional.

White Gold

White gold offers a more contemporary and sleek look, complementing many wedding dress styles. It's also a great choice for those who prefer a cooler tone.

Rose Gold

Rose gold has gained popularity in recent years. It can add a romantic and feminine touch to your bridal accessories, and it’s a beautiful choice if you’re interested in a unique and on-trend look.

Platinum

Platinum is a precious and durable metal that offers a brilliant, white luster. While it's a luxurious choice, platinum earrings can be more expensive than other metal options.

Gemstones: Diamonds

When it comes to gemstones, diamonds are a popular and classic choice for wedding earrings. Diamond studs or dangling diamond earrings can add a touch of elegance and sparkle to your bridal ensemble. But diamond earrings can be costly, so consider your budget carefully.

Pearls

These are another timeless and elegant choice for wedding earrings. They can add a touch of sophistication and romantic charm to your look. Pearl studs or drop earrings are popular options that can complement a variety of wedding dress styles.

Other Gemstones

If you're seeking something a little more colorful and unique, there are many other options.

Sapphires, emeralds, rubies, and other precious gemstones can add a pop of color and personality to your bridal look. Just be mindful of the gemstone's hue. You want it to complement your wedding color scheme and overall aesthetic.

Styling Tips

As you make your final earring selections, ask yourself if the pairs you’re considering complement your overall bridal look.

Here are some styling tips to keep in mind:

Hair and Face Shape

As we mentioned earlier, consider your face shape and hairstyle when choosing your earrings. If you have an oval or diamond-shaped face, longer, dangling earrings can be incredibly flattering. If you have a round face, opt for studs or smaller hoops to elongate your features.

Wedding Dress

Your wedding dress should be the star of the show, so choose earrings that complement its style and neckline.

If you have a strapless or sweetheart neckline, consider larger, more dramatic earrings that will draw attention to your face and décolletage. For high necklines or dresses with embellished collars, opt for delicate studs or drops that won't compete with your neckline's details.

Hair Accessories

If you plan to wear a veil, headpiece, or hair accessories, ensure your earrings complement them without creating a cluttered or overwhelming look. Simple studs or delicate drops can be a beautiful choice when paired with an ornate headpiece.

Remember, the key to nailing your bridal earring game is to choose pieces that reflect your personal style while complementing your overall wedding day look.


Since The Bell Tower on 34th opened more than a decade ago, it has earned a reputation as the best wedding venue in Houston.

Our southeast Texas venue with a chapel, waterwall, and beautifully tended grounds, can accommodate both small and large weddings.

Learn more about getting married here.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355


Aisle Be Seeing You: Creating a Wedding Aisle That Wows

Wedding aisle lined with lush yellow rose arrangements at The Bell Tower on 34th in Houston, Texas

Move over, red carpet. Wedding aisles are getting a major upgrade. Statement aisles are all about making a grand entrance and setting the tone for an unforgettable celebration. We're talking floral chandeliers, twinkling lights, and so much more.

And if this idea intrigues you, we have some ideas to inspire you.

A Closer Look at Statement Aisles

A statement aisle is simply a wedding aisle that has been decorated and styled in an eye-catching, intentional way, going well beyond a basic aisle runner.

Statement aisles typically incorporate elements like flowers, greenery, candles, rugs, drapery, lanterns and more to create a "wow" factor as guests arrive at your wedding ceremony, and you make your grand entrance.

Having a statement aisle at your wedding is a great way to amplify the beauty and ambiance of your ceremony space. You can go with something dramatic and over the top or lovely and romantic for an intimate wedding. The point is to create something unique that reflects your personalities.

Why are statement aisles such a big trend right now? Well, for one thing, couples are leaning toward more unique, personalized weddings that allow them to showcase their styles and design vision from the moment guests arrive. Statement aisles are a powerful way to accomplish that.

Not only that, but outdoor wedding ceremonies are extremely popular now, too, and they provide couples with a blank canvas to build a custom aisle setting.

Creating a Stunning Statement Aisle

If you want to dazzle your guests with your own show-stopping aisle decor during your wedding ceremony, keep these tips in mind:

Consider the Big Picture

Choose aisle decor elements that coordinate with your wedding style, color palette, and vision.

As with all of your wedding decor, aim to create a cohesive look.

Don't Forget Your Budget

Work your statement aisle into your budget appropriately. Flowers, drapery and other elements can add up.

Take Some Measurements

Consider your venue space and aisle length. You may need more or less wedding aisle decor depending on those factors.

Think About Your Guests' Needs

Make sure you're not blocking guests' views of the wedding ceremony or making the aisle path too narrow to walk down comfortably.

Don't Forget About Lighting

Consider adding twinkle lights, lanterns, or uplighting to create a magical atmosphere, especially for an evening wedding ceremony.

Statement Aisle Ideas

Now for the fun part: visualizing all the creative ways to style a statement aisle.

Here are some ideas to consider:

Wedding Aisle Decor for a Formal Wedding Ceremony

-Create a wedding aisle "runner" of lush rose petals in your color palette.

-Line the aisle with stately golden lanterns holding candles.

-Use glamorous lengths of velvet fabric decorated with foliage garlands.

-Create a dazzling effect with a mirrored aisle that reflects the light and adds a touch of grandeur.

-Suspend sparkling crystal chandeliers above the aisle for a glamorous and romantic atmosphere.

-Project your monogram onto the aisle using a gobo light for a personalized touch.

-Frame the aisle with lush floral walls in cascading arrangements for a luxurious and elegant feel.

-Use flowing fabrics like silk or organza to create an ethereal and dramatic effect.

Decorating Your Wedding Aisle for a Rustic Wedding Ceremony

-Make a rug-lined aisle with vintage patterned pieces.

-Use wine barrels topped with floral arrangements to line your wedding aisle.

-Hang flower baskets and loose greenery from Shepherds' hooks along the aisle.

-Lay down a pathway of reclaimed wooden planks for a natural and rustic feel.

-Use tree stumps of varying heights as platforms for floral arrangements or lanterns.

-Line the aisle with mason jars filled with wildflowers or candles for a charming and simple look.

-Drape twinkling string lights overhead for a magical and enchanting ambiance.

-Use hay bales as seating for guests or as bases for floral arrangements for a truly rustic touch.

-Create a natural wedding arch at the start of the aisle using branches, vines, or wildflowers.

For a Romantic Vibe at Your Wedding Ceremony

-Decorate the aisle with a profusion of candles and soft candlelight.

-Create clouds of romantic draped fabrics like chiffon or organza.

-Line your wedding aisle with an overabundance of lush flowers, garlands, and flower petals.

For a Colorful Pop

-Line the ceremony aisle with bright, multi-colored potted plants and flowers.

-Use vibrant Persian or Turkish rugs as a runner.

-Incorporate patterned streamers, paper lanterns, or umbrellas along your wedding aisle.

Wedding Aisle Décor for an Outdoor Wedding Ceremony

-Line your wedding aisle with modern lanterns hanging at various heights.

-Create a petal-lined aisle over a runner of plush green moss for your outdoor ceremony.

-Create a "roof" over the wedding aisle using draped sheer fabrics and greenery.

-Suspend a canopy of hanging florals, vines, and greenery over the aisle.

-For stunning ceremony decor, use tree branches or birch poles to line the sides of your aisle, and decorate them with dangling florals, vines, and complementary design elements.

-Line your aisle with shepherd's hooks holding apothecary bottles with single stem blooms.

-Use stepping stones or slices of wood along the aisle for a rustic walkway.

-Incorporate arches or geometric ceremony backdrops along the aisle.

Wedding Aisle Ideas for Spring Weddings

-Line with shepherd's hooks holding hanging flower baskets.

-Use a pretty pastel pattern fabric runner.

-Incorporate flowering branches like cherry blossoms.

Wedding Aisle Possibilities for a Summer Wedding Day

-Line the aisle with potted palms or tropical plants.

-Use bright tissue paper flower "bombs" along the aisle.

-Decorate with chic modern seagrass or woven rugs.

Aisle Decor For a Beach Wedding

Bring the gorgeous natural scenery of the beach right into your ceremony aisle decor with these idyllic statement aisle looks:

-Create an aisle runner by lining the path with collected seashells, starfish, and sand dollars.

-Use driftwood pieces of varying sizes to line the aisle, topped with pillar candles and floral accents.

-For a boho beach wedding vibe, line the aisle with vintage rugs in blues and neutrals, with pampas grass set atop them.

-Mimic the ocean waves with hanging capiz shell garlands and strands of shimmery pearlescent beads.

-Incorporate glass cylinder vases filled with layered sands and seashells, accented with candles and fresh florals.

-Get playful by lining the aisle with vibrant beach balls or paper umbrellas in punch colors.

-Add chic natural textures with aisle accents like woven rattan lanterns, beach grass pokes, or even surfboards.

-Give guests a sense of the beach oasis with potted palm trees lining the ceremony aisle path.

Statement Wedding Aisle Ideas For Fall Weddings

-Line the aisle with pumpkins, lanterns and foliage garlands.

-Use luxe furry or velvet rugs in jewel tones.

-Incorporate candleholders or vases filled with vibrant fall flowers into your statement aisle decor.

Wedding Aisle Decor For Winter Weddings

-Use a crisp white runner with pinecone and evergreen garlands,

-Line your wedding aisle with birch wood cylinders topped with candles.

-Incorporate sparkly elements like sequined fabrics or metallic accents into your wedding aisle decor.

Wedding Aisle Decor For Desert Weddings

Embrace the natural beauty and earthy tones of the desert landscape by incorporating these elements into your ceremony aisle decor:

-Use vintage Persian or Moroccan rugs as vibrant colored aisle "runners."

-Line the aisle with potted cacti and succulents in earthy tones.

-Create a meandering aisle path lined with pillar candles nestled in the sand.

-Hang Moroccan lanterns at varying heights along the aisle.

-Incorporate natural wood elements like driftwood pieces or slices of bark.

-Drape the wedding aisle with sheer fabric runners in tones of sand, rust. or turquoise.

For Texas Weddings

If you want your wedding day to capture the spirit and rustic charm of the Lone Star State, consider these Texas-themed statement aisle elements:

-Line your wedding aisle with galvanized metal troughs filled with wildflowers, wheat bundles. or cotton branches.

-Create an entrance arbor over the aisle using reclaimed wood branches or vintage wagon wheels.

-For a pop of Texas chic, alternate potted cacti and leather fringe plant stands down the aisle.

-Line the wedding aisle with vintage sodas crates, milk jugs, or burlap sack accents.

-Hang festoon string lights or rustic lanterns above the aisle.

For a Glamorous, Dramatic Wedding Aisle

-Use a bold saturated color like red or royal blue for your fabrics and fresh flowers.

-Line the ceremony aisle with gilded lanterns, candelabras, and lots of candles.

-Decorate extravagantly with an abundance of fresh flowers and lush greenery.

-Create a dazzling mirrored aisle by lining both sides with leaning full-length mirrors.

The options are truly endless when it comes to creating a statement wedding aisle for your ceremony space.

When you're done, you'll have an absolutely stunning entrance way that leaves your guests awestruck from the moment they arrive and sets the perfect tone for your ceremony.

The Bell Tower on 34th, one of Houston’s leading wedding venues with a chapel, is committed to helping recently engaged couples realize their wedding vision.

Our venue, a short drive from downtown Houston, is designed to provide seamless transitions from ceremony to cocktail hour to wedding reception.

Contact us to schedule a visit.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355



Infusing Texas Flair Into Your Wedding Decor

Bride and groom's grand exit at a wedding at The Bell Tower on 34th in Houston, TX

If a deep love for all things Texas is something that you and your partner share, why not showcase that passion when you get married? Infusing your wedding decorations with Lone Star flair can add a personal touch to your wedding day.

We have suggestions that will help you wrangle all those decor details during your event planning and create a celebration that's as unforgettable as a Texas sunset.

Let’s get started on planning a wedding that truly reflects your love for the Lone Star State.

Texas Wedding Decor: Your Ceremony

Set the tone from the start by dressing up your ceremony space with Texas-inspired decor.

Something as simple as a burlap aisle runner will give off a rustic, ranch-style vibe. You can line the aisle with potted cacti, galvanized metal tins filled with wildflowers, or bark-covered vases holding vibrant blooms like Indian blankets or bluebonnets.

For an outdoor ceremony, you can create a beautiful backdrop by suspending an antique metalwork gate or rustic wooden doors from sturdy poles. Decorate it with cascading vines, sunflowers, and sprigs of cotton arranged in galvanized buckets on either side.

Cocktail Hour Decor

During cocktail hour at your wedding, create a chic lounge area with mismatched vintage sofas and armchairs reupholstered in cowboy-inspired fabrics like cowhide or Southwestern prints.

Complete your look with cowhide rugs, rustic wooden side tables, and metallic buckets brimming with Texas drinks like Shiner beers and ranch waters.

A "Welcome Y'all" chalkboard sign in elegant script will help set a warm, hospitable tone.

You can also scatter hay bales around the space to use as rustic cocktail tables topped with bandana runners.

Reception Decor for Your Texas Wedding

For your reception tables, display cowboy boot centerpiece holders overflowing with succulents and cactus arrangements and table runners made from burlap or bandana fabrics.

Top the tablecloths with themed accents like tiny cowboy boot bottle openers or Texas-shaped wood coaster favors.

More creative possibilities:

-Replace plain table numbers with vintage road signs or cut numbers from rusted metal sheets.

-Go minimal with basic white plates and glasses, bringing in pops of Texas flair through red gingham napkins and mason jars wrapped in twine holding fresh wildflower sprigs.

-Decorate your escort card or seating chart display with state iconography like longhorn skulls, antlers, or cast iron stars.

-For a particularly dramatic effect, create a backdrop for photos from an old wagon wheel wreath wrapped in twinkling string lights.

-Incorporate elements of East Texas charm by using reclaimed wood signs with hand-painted messages like "Love is Sweet" or "Happily Ever After."

-Add vintage oil lanterns and hurricane lamps to your table settings for a country wedding feel.

-Feature a dessert table with traditional East Texas pecan pie, peach cobbler, or sweet tea cupcakes, decorated with gingham ribbons and lace.

For more traditional tablescapes, use colorful Mexican oil cloth or turquoise beaded table runners as a base. Then decorate with terra cotta pots spilling over with zinnias, marigolds, and lantana blooms or playful mini cactus and succulent favors for guests to take home.

Lighting and Other Elements

Highlight your Texas wedding with twinkling string lights and rustic lanterns creating a warm, enchanting ambiance.

Integrate these elements by wrapping string lights around pillars or hanging market lights above lounge areas. Place votive candles inside mason jars, vintage speckled enamel pitchers, or hollowed-out boots for quirky, country wedding accents.

In addition to your lighting, other whimsical touches could include hay bale rounds for cozy conversation nooks, galvanized tin watering cans spilling over with fresh florals, or an antique truck leaving your guest book and gift table.

For a fun interactive element, create a "picture yourself in Texas" backdrop using vintage doors, corrugated tin, or weathered wood where guests can snap fun pics using provided Texas-themed props like cowboy hats and bandanas.

Flowers and Color Palettes

Texas opens the door to so many beautiful bloom varieties and vivid, festive color palettes to incorporate throughout your wedding decor.

Some iconic floral options for your Texas wedding include prickly pear cactus, Indian blankets, Mexican sage, bluebonnets, sunflowers, roses, zinnias, and cosmos.

For rich, bold southwestern desert hues, build a palette around shades of burnt orange, earthy red, golden yellow, turquoise, and green.

Or take inspiration from a traditional Mexican serape blanket with jewel tones like fuchsia, green, and cobalt blue.

If you prefer a more rustic aesthetic, use muted earth tones like sage green, terracotta, and tan as a base accented with pops of earthy red, mustard yellow, and indigo. Or opt for an elegant take on southwestern style by pairing neutral tones of ivory and champagne with metallic copper and peach.

Infusing your wedding with personal flair makes it so much more meaningful. For Texas lovebirds, there's no better way to do that than by celebrating the sights, colors, and rustic charm of the Lone Star State through your decor and design.

The Bell Tower on 34th is a leading Luxury Wedding Venue in Houston, TX.

Our elegant venue, featuring a grand staircase and beautiful garden setting, is a short drive from downtown Houston.

Contact us to schedule a tour.

 The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

Wedding Shower Themes to Make Her Day Sparkle

Patio area at The Bell Tower on 34th wedding and event venue in Houston, Texas.

When it comes to themed events, we've seen it all at our Texas wedding and event venue. Classical garden parties. Over-the-top themed extravaganzas. Heart-warming family events.

We’ve also seen our share of successful bridal showers here.

For this blog, we thought we’d draw upon our experience to put together a list of bridal shower theme ideas.

If you’re planning a shower for a bride-to-be in your life, these ideas can be a resource for you. You can run with one of them, build upon it with your own unique touches, or mix and match from multiple bridal shower party ideas.

Whatever you go with, we have no doubt that the bride-to-be you’re honoring and your bridal shower guests will love it.

Romantic and Vintage-Inspired Wedding Shower Themes

Tying the Knot

Bring this wedding shower theme to life by decorating with knots made from ribbon, twine and twine.

Incorporate pretzels into the decor by creating a pretzel bar with a variety of dipping sauces and toppings, setting up a DIY pretzel necklace station or a pretzel ring toss game, and by displaying decorative pretzel shapes made from icing or fondant.

Greet guests with a knotted heart wreath on the front door. For favors, give out jars of honey with punny labels like "Thanks for KNOT missing this shower!"

Antique Garden Wedding Shower

Set the tone for this wedding shower with invitations featuring vintage botanical illustrations, antique script fonts, or faded floral patterns. For an eco-friendly touch, use recycled paper or seed paper.

To create the atmosphere you’re going for, focus on soft, romantic colors like blush pink, lavender, sage green, and creamy white. Use antique lace, burlap, or linen fabrics for tablecloths and runners.

For your floral arrangements, fill vintage vases, teapots, and watering cans with fresh blooms like roses, peonies, hydrangeas, and lavender. Incorporate trailing vines and greenery for a romantic, overgrown feel.

This theme would be perfect for a tea station with a variety of loose-leaf teas, antique teacups, and tiered serving trays filled with finger sandwiches, scones, and petit fours.

If you serve a meal, offer a menu of fresh, seasonal dishes inspired by the garden like salads with edible flowers, herb-infused cocktails, and fruit tarts.

Vanity Affair

Indulge the bride's girly side with a glamorous boudoir theme.

Set the scene with fainting couches, oversized ornate mirrors, perfume bottles, and makeup vanities.

Invite your guests to get dolled up with a makeup station. For party favors, gift individually wrapped soaps and bath products.

Food possibilities include pink-themed finger foods like mini sandwiches with rose-shaped bread, heart-shaped quiches, deviled eggs with edible flower garnish, or miniature pink macarons with cream cheese filling.

For drinks, you can craft a special cocktail like a "Blushing Bride" with champagne, raspberry liqueur, and a splash of cranberry juice. Or, offer a "Pink Lady" with gin, lemon juice, and grenadine. For those who prefer non-alcoholic beverages, serve sparkling pink lemonade, a refreshing cucumber mint spritzer, or flavored water with berries and citrus slices.

Another option is to set up a fun "potion" bar with juices, sodas, and garnishes like edible glitter, cherries, and fresh herbs so your shower guests can create their own custom drinks.

Funny and Light-Hearted Wedding Shower Themes

Toiletries and Towels

To set the mood at your wedding shower, hang playful signs like "Showered with Love" or "Love Stinks" (for the bathroom). Decorate with towel animals like swans, elephants, or a bride and groom. Leave instructions for guests to try their hand at towel origami. You can hang a patterned shower curtain as a backdrop for a photo booth or gift table, and fill glass vases with rubber ducks and bath beads for quirky centerpieces.

For your menu, include things like “Potty" Pies: Mini chicken pot pies or hand pies filled with the bride's favorite ingredients; "Brush"chetta, bruschetta with various toppings; or “Tub" dip, a layered dip served in a bathtub-shaped dish.

If you're thinking of including bridal shower games, the classic toilet paper wedding dress game would be a perfect fit for this them. Divide guests into teams and challenge them to create the best wedding dress using only toilet paper.

Or…have a blindfolded Toilet Paper Toss. Blindfold guests and have them try to toss a roll of toilet paper into a basket.

Another nice touch would be a DIY bath bomb station. Set up an area with ingredients for guests to create their own custom-scented bath bombs.

Coed Night at the Movies

Who says men can't enjoy the fun of bridal showers? For a modern, co-ed approach, throw an interactive movie night with cinema-themed decor.

Create a Hollywood vibe by rolling out a red carpet and having a "paparazzi" friend take photos of guests as they arrive.

You can decorate the walls with posters of the couple's favorite movies, or create custom posters with their faces superimposed on iconic movie scenes.

You can even have a project and screen: Rent or borrow a projector and screen to play the movie, or set up a TV with a streaming service.

For food, think about popcorn in different flavors (butter, caramel, cheddar), movie candy like M&Ms and Junior Mints, hot dogs, pizza, and sliders.

Create signature cocktails for the wedding shower based on the couple's favorite movie characters or genres ("The Godfather" Old Fashioned, "Bond-tini," "Harry Potter" Butterbeer).

Other fun additions include movie trivia games, movie-themed charades, or an awards ceremony with awards like "Best Supporting Role," "Most Likely to Star in a Rom-Com," or "Best Dressed."

Around the House Race

Another bridal shower idea is to transform the wedding shower into a silly scavenger hunt by hiding household supplies around the venue.

Split guests into teams and award prizes to the first group who retrieves the complete list of cleaning tools, kitchen gadgets, and other home essentials for the bride-to-be.

Decorate your wedding shower venue with household items like colorful cleaning supplies, oversized kitchen utensils, and laundry baskets filled with towels and linens.

For clues, write clever, pun-filled hints that lead guests to different locations where they can find the hidden items.

Hide the items in unexpected places, like a whisk in a flower pot or a spatula taped under a table. Make the clues as fun and challenging as possible.

The first team to collect all the items and complete the photo challenge wins a grand prize, like a gift card to a home goods store or a set of matching aprons for the couple.

If you want to go a step further, serve snacks and drinks with names that tie into the theme, like "Dust Bunny" cookies or "Scrub-a-Dub-Dub" punch.

Bridal Shower Themes for the Exceptional Bride

Retro Housewife

For the domestic diva who loves all things vintage, what could be better than a housewife-themed wedding shower?

Encourage your wedding shower guests to dress in their best 1950s ensembles, complete with pearls and perfectly coiffed hairstyles. Host a baking competition and award prizes for the most scrumptious (and authentic) dishes like tuna casserole or jello molds.

Video Game Love Story

She's a gamer at heart, so why not honor her favorite pastime at her wedding shower?

This whimsical theme takes inspiration from iconic video games. Decorate with faux coin blocks, pixelated scenery, and familiar characters.

Ask guests to come dressed as their favorite video game personalities.

You could even reenact the couple's love story through a skit or slideshow narrated in a vintage 8-bit video game style.

Texas Two-Step Wedding Shower

Give a big "Howdy!" to this boot-scootin' bridal shower celebrating the bride's love for all things Texan.

This wedding shower is a rootin' tootin' good time filled with Lone Star State charm and southern hospitality.

Embrace a rustic aesthetic with wooden accents, mason jars filled with wildflowers or sunflowers, and bandanas tied around chairs. To amp-up the Lone Star flair, hang Texas flags, string lights shaped like stars, and decorate with cowboy hats and boots.

You also can set up a photo booth with props like cowboy hats, bandanas, toy horses, and a Texas-shaped cutout.

Food and drink possibilities for this bridal shower include a spread of Tex-Mex favorites like queso dip, guacamole, fajitas, tacos, chili, and chips and salsa. Or, cater in some mouthwatering Texas barbecue with brisket, ribs, pulled pork, and all the fixings.

Bake or order custom cookies in the shape of Texas, and offer signature drinks like margaritas, palomas, ranch water, and Shiner Bock beer. Don't forget to have plenty of sweet tea and lemonade on hand.


Since The Bell Tower on 34th opened more than a decade ago, it has earned a reputation as the best wedding venue in Houston.

Our southeast Texas venue with a chapel, waterwall, and beautifully tended grounds, can accommodate both small and large weddings.

Learn more about getting married here.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355


Wedding Photo Display Ideas

Vintage photo of a sailor displayed on an antique typewriter, part of a photo display at The Bell Tower on 34th wedding venue in Houston, TX.

Your wedding day is a celebration of the journey you and your partner have been on together—the memories made, the obstacles overcome, and the love that has only grown stronger over time. And one of the best ways to celebrate that love story is to create a wedding photo display that captures your most poignant moments and milestones.

Your photo display—whether it's childhood snapshots, candids of your first date, engagement photos, or family portraits—personalizes your wedding celebration. It's a way to relieve meaningful memories and help guests connect with you.

If you're looking to incorporate photos into your wedding day, we have some inspiring ideas, helpful tips, and trends in wedding photo displays for you.

More Reasons for Photo Displays at Your Wedding

Before we dive into the creative possibilities, let's take a closer look at the positive impact a photo display can have on your wedding.

-They tell your love story in a meaningful, artistic way.

-Photos can honor loved ones who have passed away or couldn't attend.

-A wedding photo display can capture memories from your childhood and relationship journey.

-Displaying photos encourages guests to mingle and spark conversations.

-A wedding photo display is a decorative element that adds visual interest to your big day.

Displaying Photos at the Ceremony

Your ceremony is the heart of your wedding day. Here are some ideas for showcasing images during this special part of the celebration:

-Line the aisle with framed photos of you and your sweetheart at different ages and stages of your relationship.

-Create a photo backdrop behind where you'll exchange vows using prints in various sizes and frames.

-Display framed childhood photos of you and your partner on stands near the altar or ceremony space.

Memoriam Photo Display

Honoring loved ones who have passed on your wedding day is a heartfelt way to include them in the celebration.

A dedicated memorial photo display can serve as a touching tribute and a place for your guests to share memories.

Here are a few approaches to consider:

Themed Table

Designate a small table or area specifically for the memorial display. Choose a tablecloth in a muted color or a fabric with subtle patterns.

Framed Photos

Select a few meaningful photos of those you wish to remember, possibly even some of their wedding photos. Arrange these images in various sized frames, or create a unified look with matching frames.

Personal Touches

Include items that were special to your loved ones. This could be a cherished book, a piece of jewelry, a favorite hat, or a small collection of items that represent their personality.

Candles and Flowers

Soft candlelight and fresh or silk flowers can add a sense of warmth and peace to your display. Include flowers in colors that were favorites of those you're remembering.

Sign or Note

A simple sign that says "In Loving Memory" or a handwritten note expressing your sentiments can provide a focal point and offer context for your guests.

Guest Book or Memory Jar

Place a guest book or decorative jar with notecards nearby so guests can share their memories of loved ones.

Reception Photo Display Ideas

Your reception is a blank canvas for expressing your creativity through photo displays. Here are some possibilities:

The Photo Table

This is one of the most popular approaches to a wedding photo display.

Simply arrange framed photos of varying sizes on one or more tables at your wedding venue's entrance or near guest seating. Include photos of yourselves, family photos, baby photos, photos of places you've visiting: anything with special meaning.

Add details like photo books, candles, and thematic accents.

Photo Walls and Backdrops

Make a big statement by devoting an entire wall or backdrop area to your wedding photo display.

These large-scale presentations can create an eye-catching focal point for your guests to admire and snap selfies in front of.

Or, trying draping photos from suspended pieces of decor, attaching them to a free-standing frame or panel, or using clotheslines and binder clips for a trendy, rustic vibe.

Photo Integrations

Get creative by incorporating photos into other décor elements like signs, centerpieces, favors, and more.

Some trendy ways to pull off this kind of wedding photo display:

-Etching or printing photos onto glassware, mirrors or acrylic table numbers.

-Using photos as coasters.

-Printing images onto fabric runners, napkins, or—if you want to go all out—a custom dance floor wrap.

-Having photos printed onto wooden or lucite place cards.

-Decoupaging photos onto vases or lanterns.

The Polaroid Station

Why not let your wedding guests get in on the fun with an engaging photo experience?

Polaroid or instant cameras are all the rage, allowing guests to snap candids and leave notes or well-wishes in a designated album or frame.

Provide props and pretty backgrounds for memorable snapshots.

Childhood Photo Display

Memorialize your "childhood sweetheart" days by incorporating throwback photos from your early years.

Display photos like school portraits, sports team shots, family photos, prom pics, and other nostalgic images together on a tabletop or bulletin board. Or get really creative by having them printed onto playing cards, Jenga blocks, or other unique surfaces.

Another possibility is to include childhood photos of your wedding party members.

Reception Table Photos

Don't forget your wedding guests' tables. Adding one or two framed photos to each table setting or centerpiece is an easy way to spread your love story throughout your reception space.

You can coordinate the images based on table numbers or names, or simply use an assortment of your favorite romantic or family photos.

Pet Pawtraits

For many couples, fur babies have a particularly special place in their hearts.

If you'll be including your pets in your wedding festivities, set up a special display just for them featuring their cutest photos, whether solo shots or pics with you and your partner. After all, these are important family photos, too.

Outdoor Wedding Photos

Having an outdoor wedding? There are plenty of ways to incorporate your wedding photo display into a natural setting:

-Suspend photos from trees using ribbons or attach them to a rustic wooden backdrop.

-Frame photos and place them along fences, ledges, or stairs.

-Set up a clothesline photo display between two trees or poles.

-Use potted topiaries, freestanding metal, or wooden grids to clip or attach photos.

No matter how you choose to approach your wedding photo display, the key is to have fun with it and let your love story shine through.

So start scouring those childhood albums and camera rolls, print out some of your favorite snapshots, and get ready to incorporate them into your big day in a way that is uniquely representative of you and your spouse-to-be's one-of-a-kind romance.

Since The Bell Tower on 34th opened more than a decade ago, it has earned a reputation as the best wedding venue in Houston.

Our southeast Texas venue with a chapel, waterwall, and beautifully tended grounds, can accommodate both small and large weddings.

Learn more about getting married here.

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(713) 868-2355

Your Guide to Creating a Wedding Seating Chart

Reception table with place cards, each on a mini potted cactus, at The Bell Tower on 34th in Houston, TX

One of the most daunting tasks for any bride and groom is creating the seating chart for their wedding reception.

With so many family dynamics, friend groups, and plus-ones to consider, it can be challenging to figure out where everyone should sit. Challenging, but not impossible.

This comprehensive guide will walk you through what you need to know about wedding seating charts, expert tips for minimizing stress and ensuring your guests have a wonderful time.

What is a Wedding Seating Chart?

A wedding seating chart is a visual representation of where each guest will be seated at the reception.

It's typically displayed near the entrance of the wedding venue, allowing guests to easily find their assigned tables and seats.

The seating chart can take many forms, from a simple printed list to an elaborate display with calligraphed names, table numbers, and graphics.

Benefits of Having a Seating Chart

Having a seating chart, and assigned seating, is a time-honored tradition, and there definitely are reasons why it's going strong today. A seating chart can:

-Ensure an organized and streamlined reception.

-Prevent wedding guests from wandering aimlessly, looking for seats.

-Allow you to strategically seat guests based on relationships, interests, and other factors.

-Separate potentially conflicting groups or individuals.

Wedding Seating Charts: The Downsides

That's not to say going with wedding seating charts is a good idea in every situation. To be frank, wedding seating charts also:

-Can be time-consuming and stressful to create.

-May upset wedding guests who don't like their assigned seats or table assignments.

-Can be seen as overly structured or formal by some.

Seating Chart Alternatives

If you're coming to the conclusion that you'd just as soon skip a traditional seating chart at your wedding, you do have other options for your seating arrangements. Consider these alternatives:

-Open seating: Let guests choose their own seats, possibly with reserved sections for immediate family.

-Escort cards: Display cards with guests' names and table numbers. By making table assignments, instead of assigning specific seats, your guests still have some say in where they sit.

Creating Your Seating Chart: Step-by-Step

On the other hand, maybe you think a wedding seating chart is something you'd like to have at your wedding. In that case, we've put together some instructions to guide you as you work on yours.

  1. Make a list of your wedding guests and gather RSVPs.

  1. Decide on your table shapes and sizes.

  2. Assign tables for immediate family, your wedding party, and special guests.

  3. Group remaining guests by relationship (family, friends, coworkers, etc.).

  4. Use a floor plan or a seating chart tool to arrange tables and assign guests.

  5. Double-check for any potential conflicts or issues.

  6. Print or create a visual display of the final seating chart.

Where to Seat Key Guests

Generally, there are some traditions for where you, your closest family members, and your wedding party should sit. Those guidelines are:

-Bride and groom: Sweetheart table or head table with wedding party.

-Parents and immediate Family: Nearby tables, close to the couple.

-Wedding party: Head table or tables directly in front of the couple..

-Close friends and relatives: Tables closest to the couple's table.

When to Start Working on Your Seating Chart

It's generally best to start working on your seating chart about two to three months before your wedding.

This gives you ample time to gather RSVPs, make revisions, and finalize the arrangements without feeling rushed.

Minimizing Stress When Creating the Seating Chart

Yes, figuring out where each of your wedding guests will sit is a big job, and it can be intimidating.

This is one of those wedding to-dos that will be tempting to put off, but the more time you give yourself to work on it, the less stressful it will be. Start early and take your time.

And, don't feel this process is entirely on your shoulder. Delegate. Ask for input from your partner, wedding party, trusted family members or friends--or all of the above.

As you work on your seating arrangements, try to be flexible and open to making a few changes before you're done.

One helpful rule of thumb is to consider guests' physical needs and relationships. Position elderly guests or those with mobility issues close to exits/restrooms. And separate divorced parents or feuding family members/friends.

We would also like to remind you that you can't please everyone. Don't expect to achieve perfection or beat yourself up about your seating decisions.

Technological Tools for Wedding Seating Charts

You can look to technological assistance, like seating chart software or other online organizational tools, to make your task easier.

Potential tools and apps to try include:

-AllSeated: Drag-and-drop interface with floor plan imports.

-Wedding Planning Assistant: Features a free, customizeable seating chart tool.

-Top Table Planner: 3D venue visualizations and guest list management.

-Style Me Pretty: Color-coded seating chart template that you can save to Google Drive.

-Spreadsheets: Create your own custom seating chart in Excel or Google Sheets.

Displaying Seating Assignments

Once you've finalized your wedding seating chart, you'll need to decide how to display it for guests. Popular options include:

Printed Lists

Printing out your lists is a simple, budget-friendly option.

Seating Chart Displays

Provide elegant boards or displays with calligraphed names/designs near the entrance to your wedding reception area.

Projection/Digital Display.

Project the seating chart onto a screen or TV monitor.

Using Place Cards with Your Wedding Seating Chart

Place cards are a classic way to indicate each guest's assigned seat once they find their table based on the seating chart.

Each small tented card displays a guest's name and is placed at its designated seat setting.

Place cards serve two main purposes:

-They guide guests to their specific seat after they've located their table number/assignment on the main seating chart display.

-They allow you to get more creative and personalized by using calligraphed names, decorative card stock, or even mini-favors attached to each place card.

When using place cards along with a seating chart, there are a few tips to keep in mind:

-Print place cards after finalizing the seating chart to avoid any misspellings or reassignments.

-Have place cards pre-set at tables as guests arrive to streamline seating.

-Use place card holders, greenery sprigs, or other decor to elevate their look.

-If you're looking for mini-favors to attach, consider chocolates or potpourri sachets.

-Double-check placement matches the master seating chart before the reception

Place cards add an elegant touch and ensure guests end up in their proper spot, especially for larger weddings with multiple tables. They're the perfect pairing with a detailed seating chart display.

By incorporating both elements, you can guide guests to their seat while putting a personal stamp on each place setting. Just plan have a master list on hand in case any place cards get moved or misplaced.

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Our southeast Texas venue serves couples from throughout greater Houston.

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20 Tips for an Unforgettable Micro-Wedding

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Even as the world has opened back up post-pandemic, the micro-weddings that surged during the COVID era have remained a popular choice for couples who want an intimate, personalized celebration.

With lower costs, less stress, and more flexibility, it's no surprise that micro-weddings (typically defined as weddings with no more than 50 guests) continue to be a top trend in 2024.

Reasons to Consider a Micro-Wedding

For couples, the appeal of a micro-wedding depends on their goals for their special day.

For some, cost savings are a major consideration. With a smaller guest list, couples can splurge on higher-end wedding venues, food, and other details while still saving money overall.

Others love the idea of the intimacy a micro-wedding allows, along with the opportunity to truly and spend quality time with each loved one present.

Your Micro-Wedding Tips

So, how can you create an unforgettable micro-wedding. Here are a few suggestions to consider.

1. Focus on your guests’ experience: With fewer attendees, you can splurge on amazing food, beverages, entertainment, and personalized touches that create an amazing experience for you and your guests.

2. Create a multi-day celebration: You can use your tiny guest list to your advantage by planning festivities over multiple days like welcome parties and day-after brunches.

3. Consider a destination wedding: A tiny guest list makes it feasible to get married in a far-off dreamscape.

4. Hire a planner: With fewer guests, you might be able to afford a professional planner to sweat the details.

5. Send digital invites: Paperless e-vites and online RSVPs make planning easier.

6. Exchange personal vows: With just your closest inner circle, you can feel comfortable exchanging personal, meaningful vows.

7. Provide welcome pouches: Greet guests with a curated pouch of locally-sourced treats and tips.

8. Design a signature cocktail: A bespoke, personalized cocktail is a fun way to elevate the bar experience for your wedding guests.

 

9. Add luxe lounge spaces: Create cozy lounge nooks with plush furnishings where guests can relax and mingle.

10. Use upscale materials: With a micro-budget, you can splurge on premium materials like silk linens, leather accents, and lucite details.

11. Focus on beautiful tabletops: Take your table design to the next level with lush florals, elegant China, and customized menus.

12. Serve a multi-course meal: With fewer people, splurge on a gourmet tasting menu with wine pairings.

13. Elevate the sweets: With a smaller guest count, you can really go above and beyond when it comes to desserts. Instead of just having a simple wedding cake, get creative. Hire a chef to do an interactive dessert station where guests can watch their treats being made fresh to order. Or set up a decadent dessert bar with an array of gourmet sweets like macarons, petit fours, artisanal chocolates and more. You could even provide luxurious dessert wine or port pairings.

14. Create a special photo moment or two: Set up an Insta-worthy backdrop or photobooth for capturing fun guest pics.

15. Make room for traditions: You can easily fit in cherished traditions like cake cutting or bouquet tosses.

16. Create a bespoke playlist: Since music sets the vibe, curate a personalized playlist with meaningful songs for the ceremony, cocktails, and reception. You can even include sweet anecdotes about your song choices in the program.

 

17. Incorporate nostalgic touches: With a micro guest list of just your closest loved ones, incorporate nostalgic elements that nod to inside jokes or meaningful moments you've shared together over the years. This could include displaying childhood photos, serving Grandma's famous cookies, or nodding to your favorite vacation spots in the decor.

18. Prioritize photography and videography: You'll want to capture every special moment. Hire talented pros to document it all.

19. Hire special entertainment: Consider surprising elements like having a singer accompany you down the aisle, a roaming mariachi band during cocktail hour, or a dynamic dance band that gets everyone on the floor. Other creative entertainment ideas could include hiring caricature artists to draw guests' portraits, having mixologists put on a flared cocktail show, or even booking fire dancers or acrobats for a jaw-dropping cabaret experience.

20. Get sentimental with favors: Order personalized, artisanal favors like candles, soaps or gourmet treats for your wedding guests.

Since we opened more than a decade ago, The Bell Tower on 34th has earned a reputation as the best wedding venue in Houston.

Our spectacular Houston venue, with a waterwall and dance floor lighting, is a popular choice among couples throughout southeast Texas.

Contact us to schedule a tour.

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(713) 868-2355

Wedding Dessert Ideas for Your Big Day

Fruit-topped cupcakes

When it comes to weddings, the dessert table is more than just a sweet ending—it's a reflection of your style, a celebration of your love, and an opportunity to delight your guests.

You might be picturing an elegant, traditional wedding cake adorned with delicate flowers, or maybe whimsical cupcakes or decadent macarons are more your style. Maybe you want all of the above: to have your cake and eat it, too, so to speak. The good news is, the world of wedding desserts is vast and delightful.

In this blog, we'll explore a delectable array of sweet treats that cater to every taste, budget, and guest list.

Why Stop With Cake?

For many couples, the classic tiered wedding cake remains an important tradition—it's a beautiful ceremonial centerpiece and provides that iconic cake-cutting moment. But in case you'd like to satisfy your guests' sweet tooths with a wider dessert variety, we have some tips for serving both cake and other desserts at your reception:

Cake and Dessert Bar Combo

Have your decorative wedding cake for photos and offer a separate dessert table as well.

This allows you to offer cake slices for those who want them, plus an array of other sweets like pastries, fruit tarts, candies, cookies, and bite-sized treats.

Guests can pick and choose their favorite wedding desserts along with a slice of cake.

Passed Dessert Trays

Another option is to have servers pass trays of passed desserts like mini cupcakes, petits fours, and other small bites while also giving guests the chance to visit the cake table.

That way, everyone gets a taste of the main cake but can also sample other portable desserts.

His and Hers Cakes

If you can't decide on just one cake flavor, consider having two cakes—one for the bride's preferred flavor and one for the groom's.

Display them together and let guests get slices from either one along with other complementary desserts.

Petit Wedding Cakes

Rather than one large cake, you could have multiple smaller 6- to 8-inch petit wedding cakes in different flavors like red velvet, vanilla, chocolate, or lemon.

Guests can try a slice from whichever flavor appeals to them while also hitting the dessert table.

No matter which way you choose to serve wedding cake and other sweets, proper labeling and guidance from servers will help guests navigate the dessert options.

If You're Saying No to the Cake

Maybe you'd just as soon skip the wedding cake altogether. If that's the case, here are some alternative wedding desserts to consider.

Dessert Bars

Dessert bars offer endless variety, pleasing every guest's palate. Imagine a decadent selection of mini cheesecakes, colorful macarons, or gourmet cupcakes.

Cake Pops: Having a Moment

One of the biggest wedding dessert trends for 2024 is offering cake pops.

These adorable little handheld treats offer all the deliciousness of cake in a portable, poppable form.

You can have cake pops made to coordinate with your wedding colors and designs. Display your cake pops on an attractive stand or tree for a modern dessert table showstopper.

Ice Cream Sundaes

What could be more fun than building your own ice cream sundae?

Set up a fully-stocked ice cream sundae bar with multiple ice cream flavors, a variety of sauces, sprinkles, whipped cream, cherries, and other toppings.

These delicious wedding desserts will encourage your guests to get creative, and if you're planning to get married on a warm summer night, enjoying ice cream sundaes will help your guests keep cool.

Candy Stations and Dessert Bars

Reminiscent of childhood candy stores and bake shops, dessert bars and candy stations are an undeniably nostalgic reception trend and pure heaven for anyone with a sweet tooth.

Set up sweet stations with glass jars or apothecary dispensers filled with favorites like jelly beans, gummies, chocolates, and other candies.

You can intersperse baked goods like cookies, brownies, rice crispy treats, and more for delightful wedding dessert variety.

S'mores Bars

Add a cozy campfire feel to your dessert course with a s'mores bar.

Provide all the fixings for guests to roast their own marshmallows and build ooey-gooey s'mores sandwiches.

Safe sternos, long skewers or roasting forks, graham crackers, chocolate, and of course plenty of marshmallows are all you need for this fun, interactive station.

Cupcakes

As an alternative or addition to a traditional wedding cake, cupcakes make a great wedding dessert option.

You can get creative with cupcake flavors, fillings, frostings and decorations.

Plus, their built-in portability is perfect for guests to satisfy their sweet tooth while mingling.

Arrange cupcakes on tiered stands for a pretty display.

Wedding Desserts to Fit Your Theme

Your wedding desserts are also an opportunity to reinforce your celebration's theme or aesthetic.

For example, for a rustic outdoor wedding theme, feature naked cakes with rustic wood accents, along with mason jars of pudding, cobblers, and pies with whipped cream.

An art-deco inspired event could offer geometric or metallic desserts. The options are endless to incorporate your theme.

Seasonally-Inspired Desserts

The time of year can also help guide your wedding dessert selections. For summer weddings, frozen treats like ice cream, sorbets, and frozen yogurt are refreshing choices. You could even have a wedding-themed ice cream truck.

Winter weddings provide cozy dessert opportunities like hot chocolates and warm cookies, pies, or cobblers. If your wedding will take place during the Christmas season, offer gingerbread cookies, peppermint bark, and candy canes. Additional options include eggnog, mini fruit cakes, or yule log cakes.

Spring and fall allow you to incorporate fresh, seasonal fruits into your wedding desserts. Possibilities include:

Spring Treats

-Lemony desserts like individual fruit tarts, zesty cupcakes, or a refreshing lemon meringue pie.

-Strawberry treats like shortcakes, cheesecakes, or macarons bursting with sweet berry flavors.

-Rhubarb adds a unique tartness to pies, crumbles, or even cocktails.

Fall Flavors

-Warm spiced apple desserts like classic pies, crumbles, or cider donuts.

-Pumpkin delights ranging from spiced cakes to mini pumpkin cheesecakes.

-Pear-based treats with hints of cinnamon or cardamom for a sophisticated touch.

-Fig-filled tarts or elegant poached figs with honey and cream.

Regional Wedding Dessert Ideas

Drawing inspiration from your event's location can also lend delicious local flavor to your wedding desserts.

Where we are, in Texas, creative wedding dessert options could include:

-Fancified takes on state fair treats: You could offer gourmet versions of things like funnel cakes, fried Oreos, candied apples, or kettle corn.

-Tex-Mex desserts: Churros, tres leches cakes, margarita pie shooters, and more.

-Down-home classics: Pecan pies, cobblers, bread puddings, and Blue Bell ice cream.

-Dr Pepper Cupcakes with a cream cheese frosting: This playful twist uses an iconic Texas drink for a unique and slightly nostalgic flavor.

-Pecan pralines dipped in dark chocolate: A classic Texas treat, this decadent wedding dessert can be presented in small boxes as wedding favors or arranged beautifully on your dessert table.

-Miniaturized Texas sheet cakes: Adorned with tiny Texas flags, these bite-sized treats will deliver that classic rich chocolate flavor everyone will love.

-Prickly pear margaritas served in individual cake pops: A fun and boozy option that highlights a unique Texas ingredient.

-Boot-shaped cookies decorated with royal icing: Charming and whimsical, these cookies could be personalized with your initials or wedding date.

Creating an Appealing Wedding Dessert Display

No matter what desserts you choose, the presentation can be just as enticing as the treats themselves.

Use varied heights, levels, platters, and serving pieces to create an elegant, overflowing dessert table.

Pretty linen, flowers, greenery and candles can help dress up the display. Personalized dessert menu signs are also a nice touch. Get creative with your sweets layout for an Instagrammable spread.

Don't be afraid to have fun and make your wedding dessert an interactive, thematic part of your big day. Your guests will sweetly remember the decadent final course.

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Our venue serves couples throughout southeast Texas.

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To Veil or Not to Veil at Your Wedding

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For centuries, the wedding veil has been a symbol of purity, modesty, and the transition from single life to married life.

From ancient Rome to today, this delicate piece of fabric has woven its way into the fabric of wedding traditions worldwide.

But, as with many aspects of weddings, the decision to wear a veil or not is a personal one, shaped by cultural influences, personal preferences, and the ever-evolving tides of bridal fashion.

The Veil's Storied Past

The origins of the wedding veil can be traced back to ancient times, when brides wore veils to protect themselves from evil spirits or to signify their submission to their husbands.

In ancient Rome, brides wore bright yellow or orange veils, known as flammeum, to ward off evil spirits.

In medieval Europe, the veil was a symbol of modesty and obedience, with brides covering their faces until the wedding ceremony was complete.

Over time, the veil evolved from a practical necessity to a symbolic gesture. In the Victorian era, veils became a status symbol, with longer and more elaborate designs signifying wealth and social standing.

Today, while the veil retains its traditional symbolism, it has also become a fashion statement, with brides embracing a wide range of styles to complement their wedding gowns and personal tastes.

Veils around the globe

Not only that, but the tradition of wearing wedding veils spans many cultures and regions around the world.

India

The traditional Indian bridal look features an elaborate veil called a dupatta or ghoonghat. These veils are often intricately embroidered with gold or silver threads and paired with colorful lenghas or saris.

Middle East

In many Middle Eastern cultures, the veil holds significant cultural and religious meaning for Muslim brides. Ornate veils and headpieces adorned with coins, gems and embroidery are popular choices.

Nigeria

Brides who opt for traditional wedding attire wear colorful fabrics with a matching head wrap, the gele, which is covered with a net veil, sometimes decorated with rhinestones or sequins.

Spain

The iconic Spanish mantilla veil, made of silk embroidered lace, has been worn by brides for centuries. It is considered high fashion yet steeped in tradition.

Latin America

The lace mantilla veil from Spain influenced the veils worn by many Latin American brides. Designs include the classic cathedral and waltz lengths often embellished with lace edging.

Kazakhstan

Traditional bridal attire includes a cone-shaped headdress, a saukele, adorned with gems and other elements. And from its top, a tulle veil called the jelek drapes over the bride’s back, shoulders, and, possibly, her face.

A Wedding Veil for Every Bride

Here, some of the more popular veils we see include the classic cathedral veil, which cascades elegantly down the bride’s back, a blusher veil that frames the face, and many other options. Essentially, there is a veil to suit just about every bridal style and wedding theme.

The cathedral veil, often ranging from 90 to 120 inches in length, remains a timeless choice for brides who want a dramatic and regal look on their wedding day. This veil typically extends beyond the train of the wedding dress. It creates a breathtaking trail of fabric behind the bride as she walks down the aisle.

For a more understated look, the fingertip veil is a popular option. This veil falls just below the shoulders or at the bride's fingertips. Its length strikes a balance between tradition and modernity, allowing the wedding gown to take center stage while still offering a delicate veil moment.

The blusher wedding veil, also known as a face veil or a mantilla veil, is a shorter option that covers the bride's face during the wedding ceremony. This veil is often worn over the head or secured to the hair, and it can be flipped back after the vows are exchanged for a striking visual moment.

Beyond these classic styles, brides can also explore embellished veils adorned with lace, beading, or intricate embroidery for a touch of personalized glamour.

Veils for Every Budget

While wedding veils can range in price from a few dollars to thousands, depending on the material, length, and embellishments, there are options to suit most budgets.

For budget-conscious brides, an off-the-rack wedding veil from retailers or online shops can be a cost-effective option. These wedding veils are often made from synthetic materials like tulle or nylon and can range from $50 to $300, depending on their length and style.

For those seeking a more luxurious option for their wedding attire, custom-made veils crafted from high-quality materials like silk or lace can cost upwards of $500 to $2,000 or more. These veils are often designed and handcrafted by skilled artisans, so you're paying for one-of-a-kind piece that complements your wedding dress and personal style.

The Heirloom Bridal Veil: A Cherished Tradition

For many brides, wearing a family heirloom veil holds a special significance. It's a tangible connection to their heritage and the generations of women who have walked before them. These veils, often lovingly preserved and passed down through the years, carry a rich tapestry of stories and memories, imbuing the bride with a sense of tradition and continuity.

If you choose to wear a family heirloom veil, you'll want to handle it with care and respect. Consider having the veil professionally cleaned and repaired, if necessary, to make sure it stays in pristine condition for future generations.

It's also a good idea to talk with your seamstress or bridal consultant about how to best incorporate the vintage veil into your modern bridal ensemble for a cohesive look.

The Decision: Whether to Wear a Wedding Veil

While the veil has been a longstanding tradition, some brides may choose to forgo it altogether. This decision can be rooted in personal preference, a desire to break away from tradition, or simply a matter of practicality.

For brides who prefer a more understated or minimalist look, skipping the veil can allow their wedding dress and natural beauty to take center stage. Others may find the weight or hassle of a veil cumbersome, especially in warm climates or for outdoor weddings.

We encourage you to embrace your personal style and vision for your wedding day. Whether you opt for a dramatic cathedral veil or choose a sleek, unadorned updo, the most important thing is that you feel confident, beautiful, and true to yourself.

Tips for Choosing and Wearing Your Veil

If you do decide to wear a veil on your wedding day, we have a few tips to help you select and style it to perfection:

-Coordinate with your wedding dress: When you wear a veil, you'll want it to complement your wedding gown's style, silhouette, and overall aesthetic . Consult with your bridal consultant or seamstress to find the perfect pairing that enhances your overall look.

-Consider your face shape: Different veil styles can flatter or distract from your facial features. For example, a blusher or mantilla veil can soften angular features, while a shorter veil can complement a petite frame.

-Don't forget about hair and makeup: During your wedding planning, talk with your hair and makeup artists about what they can do to make sure your veil works well with your chosen hairstyle and makeup look. They can provide great insights on how to secure your veil and keep in place throughout your wedding day.

-Practice wearing your veil: Before your big day, practice walking, sitting, and moving around in your veil. This will help you feel more comfortable and confident while wearing it and minimize the risk of tripping or getting tangled.

-Plan for veil moments: Tell your wedding photographer you plan to wear a veil and discuss special "veil moments" you'd like to capture, such as the dramatic reveal or a windswept veil shot. Then, they'll be ready to to capture these fleeting but stunning moments.

-Have a veil emergency kit: Pack a small kit with bobby pins, hairspray, scissors, and any other necessary items to quickly fix any veil mishaps or damage that could occur during your wedding day.

Veil Alternatives

Some brides choose to wear wedding day attire with a more unique or unconventional look. If you're one of them, here are a few creative alternatives to a traditional veil.

Consider incorporating a floral crown or headpiece, a jeweled hairpiece, or a whimsical hair accessory into your wedding look.

Some brides may opt for a cape or capelet instead of a veil, adding a touch of drama and sophistication to their ensemble. Others may choose to forgo any head or hair adornments entirely, letting their natural beauty shine through.

Ultimately, the decision to wear a veil on your wedding day or explore alternative options is a deeply personal one. Embrace your individual style and vision, and let your choice reflect the unique and beautiful bride you are.

Since we opened more than a decade ago, The Bell Tower on 34th has earned a reputation as the best wedding venue in Houston.

Our spectacular Houston venue, with a waterwall and dance floor lighting, is a popular choice among couples throughout southeast Texas.

Contact us to schedule a tour.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

Making a Grand Entrance at Your Wedding Reception

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During a wedding reception, few moments match the sheer joy of the bride and groom’s grand entrance.

This is the moment when you and your new spouse are officially introduced and welcomed into the reception venue by your guests. It sets the tone for the festivities and gets everyone excited for the party to begin.

But What Exactly Is a Wedding Grand Entrance?

What we're talking about is a choreographed, show-stopping entrance into your wedding reception space after your wedding ceremony and portraits.

Traditionally, the DJ, emcee, or bandleader will announce and introduce you and your new spouse as you dramatically enter the room while music plays. Guests will cheer and applaud for you while you make your way inside.

A wedding reception entrance is a tradition, but exactly how you approach it is up to you. You can go with a something simple and understated, work in creative touches that reflect you as a couple, or tie in with your theme for your reception.

To help you get your planning underway, we have a list of fun, sentimental, and creative grand entrance ideas for your wedding reception.

Involving Your Wedding Party

While the wedding reception entrance is ultimately your big moment as bride and groom, the entire wedding party can help set the stage and build excitement leading up to your arrival.

There are a few ways to incorporate your bridal party and the groomsmen.

The Wedding Party Precedes the Couple

One popular approach is to have the wedding party enter the reception venue first, paired up and walking down the "aisle" created by the guests.

As each bridesmaid and groomsman is announced and walks in, it builds anticipation for the stars of the show - the newlyweds! The DJ/emcee can introduce some fun facts or stories about each pairing as they make their entrance.

The Wedding Party "Hypes" the Crowd

Another idea is to have the bridal party and groomsmen gather the guests' attention and literally "hype" them up right before the grand entrance.

They can initiate cheers, hand out props like noisemakers or pompoms, and create a festive atmosphere to welcome the newlyweds with huge applause and fanfare when announced.

A Whimsical Wedding Entrance

If you want to incorporate a sense of fun and laughter into your wedding, consider one of these ideas.

Bouncy Ball Bonanza

Get the party started with a bouncy ball cascade: Have a collection of large, inflatable exercise balls set up and have the bridal party roll/bounce them toward the entrance as you dance and leap your way through the bouncing ball avalanche.

Bubble Explosion

Incorporate bubble machines to fill the entrance area with a flurry of bubbles as you both make your entrance dancing and popping bubbles all around you.

You could even have bubble wands to play with.

Tricycle/Wagon Arrival

Make an adorably silly entrance by riding in on oversized children's tricycles, a red wagon, or another goofy kid-sized vehicle pulled by members of your wedding party.

Giant Balloon Animals

Work with an expert balloon artist to create massively oversized balloon animal sculptures like dogs, giraffes, or monkeys.

You can make your grand appearance by walking balloon animal companions down the aisle on leashes.

The key for a successfully fun, silly wedding entrance is to not take yourselves too seriously. Use vibrant colors, energetic music, and playful props, and don't be afraid to get a little goofy or messy. The more you can laugh and play, the more joy you'll bring your guests.

A Choreographed Dance

Work with a choreographer to put together a fun, upbeat dance routine set to a meaningful song.

You could do a classic choreographed number or something more contemporary like a flash mob routine where your wedding party and parents join in.

A Costumed Character Entrance

Dress up as your favorite fictional characters or celebrities and make an over-the-top, in-character grand entrance.

Character possibilities include superheroes, movie stars, famous musicians, or storybook characters.

An Exciting Prop Entrance

Arrive in style with special props like costume mascot heads, glow sticks, pompoms, or streamer wands.

Or pick props that relate to your wedding theme. Are you planning a beach wedding theme? Make your wedding entrance with beach balls and sunglasses.

A Sentimental Showcase

Put together a touching audio-visual element for your wedding reception entrance. Play a special video message, slideshow, or meaningful songs as you walk in.

Your guests will laugh and cry happy tears with you.

A Theatrical Entrance

Work with effects like fog machines, bubble makers, paparazzi-style lighting, or even pyrotechnics (check your wedding venue rules first) to create a true Hollywood premiere vibe as you make your debut as a married couple.

A Futuristic Wedding Entrance

Create a dramatic, futuristic atmosphere by filling the entrance area with thick fog or haze.

Then use laser lights, projections, and music to put on a dazzling light show display as you enter through the fog and laser beams.

Red Carpet Arrival

For a truly dramatic entrance, roll out an actual red carpet runner leading up to the reception entrance.

Plan to arrive and step out of a stunning vintage car like a 1960s Lincoln Continental, Rolls-Royce, or Cadillac Eldorado.

Then you can walk the red carpet to the entrance as a valet holds the door and photographers snap photos, just like celebrities at a premiere.

Tips for a Successful Wedding Reception Entrance

  • Keep It a Surprise: Don't reveal any grand entrance details to guests ahead of time so you can really wow them in the moment.

  • Do a Rehearsal: Whatever elaborate plans you make, be sure to rehearse it fully so your entrance goes off without a hitch.

  • Coordinate with Vendors: Make sure your DJ/emcee, venue coordinator, photographers/videographers are all prepared to capture and facilitate the grand entrance.

  • Get Your Wedding Party Involved: Don't just make a solo entrance. Have your wedding party participate and kick off the party with you!

  • Make It About Your Personalities: Most importantly, make sure your grand entrance ideas reflect you and your spouse's personalities and styles. That will make it all the more memorable.

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Our southeast Texas venue with a chapel, waterwall, and beautifully tended grounds, can accommodate both small and large weddings.

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Dos and Don'ts of a Memorable Best Man Speech

Man delivers speech at The Bell Tower on 34th wedding venue in Houston, Texas

Being asked to be the best man is an incredible honor. It signifies a bond of friendship, trust, and maybe a few of shared shenanigans over the years.

Your speech is a chance to celebrate that friendship and the amazing couple at the center of it all. But how do you find the right words?

Here are some best man speech dos and don'ts to guide you.

The Gist: How Long Should It Be?

Aim for your best man's speech to last about three to five minutes.

Any shorter than three minutes, and you likely didn't put much thought or effort into it. Any longer than five minutes, and you risk losing the audience's attention or rambling.

The sweet spot of three to five minutes gives you enough time to touch on some highlights and sentimental moments without droning on.

DO: Start With an Attention-Grabbing Opening

Capturing everyone's attention from the beginning is a key public speaking strategy, so start with something punchy and engaging.

Funny stories about the groom (as long as they're respectful) are always a good starting place for a best man speech.

Other possibilities could be a quote that's meaningful to your friendship or a lighthearted joke.

DON'T: Drink Too Much Before Speaking

It's tempting to calm your nerves with some liquid courage before giving your speech, but too many drinks could lead to slurred words, rambling, or revealing embarrassing stories you shouldn't share.

Have no more than one to two drinks max before taking the mic.

DO: Share (Appropriate) Stories and Sincere Compliments

The meat of your best man speech should focus on celebrating the groom—his great qualities, a few stories that highlight your friendship, what he means to you, and why you believe he'll make a wonderful husband.

Don't be afraid to get a little sentimental. Delivering a truly heartfelt speech will make the groom feel loved and the couple feel celebrated.

DON'T: Bring Up Exes or Make Inside Jokes

When you're delivering a wedding speech, your job is to honor the newlyweds, not bring up past relationships or make jokes that would go over the heads of most guests.

Those inside jokes may seem innocent to you, but they could leave others feeling confused or excluded. Leave them out of your best man speech.

DO: Acknowledge the New Spouse

While the focus of your best man speech should be on the groom, the most effective best man speeches include a welcome for the new spouse into your circle.

Some kind words about how they've positively impacted the groom's life or why they make a great partner will mean a lot.

DON'T: Overshare or Tell Wildly Inappropriate Stories

A wedding speech is not the time to divulge the groom's deepest, darkest secrets or scandalous tales from their bachelor party.

Keep things relatively PG by avoiding anything too raunchy, explicit, or that could deeply embarrass the couple in front of family and friends.

A little gentle roasting is fine in good fun, but don't cross the line.

DO: End on a Heartwarming, Memorable Note

You've grabbed the audience's attention, made them laugh, and paid tribute to the couple.

Now it's time to bring it home. End your best man speech with a sweet sentiment about your friendship with the groom, some well-wishes for their marriage, or an inspiring quote about love and commitment. You want the crowd admiring the newlyweds as you finish up.

Pro Speech Tips

  • Practice, practice, practice beforehand, but don't memorize verbatim to avoid sounding robotic

  • Maintain excellent posture and make eye contact to connect with the crowd

  • Speak slowly and enunciate clearly. Use the mic if one is provided.

  • If you get nervous, take a pause and a sip of water before continuing.

  • Smile and stay positive throughout. This is a joyous occasion!

A best man speech isn't just about words, it's about the love and support you offer your friend as he enters this new chapter.

Embrace the opportunity, speak from the heart, and let your words be a testament to the incredible bond you share.

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Our venue serves couples throughout southeast Texas.

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Rustic Wedding Trends

When it comes to weddings, the rustic aesthetic has shown serious staying power over the last decade.

With its cozy, natural vibe and nod to simple living, it's no surprise the the rustic or country wedding remains a favorite among couples.

In 2024, the rustic wedding trend is evolving with fresh new takes while still channeling that signature laid-back, organic feel.

If this appeals to you, we have some rustic wedding ideas and trends to inspire your wedding planning.

Rustic Wedding Stationery Trends

Your wedding stationery will set the tone for your big event. This year, we're seeing invitations and other paper elements like menus, programs, and signage putting a fresh spin on rustic style.

Recycled paper stocks in shades like kraft brown create an earthy yet elegant look.

For a romantic aesthetic, couples are going with watercolor florals and botanical prints.

We're also seeing more contemporary spins on rustic elements like geometric patterns, modern calligraphy, and mixed fonts.

Couples are also expressing their creativity with finishing touches like lace, twine, dried flowers, leaves, and feathers.

Rustic Wedding Decor

When it comes to decorating for a rustic affair, focus on organic, natural elements and handcrafted touches.

Look for decorative items made out of wood, burlap, galvanized metals, antique accessories, and greenery.

If you'd like to go all out, incorporate vintage-inspired rentals like wooden chairs, farm tables, and sofas upholstered in cozy textured fabrics into your decor.

Try playing with mixed patterned table linens, bold colored glassware, and unique vintage plates at your wedding reception place settings.

Have you thought about hanging decorative items? For a rustic wedding, strong choices include greenery, florals, luminarias--even an antique wagon wheel.

Creative rustic wedding signs are a longtime favorite for country wedding decorations. Popular choices range from antique mirror or chalkboard ceremony signs to seating charts and bar menus displayed on vintage doors or windows.

A few more possibilities for your wedding reception? Try lounge nooks with rugs, throw pillows, and outdoor games like cornhole to encourage your wedding guests to mix and mingle.

Floral Arrangements with Rustic Charm

Lush, abundant floral arrangements will always be a signature of rustic weddings.

In 2024, couples are embracing the "more is more" approach with opulent floral arrangements starring greenery like eucalyptus, olive branches, amaranthus, and grasses.

Couples are displaying fresh flowers like garden roses, ranunculus, peonies, and zinnias in soft romantic hues in earthy urns, antique boxes, or placed directly on tables and arches.

In addition to fresh flowers, we're also seeing a rise in dried and bleached botanicals incorporated into everything from bouquets to centerpieces and ceremony backdrops, complementing the rustic vibe beautifully.

Rustic Wedding Lights

Lighting sets the ambiance and brings warmth and romance to rustic weddings.

In 2024, couples are getting creative by incorporating a variety of lighting elements to create cozy, inviting rustic charm.

String lights and fairy lights remain a rustic wedding staple, but they're being used in innovative new ways. Suspend them across tented spaces, wrap them around trees, line pathways, or incorporate them into seating chart displays and bar backdrops.

Cafe string lights with their classic Edison bulbs are also popular for draping overhead or accenting spaces like lounges.

Other on-trend rustic lighting ideas include:

-Wrought-iron lanterns and candle lanterns lining aisles or tabletops

-Vintage lamp accents on bars or dessert displays

-Clusters of votive candles in antique holders scattered everywhere

-Canopies or arbors draped with streamer lights

-Luminaria bags with candles lining walkways

-Marquee letter lights spelling out the couple's names or initials

When it comes to your rustic lighting design, focus on creating pockets of warm glowing light throughout your wedding venue indoor and outdoor spaces. The key is achieving an enchanting, romantic, almost magical feel using a mix of lighting sources. This allows you to highlight architectural elements, set a cozy vibe in lounge areas, and ensure spaces like dance floors and bars are properly lit as well.

Rustic or Country Wedding Food Trends

Rustic weddings provide the perfect opportunity to embrace local, seasonal and farm-to-table cuisine.

Trends for 2024 include interactive food stations, chef-attended carving stations, artisan brick oven pizza bars, and plenty of tasty small bites like mini grilled cheese, wood-fired sliders, and charcuterie displays.

For main courses, you and your guests can dig into seasonal bounty like locally-sourced roast chicken or steak served alongside fresh veggie dishes and sides like baked potatoes, mac and cheese or loaded mashed potato martini bars.

Couples are also embracing family-style service and passing platters with sharable portions.

Craft beer and signature cocktails featuring seasonal fruits, herbs, or even veggies plus wine from local vineyards keep drinks on theme.

Rustic Wedding Cakes

The wedding cake is much more than just a delightful dessert, it's also a show-stopping focal point and décor element at rustic weddings.

Rustic wedding cakes in 2024 are all about embracing organic textures, semi-naked or "naked" wedding cake designs with hints of the cake peeking through, and fresh floral accents.

Popular rustic wedding cake flavors include classics like carrot, spice, and almond paired with cream cheese frosting as well as seasonal flavors like pumpkin, apple spice, or lemon raspberry.

For wedding cake designs, we're seeing lots of romantic and classic details in the form of buttercream finishes, artfully draped fondant sheaths with vintage lace appliques, and cakes with naturally distressed and weathered wood textures or tree bark impressions.

Adorning cakes with a cascade of fresh flowers, greenery like eucalyptus and wispy pampas grass, dried berries, and fruit like figs, grapes or apples creates a stunning rustic garden-inspired masterpiece.

Other rustic touches include wrapping tiers with twine or vines, calligraphic accents, birch wood tiers, or a trio of individual small cakes displayed on wooden pedestals or stumps.

Dessert bars with mini treats like rustic pies, fruity galettes, and rustic cake pops are also a popular alternative or accompaniment.

Entertainment With a Rustic Spin

From the wedding ceremony through the reception, there are plenty of ways to work in unique, personalized entertainment suited for a rustic wedding.

Acoustic musicians like string quartets, harpists, guitarists, or folk singers set the perfect romantic ambiance for nuptials.

For the reception, hire a bluegrass, folk, or Americana band that blends seamlessly with a rustic wedding vibe.

Other fun options include casino-style game tables, caricature or silhouette portrait artists, whiskey and cigar bars, and interactive food stations like s'mores or pie-making bars where your guests can get hands-on.

You can also offer lawn games like cornhole, jumbo Jenga, ladder toss, and bocce ball to encourage your guests to mix, mingle, and let loose.

As the night winds down, treat your attendees to campfire treats like s'mores.

Rustic Wedding Themes

There are endless possibilities for a creative rustic themed wedding that go beyond just "barn" or "country" vibes.

For nature lovers, think about enchanted forest, botanical garden, breezy coastal or lakeside setting channels to enhance your wedding's rustic charm.

Romantics will love rustic wedding theme ideas like Renaissance or Old World with rich colors, calligraphic details, tapestries and aged stone or stucco backdrops.

And for the ultimate rustic themed wedding, take cues from Mediterranean or villa-style wedding venues, incorporating terra cotta tiles, wrought iron accents, citrus and herb garnishes, and a color palette of earthy tones like soft peach, ochre, olive, and terracotta.

Rustic Weddings & Bridal Looks

For a rustic wedding, your wedding dress should feel effortless and unfussy with soft, romantic details that channel an ethereal yet down-to-earth style.

Brides are gravitating towards flowing A-line and fit-and-flare silhouettes in sheer fabrics like chiffon or lace featuring lush floral appliques, flutter sleeves, and open or illusion backs.

Simple sheath gowns with laid-back fabrics like crepe are a gorgeous minimalist option with rustic appeal.

Accessories like floral hairpieces, barely-there sandals, wispy veils trimmed with lace or flower crowns would add a boho, romantic flair.

For your hair and makeup, loose, tousled waves or updo's adorned with fresh blooms and natural, glowy makeup is perfection.

Don't forget a stylish robe or shawl during prep to stay cozy and on-theme.

Rustic Weddings & The Groom

Just like the bride, the groom's look should complement the rustic wedding vibe.

For a laidback rustic vibe, grooms are ditching the traditional tuxedo in favor of dapper suits that still feel relaxed and approachable. Light tan, soft gray, or dusty blue suits with crisp white shirts or patterned vests make for a stylish yet unbuttoned look. Suit separates, vests, suspenders and bow ties are other classic touches with a rustic twist.

When it comes to fabrics, textured linens, tweeds, herringbone, and subtle plaid prints channel that cozy, earthy vibe.

Finishing touches like floral boutonnieres, patterned pocket squares, trendy loafers, or boots polished off with dapper accessories like vintage cufflinks, watches, or Bailey hats a rustic chic element.

Grooming-wise, grooms are embracing an understated yet refined look with trimmed beards or purposeful scruff paired with a cool side-part hairstyle.

Your Wedding Party

When it comes to attire for your wedding party, relaxed yet refined is the goal for rustic charm.

Your bridesmaids will look lovely in mix-and-match dresses in shades of soft pastels, warm earth tones, or rich jewel tones made of flowing chiffon or lace fabrics.

Dresses in shorter lengths, separates like an embroidered crop top paired with a gauzy maxi skirt, or jumpsuits offer a modern bohemian look.

For a lazier rustic wedding vibe, floral patterns and prints evoke a free-spirited, romantic feel.

For footwear, flat sandals, low block heels, wedges, or cowboy boots with dresses are on-trend.

For beauty, embrace loose beachy waves, floral crowns, or hair accessories and glowing, natural makeup.

Groomsmen nail rustic sophistication in trim suits or slacks paired with vests, suspenders, bow ties and crisp shirts, or they can opt for classic tuxes softened with accessories like floral ties, printed socks or pocket squares.

Opting for lighter shades of tan, gray, navy or olive alongside the bride's maids' colors would create a cohesive yet relaxed look. Boutonnieres of greenery, berries or wildflowers will amplify the rustic charm you're aiming for.

Budget Rustic Wedding Ideas

You have plenty of wallet-friendly ways to create a rustic wedding.

Scour antique shops, flea markets, and online markets for vintage props, tableware, and furniture to rent or purchase secondhand.

Enhance your rustic wedding style with burlap, kraft paper, and plaid fabric for table runners, and incorporate DIY menus or signage into your decor.

Mason jars and old bottles make perfect rustic bud vases, while lanterns lend rustic ambiance without a sky-high price tag.

Prioritize greenery, grasses, and in-season blooms over extravagant floral arrangements.

For wedding guest favors, think about seed packets, handmade soaps, candy, or baked goods, which would tie in with your rustic wedding and would be personalized and affordable.

A Grand Exit With Country Flair

Finally, once you've danced the night away, there are so many fun ways for the newlyweds to make a grand rustic exit.

Depart in a vintage ride like a classic convertible or Ford farm truck decked out with ribbons, tin cans, and a "just married" sign.

Design an amazing light trail with glow sticks as you run through for your getaway moment.

For a playful twist, have guests blow bubbles or toss eco-friendly dried lavender, wildflower seed packets or leaves as you make your way to the vintage car.

If your wedding venue has a beautiful natural setting, stroll hand-in-hand through a garden or a tree-lined path as your guests cheer you on.

You can even make a whimsical rustic exit on a country farm tractor, bicycle built for two, or ridden on horseback for a truly memorable farewell.

The Bell Tower on 34th, one of the leading wedding venues in Houston, is known for our beautiful grounds, full planning services, and talented chef.

Our venue serves couples throughout southeast Texas.

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901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

Essential Dos and Don’ts for Wedding and Event Planning

One thing I never tire of as a wedding and event venue owner is the chance to have meaningful conversations with our customers. Conversations with couples who want advice on creating the wedding of their dreams. Conversations with event planners who are curious about the best events we’ve delivered here—and how they can achieve similar results. Conversations with families arranging parties who want a celebration that’s as special as their loved ones.

What I’ve noticed during these conversations is two words tend to come up repeatedly: “always” and “never.” After more than a decade in the events business, I’ve gotten a good feel for the planning steps and strategies that are essential. And I know the mistakes planners must avoid.

While I’m looking forward to many more conversations with customers on what I believe makes for an unforgettable event, I thought it would be helpful to make my top always-never items available to anyone who’d like to see them. Here they are.

 

Always Do These Things

I’m starting with the things I’d strongly advise you to do if you’re planning an event of any kind. These are your keys to excellence.

Always have all the essentials you need to deliver a successful event ready: food, sound equipment, just-in-case items (from a generator to an emergency kit for the bride), you name it. This includes plenty of service staff—Talk with your venue about this. Make sure whenever you throw a party or arrange an event, that everything you and your guests might need will be on hand.

Always insist your food is prepared fresh and onsite if possible. Even when food is expertly prepared, serving it immediately will elevate your guests’ experience and their perception of your event.

Always have access to up-to-date information about your event, day or night, 24/7. Staying on top of your event will give you peace of mind, encourage ongoing communication with everyone who is playing a role in your event, and help you make sure nothing falls through the cracks. We’ve seen this for ourselves at The Bell Tower on 34th since we started providing an online portal for our customers so they can check event details like their menu, seating plan, and payments around the clock.

Always under promise and overdeliver. This is an excellent strategy for delighting your guests. Give them the details they need to decide whether to attend your event but keep the steps you plan to take to make your event truly magical for them—from the amazing food you’ll be providing to the excellent service you’ve ensured they’ll get—to yourself.

 

Never Do These Things

These are the choices and missteps you should be aware of and steer clear of. They're not just about hospitality for your guests—they're also about safeguarding your interests and your wallet.

Never pay for an entire day at a venue if you don’t need it. Talk with venues about their policies and packages. Can you book for a half-day or for a set number of hours? Venues that don’t require full-day reservations show that they understand their customers’ diverse needs, budget constraints, and concerns.

Never pay extra for the following:

-Your cake-cutting: This is often a simple service, but some venues charge for it.

-Vendor buyouts: These are fees imposed for bringing in outside vendors not on the venue's approved list. It's a charge that can significantly inflate your expenses and restrict your choices.

-Beverage service: Charges for passing drinks during your cocktail hour or refilling water or wine glasses during meals can add up quickly.

-Rehearsals, bridal portraits, and tastings: While these are standard parts of the wedding experience, some venues capitalize on them with additional fees.

Never ask your guests to pay for parking or expect them to walk a long distance to attend your event.

 

Make Your Standards Clear

Keep these always-and-never items in mind as you research venues and include them in your conversations with venue representatives. The people you interview should be able to tell you exactly how they’ll accommodate you.

Believe me, these dos and don’ts are not unreasonable, and standing firm on them will have a tremendous impact on the success of your event.

 

The Bell Tower on 34th is one of the leading wedding and event venues in Houston. Our venue, with a chapel, grand staircase, waterwall, and Old-World charm, offers full planning services, onsite security, and free valet parking. Learn more about our event packages and pricing.

Roger Igo is the founder and CEO of The Bell Tower on 34th. During the last several decades, Roger has been responsible for thousands of successful events. He is a former council cabinet member of the World Affairs Council of Houston, served on the board of the International Live Events Association (formerly known as the International Special Events Society), and is a current member of the National Association of Catering Executives and Meeting Professionals International. He is also a graduate of CEO Space International and an alumnus of the Disney Institute.

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