Answering Your Wedding Questions: What if Someone Objects?

Have you ever imagined yourself in the following scenario? Your wedding officiant says, “If anyone objects to this union, speak now or forever hold your peace,” and someone actually speaks up.

Awkward!

While it's rare for someone to say “I object” at a wedding, it does happen occasionally. Here’s what you need to know about wedding objections and how to handle one with grace in the unlikely event it happens on your wedding day.

What is a Wedding Objection?

Wedding objections refer to when someone speaks up to oppose the marriage during the traditional “speak now or forever hold your peace” portion of the wedding ceremony.

Typically, the officiant will ask if anyone has a reason why the couple should not be legally wed. An objection occurs when someone speaks up after this question is asked.

Why Would Someone Object?

There are a few reasons why someone might speak up during a wedding ceremony:

-They have a legal reason: They believe one or both people are already married to someone else. This could happen if one partner had a previous marriage they never legally dissolved.

-They know of a serious reason the couple should not marry, such as the relationship being unethical or illegal in some way.

-They consider it a last-ditch effort to have a relationship with you. Maybe they harbor unrequited romantic feelings or jealousy and are acting on emotion rather than logic.

-They are intoxicated and causing a scene.

-As a prank or dare (not recommended!)

Do You Have to Include the Objection Question?

These days, the "If anyone objects" sentence is often omitted from wedding ceremonies. But you might find it's part of your ceremony script if you're a member of an Anglican or Episcopal church holding a religious ceremony. The statement comes from the Book of Common Prayer's marriage liturgy section.

If your denomination requires the "if anyone objects" statement, and you’re concerned about the possibility of someone answering, consider having a private legal marriage ahead of time, then excluding this portion of the script from your symbolic ceremony.

Of course, it's still possible (however unlikely) that someone will speak up without waiting for the officiant's cue.

Preventive Measures

If you’re worried someone may object during your wedding day, here are some measures you can take to help avoid it:

-Don’t invite anyone you think would intentionally ruin your day. Only share wedding details with trusted friends and family.

-Give potentially challenging guests a role in the wedding so they feel included and are less likely to object.

-If you think someone close to you harbors unresolved feelings, speak to them honestly ahead of time. They may need closure.

-Remind your wedding officiant they can ignore frivolous interruptions and continue with the ceremony.

-Consider hiring security to politely escort out any drunken or disorderly guests before the objection point.

What Happens If Someone Objects?

So can you still go forward with your wedding vows if anyone objects? Most likely. Generally, a wedding objection cannot legally halt the ceremony.

Your officiant can ignore it and continue with the wedding if they wish. That said, a legitimate legal objection, such as proof one partner is already married, may result in the wedding officiant pausing the ceremony to address it. But a casual objection without legal merit cannot stop the proceedings.

How Should You Respond?

Stay calm. Take a deep breath and try not to react in the moment. Look to your officiant to handle the situation and do not engage directly with the objecting party. The officiant may intervene and remove the person if necessary.

If the officiant pauses the ceremony, respectfully comply, but ask to reconvene privately after investigating the objection.

Above all, do not let an objection ruin your special day. Stay beside your partner and focus on your love and commitment. An objection says more about the person objecting than about you.

Overcoming the Awkwardness

If someone causes an awkward scene with an objection at your wedding, try to defuse tension with humor and grace. Laughter and lightness can help smooth over discomfort. Possible responses could include:

-"Duly noted. Now let's get to the good part!"

-"We appreciate your concern, but this train has already left the station!"

-"If you have any additional relationship advice, you can write us after the honeymoon."

"Thank you, next!" (A nod to Ariana Grande's hit breakup song.)"

-"Bless your heart, but we've got this covered." (This response is perfect for a Texas wedding, but say it with a smile to take the edge off.)

-"We'll be sure to keep that in mind at our 10-year vow renewal!"

-"We know you mean well, but today is about love, not objections."

The key is keeping it lighthearted rather than mean-spirited. A bit of humor can help diffuse the awkward tension and get things upbeat again. Just don't engage negatively or dramatically. A touch of comedy reminds everyone this is a joyful occasion.

If an objection occurs, we also encourage you to look to your wedding party, family, and community for reassurance and support. Focus on those there to celebrate your love, not the one person trying to undermine it.

Advice for Wedding Guests

If you attend a wedding where someone objects, please do not gasp, whisper, or stare. Remain silent and let the couple and officiant handle it gracefully.

Offer your emotional support through peaceful, loving energy rather than an audible reaction. Clap when the ceremony continues to restore a celebratory spirit. Most importantly, do not gossip or dwell on the objection later. Let the couple overcome the awkwardness privately.

Every marriage has challenges. An objection forces a couple to draw on their resilience and commitment from day one. With the right mindset and support system, an objection can actually strengthen your relationship. Focus on love, not the distraction. Your union will grow even deeper as you overcome trying moments hand-in-hand.

The Bell Tower on 34th in Houston, TX, is a wedding venue committed to helping couples realize their unique vision for their big day.

Our elegant venue, a short drive from Conroe, TX, is known for our supportive, knowledgable team members and beautiful, Old World setting.

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Hosting A Reception Following a Private Wedding Ceremony

Typically, when people imagine their dream wedding, they envision a ceremony where they say their vows, surrounded by their wedding party, and then float happily down the aisle amid beaming family and friends to the sound of wedding bells. Immediately afterward, it’s off to the reception, with the promise of food, drink, festivities, and fun!

It’s a pretty safe bet to assume this traditional wedding day combo is here to stay, but, like with many time-honored traditions, there are always those who like to shake things up! For those folks, the option to throw a reception-only wedding celebration is an option worth considering.

But before we launch into the hows of pulling off the delayed big bash (or small reception) to celebrate your marriage, here are a few reasons why having guests at a marriage celebration instead of a wedding may be right for you and your partner.

-You’re looking to elope but want to celebrate with friends and family later.

-You need/want to get married in a hurry.

-You desire an intimate wedding ceremony but want an unforgettable night with a rollicking, large-scale celebration (and possibly a cocktail hour).

-You’re hosting a destination wedding reception for guests but want to be married in your local church/mosque/synagogue or another house of worship.

-You married during the height of the pandemic with no bridal party and few or no guests, and now you want to celebrate on a larger scale

-You want to invite children to the reception but fear they will disrupt a solemn ceremony.

-You want to follow up a small ceremony with a surprise wedding.

When you opt for a reception-only celebration, the focus shifts to creating an unforgettable evening of festivities without the formalities of a traditional ceremony. Plus, reception-only celebrations can give you the flexibility to tailor your event to your preferences and budget. You can prioritize elements like food, entertainment, and decor to create a memorable experience for your guests without the constraints of a traditional wedding timeline.

How to plan a Reception

Just like a traditional wedding, a reception-only event calls for careful planning and consideration, often months in advance.

Here are a few items to consider as you figure out how to host a wedding reception.

Budget. The first item on your to-do list is to set your budget. A good rule of thumb is to keep your wedding venue and food costs to approximately 18-20% of your budget while allotting 10-15% to photos and/or video, and perhaps 10-12% for vendors and service providers, from your florist to a wedding planner. Of course, you have to budget for invitations, wedding cake, and other reception essentials. And remember to include 5% for those extras that will inevitably pop up.

Find your location early in the planning process. As you begin to Google “venues near me,” “affordable wedding venues,” or “banquet halls near me,” narrow your search to places that can accommodate the number of guests you have in mind and your budget.

Ask each potential reception venue about fees, its contract requirements, and how it can support your vision for your wedding reception. Consider locations convenient to your out-of-town guests.

Maybe you’d like to work in some kind of small (non-wedding) ceremony that celebrates your new lives together. One option is a unity ceremony, also known as a sand ceremony. During unity ceremonies, two people pour sand from separate vessels into a central vessel. It’s a picture of two lives that have come together. If you’d like to try this and are looking for unique unity ceremony ideas, try using sand from a beach you visited together (maybe, if you’ve already had your wedding ceremony, you can use sand from your honeymoon). Or select vessels that are family heirlooms or have meaning to the two of you. You also can select a vessel that belonged to a late loved one you’d like to honor.

Set a date, make a guest list, and choose your venue. When making these decisions, consider the schedules of your most important guests like parents, grandparents, and best friends.

If you’re planning a reception-only wedding, you will need to give careful thought to invitations. If you ask anyone to join you for your ceremony, they should be invited to your reception. But, you’ll also need a list of people you’d like at your reception.

Be clear that the invitation is for a reception, not a ceremony. One way to word it is, “You are invited to a reception in celebration of the marriage of…” Another option is, “Mr. and Mrs. Michael Smith and Mr. and Mrs. James Castle invite you to a reception celebrating the marriage of their children, Elizabeth Ann and Thomas Paul,” on …”

As for your wedding venue, be sure you’re completely up to speed on what the facility offers a reception vs. a ceremony, as well as their catering services, their policies, and their services.

Price, select, and book your vendors. While sticking to your budget is the first consideration when choosing who to work with on your reception, make sure to view or sample prospective vendors’ work. And ask for and follow up with referrals. Word of mouth is often the best judge of quality service. Be sure to get quotes from at least two or three vendors for each needed service.

Send out invitations in a timely manner. Two months before your event is a good timetable to keep to. Another thing to consider here is the wording. Though these invitations will be similar to those that invite people to weddings that include both ceremony and reception, it’s smart to expressly state that you are hosting a reception to celebrate your marriage, just so people know exactly what to expect. We also advise making invitees aware of the dress code, as they may be unsure, particularly if you have a theme.

Decide what you and your honey will wear. Re-wearing your ceremony attire is fine, but the choice is up to you. Whatever the case, make sure your expectations for your guests’ dress attire fit with what you and your spouse are wearing.

Decide whether or not to have a registry/or accept gifts. Some people may fret that it’s rude to expect guests to bring a gift if they’re only invited to the reception, but these fears may be baseless. After all, presents to celebrate a marriage can be given at any time, and, considering you’re likely treating your guests to a meal, drinks, and entertainment, it’s not outside of the bounds of etiquette to share your registry. However, if you still aren’t sure, leave that information off of the invitations and simply tell people if they ask.

Once you’ve made up your mind to hold separate wedding ceremonies and receptions, it’s important to let people know, particularly if they will only be invited to the reception. Explain why you’re making your decision and that you’re thrilled to celebrate with them when the time for the big bash comes. 

However, if someone seems a bit hurt that they’re not invited to both events, stand your ground and reiterate your reasons and why it’s best for everyone involved, then move on. Loved ones will understand, but be sure to make it up to them with a great party!

The Bell Tower on 34th, an intimate wedding venue in Houston, TX, is committed to helping recently engaged couples make their wedding visions a reality.

Our venue, with customizable packages, is a short drive from The Woodlands, TX.

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Answering Your Questions: ‘How Do I Change My Name in Texas?’

If you’re a newly married Texan and have been wondering how to legally change your name after marriage—or you’ve been worried about the cost of changing your name after marriage—we have some good news for you: An easy name change after marriage is within your reach, and it’s not expensive.

All you need are some key vital records, completed forms, and legal documents, along with a list of the government entities you’ll need to notify.

If you’re wondering where to get your name changed, you should know that there is no one-stop shop—or government entity—that will handle your post-wedding name change.

You’ll need to work with multiple entities individually.

If you don’t want to work on this on your own, you can find a name change service with Texas expertise, but that isn’t a requirement. The only warning we have for you is, while it’s not complicated, changing your name after marriage in the Lone Star State is not a particularly speedy process.

This article explains how to legally change your name after marriage and a few tips that can simplify each step.

change of name due to marriage: First Things First

Before you can start the process of changing your name, you’ll need legal proof of your marital status. You can do that with certified copies of your official marriage certificate from the office of the county clerk who originally issued it.

(By the way, Texas residents can get a marriage license from any county in the State, no matter where you hold your wedding. So, if you get married in Houston, you can get your marriage certificate from the Harris County Clerk’s office—but you don’t have to.)

One frequent question we receive is, “Can I get my marriage certificate online?” The answer is yes. In most cases, you can order copies of your marriage certificate (your marriage record) online. We recommend requesting at least several copies.

Keep in mind that a photocopy is not the correct marriage certificate to use for this process. You need a certified copy. Be specific when you make your request.

Pro tip: You can make it easier to complete your name change during wedding planning. If you’re still preparing for your wedding, and you intend to change your name, you might be able to order the certified copies with your original marriage license to save yourself some time.

Know What You Want

Have you decided what kind of name change you’d like? 

You’ll either be able to hyphenate your last name with your spouse’s name or make a complete switch and take your spouse’s last name.

What you won’t be able to do is use your marriage certificate to change your first name. The law doesn’t allow for changing your current middle name, creating a double middle name, or making up a new last name.

Court Requirements? Not in Texas

We’ve seen articles about changing last names in Texas that instruct readers to file a name change petition with their district court clerk. These articles mention court costs or filing fee and the need for a brief court hearing.

You should know that while filing a court petition is necessary for a legal name change in Texas, that requirement does not include a changed last name after marriage. You will not need a court order.

Instead, you’ll be approaching individual government agencies with a name-change request, providing one of your certified marriage license copies, and submitting name-change forms.

We recommend starting with the Social Security Administration.

How to update a social security card after marriage

Changing your name with the federal government and getting a new Social Security card calls for completing an SS-5 form. If you want, you can start the application process online at the Social Security Administration website before making an appointment to visit your local Social Security office.

Another option is to call 1-800-772-1213 to request a form by mail.

In addition to a certified copy of your marriage license and your signed, completed SS-5 form, you’ll need to be able to show the following:

Evidence of your age, which ideally would be your birth certificate. Other options could be a U.S. hospital record of your birth, a religious record established before you were 5 years old created at the time of your birth, a passport, or a final adoption degree.

Evidence of your identity, which could be a U.S. state-issued driver’s license or identification card or your U.S. passport.

Evidence of U.S. citizenship, which could include your U.S. birth certificate or passport, a Consular Report of Birth, a Certificate of Citizenship, or a Certificate of Naturalization.

The Social Security Administration requires original documents or certified copies in all cases, so while you can submit your application by mail, remember that you’ll need to include your supporting documents as well. If you go that route, Social Security will return your documents with your new card.

If you’d like to bring in your application and documents in person, you can find your nearby office on the Social Security Administration’s website.

You can expect a processing time of three to four weeks.

A Texas Driver’s license NAME CHANGE IN TEXAS

Once your new Social Security card arrives, your next step will be to complete the Texas Department of Public Safety’s (DPS’) Form DL-14A, which you can find online, to change your name on your Texas Driver’s License or ID.

If you complete the information in questions 1 and 2, you also can start the process of updating your voter registration.

In addition to your signed, completed application, you will need a certified copy of your marriage license, your new Social Security card, your passport (in your previous or married name), and your current driver’s license or state ID for a name change on a drivers license in Texas.

If you don’t have a passport, the DPS accepts other documents, including a U.S. birth certificate. You can find the complete list of accepted documents on the DPS website.

You’ll also need two documents that show you’re a Texas resident. They can include your current license or ID if it has your current address. Additional options are a utility bill, a pay stub, a bank or credit card statement, or a postmarked bill.

Take all of your documents to your local DPS office. You can avoid long lines by scheduling an appointment on the DPS Texas Scheduler site.

DPS does charge a fee for updating your license or identification. Processing takes two to three weeks.

The DMV and an After-Marriage Name Change

After receiving a new driver's license reflecting your married name, your next step is to update your car registration and title.

Here's how to work with the Texas DMV on a name change after marriage

Gather necessary documents - You will need to bring your current car registration, new driver's license, marriage certificate, and completed Title and Registration application. The Title application must be completed in your new married name.

Visit your local TX DMV office - Make an appointment at your local TX DMV office to process the car title and registration name change in person. Locate your closest office by searching online or calling.

-Pay applicable title and registration fees - There is a small title fee to reissue the car title in your new name. You'll also pay standard registration renewal fees if also renewing the registration.

-Receive new documents - The DMV will issue new car title and registration documents in your updated married name. Make sure all information is correct before leaving the office.

-Update insurance company - Contact your auto insurance provider with your new name and updated vehicle docs to reflect the changes on your policy.

Passport

If you have a passport, we suggest getting a new passport now so it’s available when you need it. To do that, use the DS-82 Form, available for download online.

Mail your completed, signed form to the U.S. Department of State. Once they receive it, standard processing time ranges from eight to 12 weeks; expedited processing is five to seven weeks. Fees begin at $130 for a passport book, and expedited processing is an additional $60. 

If you’re enrolled in the U.S. Global Entry program, which provides expedited clearance for pre-approved, low-risk travelers upon arrival in the United States, you’ll also need to visit a Global Entry enrollment center to update your information.

Your Health Insurance Card

After changing your name legally in Texas, one of the many items you'll need to update is your health insurance information.

The first step is to get in touch with the customer service team for your insurer. Let them know that you've recently changed your legal name due to marriage and need your name updated in their system and on your insurance card.

You’ll need to provide legal name change documentation. Your insurer will likely require a copy of your marriage certificate.

Your insurer may have specific forms or applications to process a name change on an account. Be prepared to fill these out with your new legal name.

Once you submit your name change request and documentation, ask your provider how long it will take to receive an updated insurance card and when the name change will take effect in their system. There is often some processing time.

Once you receive your new card, contact your doctors, dentists, specialists, and other healthcare providers to update your insurance information in their files. Provide them with the updated card.

If you have a spouse or dependents also covered under your policy, make sure to request enough new insurance cards so each covered member has an updated card.

Updating Your Name on Employment Authorization

If you have legally changed your name in Texas due to marriage, and you have employment authorization documentation, you'll need to update that as well.

The validity period, expiration date, and requirements to renew the card vary based on your immigration status.

Reach out to the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) office that issued your employment authorization document to inquire about requirements.

Next, submit an application and documentation. You'll likely need to file Form I-765 with USCIS to request a corrected employment authorization document reflecting your new name. Include supporting documents like your marriage certificate.

Allow processing time. It may take two or three months for the updated card to arrive. Continue working legally with your current card in the interim.

Once your new employment authorization arrives, make sure your name is correct. Contact USCIS immediately if any changes are still needed.

Let your employer know about your name change and updated work authorization document. Provide them with a copy for their records.

Taking these steps ensures you remain legally authorized to work under your new name. Reach out to USCIS or an immigration attorney if you have any questions about the process.

Banks, Credit Cards, and More

After you have your updated Social Security Card, along with your new Driver’s License or Passport, you’ll be able to change your name on your bank accounts, credit cards, and other forms of identification.

Remember, different banks and credit card issuers may have varying procedures for updating your name. Check their websites or contact their customer service departments to understand their specific requirements and processes.

While changing your name, take the opportunity to review and update other account information as necessary, like your mailing address or contact information.

After requesting a name change, watch for correspondence from your bank or credit card issuer confirming the update. Review any documents or statements carefully to ensure that your new name is reflected accurately.

Along the same lines, monitor your bank and credit card accounts regularly to make sure all transactions and account activity are accurate. Notify your financial institutions immediately if you notice any discrepancies or unauthorized activity.

(People also have asked us about social media accounts: You do not need to legally change your name to update them.)

As you can see, when you’re a Texas resident, legally changing your name after marriage is a slow, but straightforward process.

With a bit of preparation and attention to detail , you’ll have no trouble making sure everything is done correctly.

Name Change FAQs

Changing your name after marriage can bring up many questions. Here are answers to some frequently asked questions:

Do I need to hire a lawyer to change my name?

In most cases, you do not need legal representation to change your last name after marriage. As long as you have the required documents like a certified marriage certificate, you can navigate the name-change process on your own by working directly with each government agency and accounts you need to update.

How should I list my name when I apply for something before the change is complete?

When filling out applications during the transition period, list your previous or maiden name as your current last name. You can note your new name "as married" in parentheses or in the "Other Names Used" section. This ensures records accurately reflect your legal name at that time.

Once the name change process is fully complete, you should list your new name as your legal name on all applications and accounts.

Is there a time limit to change my name after marriage?

There is no time limit for changing your name after marriage in most locations. However, it's recommended you begin the process soon after your wedding to minimize complications of having documents and accounts in your maiden name. Many couples start the process 1-2 months after marriage.

Will my signature need to change?

Most likely, yes. Once your legal name has changed, you'll sign documents like checks and contracts with your new full name. While your signature itself doesn't need to drastically change, signing with your new last name solidifies your name change.

The Bell Tower on 34th is an intimate wedding venue with full event-planning services, customizable packages, and a knowledgeable staff committed to helping couples experience the wedding of their dreams.

Our Houston wedding venue near The Woodlands, TX, is the perfect setting for making special memories.

Learn more about holding a wedding here.

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Unveiling the Perfect Wedding Hashtag

Wedding hashtags are all the rage these days. They're showing up on save-the-dates, being printed on napkins and koozies, and, of course, they're appearing on social media posts.

A customized hashtag for your big day is a fantastic way to unify your wedding theme and collect memories. But coming up with a unique, catchy wedding hashtag takes some thought and creativity.

Use this comprehensive guide, including wedding hashtag samples, to get inspired and learn pro tips for creating a hashtag for your wedding.

What's Driving This Trend?

Wedding hashtags have become a ubiquitous part of modern nuptials, and for good reason. Here are a few of the factors that have made wedding hashtags so popular.

Personalization: A custom hashtag adds a personal touch to your wedding festivities.

Find and share photos: Guests can easily use your hashtag when posting pics on social media, allowing you to find and see all wedding photos in one place.

Unify your wedding theme or colors: A hashtag like #JessWedsInRed or #AdventureAwaitsTheJohnsons fits with your wedding motif.

Get a unique wedding album: You can scroll through your hashtag feed after the wedding to see candid moments you may have missed.

Share live updates: Guests can post real-time snippets of your wedding day like the processional, first dance, and cake cutting.

Social sharing: It allows friends and family who couldn't attend to feel included in the wedding celebration, too.

Crowdsource your wedding video: You can compile social videos into a wedding day montage or video guestbook.

Remember special memories: Wedding hashtags become a digital archive of your wedding day that you can look back on for years.

How do you make a catchy wedding hashtag?

With so many weddings happening each weekend, it can be tricky to think of funny wedding hashtags or unique, quirky hashtags that no one else has used. Keep in mind, the funniest wedding hashtags are easily understand by everyone who sees them. Here are some ideas for you to consider:

Use your Names or Initials

Combine your first names, last names, or initials, something like #JackLovesAmy or #AmyWedsJack.

This makes it really clear the hashtag is for YOUR wedding.

Play with Wedding Date Numbers

If you have a numerically significant wedding date like 05/05/2025, incorporate the date like #FiveFiveTwenty5.

Make It Location-Specific

For a destination wedding, try including the city, venue, or location like #VenicesGrandCanal or #SusansBahamasBash.

Highlight Your Wedding Theme

If you have a specific wedding motif like books, roses, or the beach, include it in your hashtag with something like #LiteratureAndLove or #RosesForTheRobertsons.

Use a Wedding Nickname or Portmanteau

Create a unique combo name from your first names like #Kimye (Kim + Kanye) or #Bennifer (Ben + Jennifer). #Janiel (Jamie + Daniel) is cute for a wedding hashtag.

Play with Your Last Name

Make your wedding hashtag rhyme or use alliteration like #LuckyinLoveLee or #MarvelousMarriageMartinez.

What Makes a Good Wedding Hashtag?

Once you've developed several potential wedding hashtags, evaluate them against these criteria to choose the best one:

Short and simple: Ideally, wedding hashtags should be limited to three or four words that are easy to remember and spell. Of course, if you have a brilliant idea that's longer, would make sense to your guests, and is meaningful to you, don't let word count guidelines stop you from using it.

Unique: Even if you've managed to develop brilliantly creative and unique wedding hashtags, it's still a good idea to Google them to see if another couple has used them.

Clear meaning: Guests should "get" the significance based on your names, wedding details, or relationship.

Easy to spell: Avoid odd capitalization, obscure references, or confusing punctuation.

Brand appropriate: Double-check to make sure that popular hashtags, like #BestDayEver, haven't been trademarked or widely used by corporations.

Positive vibes: The best wedding hashtags have an upbeat, positive hashtag.

Memorable: Pick something interesting and clever to help it stand out.

Customized: Show your personalities and how the hashtag suits you as a couple.

Wedding Hashtag Mistakes to Avoid

In your quest for the perfect wedding hashtag, steer clear of these common pitfalls:

Overused or generic: #HappilyEverAfter is popular but not very original. Do a quick search to see if the wedding hashtags you're thinking about are already ubiquitous.

Hard to spell: Stay away from odd capitalization like #jAmEsLoVesjeSsIca or punctuation like #james<3jessica. Keep it simple.

Inside joke: That hilarious college story about the night you met might not be clear to the average guest.

Offensive: Even unintentional double meanings can come across wrong. Google any risky hashtags.

References a wedding trend: Your wedding should stand the test of time. Avoid dated trends like mason jars or burlap.

Bad grammar or typos: Proofread! You want it to be correct.

Hard to pronounce: If people don't know how to say it, they probably won't use it.

Brand names: Don't use trademarked brands like #ThePerfectPairOfNikes for your wedding hashtag. Create your own unique twist.

Funny Wedding Hashtags

Humor is a great way to get people engaged and using your hashtag. Here are a few funny and clever wedding hashtags to inspire you:

#WattsTheHassle: For couples with the same last name.

#InstaHusband: Fun spin for hashtag-happy grooms.

#MarriageMarathon: Pokes fun at the long wedding day ahead.

Cute Wedding Hashtags

For a sweet, sentimental vibe, here are some lovely wedding hashtag options:

#LoveStoryUnfolds: Short and sweet.

#HappyEverForrest, #JoyfullyEverJones, #ForeverAndAlwaysSmith: Plays on the last name.

#BetterTogether: A short, sentimental hashtag idea.

Should You Use a Wedding Hashtag Generator?

Online wedding hashtag generators can instantly create hundreds of wedding hashtag options for you to choose from.

But should you rely solely on a generator? Here are the pros and cons.

Pros:

A wedding hashtag generator is an easy way to get ideas at the click of a button. These platforms usually have filters you can use to refine your options based on keywords or names. And in many cases, having a treasure trove of options can help spark creativity

Cons:

On the other hand, you might find that impersonal, computer-generated wedding hashtag suggestions lack meaning. And even with the generator's help, you'll still have to sift through a long, long list of options to find a good one. There's also a possibility that the generator will suggest taken or inappropriate hashtags.

The verdict? A wedding hashtag generator can be a handy brainstorming tool, but the best and most creative wedding hashtags come from combining computer suggestions with your own personalized hashtag flair.

Where Should You Display Your Wedding Hashtag?

Once you've created a wedding hashtag you love, spread the word by displaying it prominently in these spots:

-Save-the-dates, invitations, welcome signage

-Wedding website and emails to wedding guests

-Printed on cocktail napkins, koozies, and other wedding day items

-Wedding signs you'll be displaying by your photo booth, guestbook, or card box table

-Programs or itineraries

-Thank-you notes and wedding favors

-At the reception on screens, posters, and chalkboards

-In social media posts with wedding news and stories

The more visibility your hashtag gets, the more guests will remember to include it when posting photos.

Encouraging Guests to Use Your Hashtag

You've crafted the catchiest wedding hashtag ever...but how do you actually get guests to use it?

Try these tips:

-Explain why you're using a wedding hashtag on your website or invites. People are more likely to use it if they understand the purpose.

-Make small signs or table tent cards with your hashtag for prominent display at the reception and ceremony.

-Include your hashtag on items guests will use like programs, menus, or favors.

-Add your hashtag to Snapchat filters or photo booth props so it shows up in pictures.

-Provide thoughtful prompts like "Post your fave candid moments from the dance floor!" rather than just the hashtag alone. Give people ideas.

-Share some examples in advance, like posting engagement or bridal shower pics with your hashtag. Others will follow suit.

-Repost and comment on any guest photos using your hashtag. (You can always enlist someone you trust to log in as you and serve as your social media manager during the whole wedding celebrations.) Your responses will show that you're actively watching and will encourage people to use the hashtag even more.

Wedding Hashtag Etiquette

While there aren't strict rules for wedding hashtags, it's courteous to remember the following:

Hashtags Are Optional

Guests shouldn't feel pressure or obligation to use them.

Keep It Classy

Avoid oversharing or racy content. This hashtag will be online forever.

Mind Your Manners

Don't overdo your hashtag posts with constant updates.

Credit Photographers

If reposting a pro shot, tag or credit the photographer if possible.

Respect Privacy

Avoid posting unflattering or overly personal photos.

More Wedding Hashtag Inspiration

If you need a little extra wedding hashtag inspiration, here are some more fun ideas:

-Song lyrics: #YouHadMeAtHello, #Ain'tNoMountainHighEnough, #ComeFlyWithMe

-Books: #AliceTakesWonderland #PrideAndPrejudiceParty

-Movies and TV shows: #GameOfLoves, #WeFoundOurMcDreamy

-Fairytale themes: #HappilyEverAddison, #CinderellaStoryForSarah

-City themes: #MarriedInMontauk, #LovingLasVegas

-Food and drink puns: #TwoPeasInAPod

Wedding hashtags are more than just a trendy accessory—they're a tool for capturing and sharing the joy of your special day.

With these tips and ideas, you can create a hashtag that's as memorable and unique as your love story. So go ahead, get creative, and let the world know that you've found your happily ever after.

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Making Ring Bearers and Flower Girls Shine: Sweet Wedding Ideas

Your wedding day is not only a celebration of love between you and your partner but also a day to share joy with your family and friends.

Two of the more adorable participants in wedding ceremonies are the ring bearers and flower girls, who add an extra touch of sweetness and charm to the proceedings.

From "proposing" to them to ensuring they have a positive experience, here are some delightful ideas to make your ring bearers and flower girls feel special on your big day.

The Roles of Ring Bearers and Flower Girls

Ring bearers and flower girls play essential roles in the wedding, symbolizing innocence, purity, and the future of the couple's union.

The ring bearer, usually a little boy, traditionally carries the wedding rings on a pillow or cushion. The flower girl's big job is to scatter petals along the aisle, leading the bride's entrance.

When It's Time to 'Propose'

Inviting a child to be a ring bearer or flower girl can be an exciting moment for both them and the couple.

Consider going the extra mile when you propose: It will make the moment even more meaningful to them and show them that they're valued.

Here are some creative ideas to make your proposal extra special:

Personalized Invitation

Creating printed invitations addressed specifically to the little ones you want in your wedding will move them and give them a special reminder of your proposal.

You can design the invitation with their favorite colors, cartoon characters, or themes that reflect their interests.

Include a heartfelt message expressing why you would love for them to be part of your wedding day.

Treasure Hunt

Organize a treasure hunt leading to a hidden treasure box containing the invitation and a small gift, such as a toy or a treat.

Leave clues around the kids' home or a favorite location, guiding them on an exciting adventure culminating in the surprise proposal.

This fun, interactive approach adds an element of fun and anticipation to the proposal.

Personalized Keepsake

Present the child with a personalized keepsake, such as a custom-made puzzle or storybook featuring illustrations of the bridal party.

As they piece together the puzzle or flip through the pages of the book, they'll discover your message inviting them to be your ring bearer or flower girl.

Video Message

Work with your partner to create a video that explains why you would love for the child to be your ring bearer or flower girl.

Include personal anecdotes or memories shared with the child to make the proposal more meaningful.

You can deliver the video request in person or send it electronically for a surprise reveal.

Special Outing

Plan a fun-filled day with your prospective ring bearer or flower girl like a visit to their favorite park, zoo, or ice cream shop.

Use this opportunity to casually broach the topic of your wedding and express how much it would mean to have them participate in your wedding.

Present them with a small gift or token of appreciation during the outing as a symbol of the proposal.

Family Gathering

Incorporate the ring bearer proposal or flower girl proposal into a family event like a birthday party or holiday gathering. Bring everyone together for a special announcement, where you can formally ask the child to be part of your wedding.

Celebrate the moment with cake, balloons, or other festive decorations.

Enlist Their Parents' Help

Coordinate with the child's parents or guardians to plan a surprise proposal that really resonates.

Maybe your ring bearer proposal can include a message tucked into a PAW Patrol storybook. Or, your flower girl's proposal can be delivered in a beautiful gift box decorated in her favorite colors.

Strategies for Wedding Day Success

To ensure a positive experience for your ring bearer and flower girl, involve their parents in the wedding planning process, at least when it comes to details that apply to their children.

Discuss outfits with the children's parents, too. You'll want them to wear something cute, but comfortable.

As your wedding date approaches, consider a few special rehearsals to familiarize your ring bear and flower girl with their roles and your wedding venue. Even if you're planning a wedding rehearsal, that extra time focused on them can make a huge difference when it's time for the real wedding ceremony.

We also suggest assigning a responsible adult to supervise and support the little ones throughout your ceremony.

Special Touches For the Ring Bearer

One decision you'll need to make with the children's parents is whether to keep their involvement in your wedding simple and traditional or to incorporate creative elements into their journey down the aisle.

If you want, instead of having the ring bearer carry rings resting on a traditional pillow, you can have him pull them to the altar in a miniature wagon.

For cuteness overload, you could also enlist a beloved pet to accompany the little man down the aisle.

Another possibility is to provide a cute sign for the ring bearer to wear. Here are a few options:

'Here Comes the Bride'

Keep it classic with a timeless sign that announces your entrance. This sign can be decorated with floral accents, ribbons, or embellishments that complement the wedding theme.

'Ring Security'

Let the ring bearer play the role of "ring security" by wearing a sign that declares their important duty. Decorate the sign with playful police badge graphics, handcuff illustrations, or other law enforcement-themed elements to complete the look.

'Happily Ever After Starts Here'

Set the tone for a fairy tale wedding. Adorn the sign with fairy lights, glitter, or whimsical fonts to capture the magic of the moment.

'Wait Until You See Her'

Build anticipation for your grand entrance. Along the same lines, you could have the ring bearer wear a sign that reads, "Just Wait Until You See Her Dress."

'All Because Two People Fell in Love'

Celebrate your love story with a sign that reflects the sentiment behind your union.

This heartfelt message reminds everyone present of the profound impact of love and the joyous occasion they've come together to witness.

Baby Ring Bearer Ideas

Having a baby as your ring bearer is an incredibly sweet and adorable way to include the youngest member of your family or friend group in your wedding ceremony. Here are some ideas to make your baby ring bearer's role extra special:

Wagon Ride

Instead of having the baby walk down the aisle, have them pulled in a decorated wagon, stroller, or other wheeled vehicle. Adorn it with ribbons, flowers, and signs like "Here Comes the Bride/Groom" to make it festive.

Family Attendant

Assign a family member or trusted friend to be the baby's personal attendant for the day. This person can calmly guide them down the aisle while you exchange vows.

Mini Tuxedo or Dress

Outfit your baby ring bearer in an adorable mini tuxedo or dress that coordinates with your wedding colors and style. Add a cute newsboy cap or baby's first bowtie for extra charm.

Ring Bearer Pillow Alternative

Instead of a traditional pillow, have the baby present the rings in a special box, basket, or pouch attached to their wagon or stroller. Get creative with the container.

Stuffed Animal Buddy

Give your baby ring bearer a special stuffed animal "buddy" to hold onto as they make their way down the aisle. It can provide comfort and be a keepsake afterward.

Remember, flexibility is key with babies. Having backup ring bearers ready and focusing on making beautiful memories is most important.

Flower Girl Ideas for Your Wedding

Enhance the flower girl's role by offering her creative alternatives to traditional flower petals. Consider having her scatter confetti, bubbles, or even feathers along the aisle.

For a whimsical touch, adorn her basket with ribbons, flowers, or fairy lights. Encourage her to walk at her own pace, allowing her to savor the spotlight and enjoy her special moment.

Here are more creative ideas to make the flower girl's part of your wedding even more delightful:

Fairy Wings and Wand

Transform the flower girl into a magical fairy character by outfitting her with delicate wings and a sparkling wand. Encourage her to sprinkle fairy dust (biodegradable glitter or confetti) along the aisle as she walks.

Floral Crown and Basket

Adorn the flower girl with a beautiful floral crown that matches the bridal bouquet or the wedding theme. Pair it with a charming basket filled with petals, flowers, or herbs like lavender or rosemary.

Ribbon Wands

Replace traditional flower petals with ribbon wands for the flower girl to wave gracefully as she walks down the aisle.

Choose ribbons in your wedding colors or opt for a mix of pastel hues for a whimsical effect. Guests can wave their own ribbon wands in celebration as the flower girl passes by.

Balloon Bouquet

Instead of flowers, have the flower girl carry a bouquet of balloons in assorted colors and shapes. Attach ribbons or streamers to the balloons for added visual interest.

Book of Love

Have the flower girl carry a beautifully decorated book adorned with flowers, lace, or personalized embellishments. Inside the book, include passages about love, marriage, and family, creating a unique and meaningful prop that reflects your journey with your partner.

Pomander Ball

Create a pomander ball for the flower girl to carry, featuring a spherical arrangement of flowers, foliage, or fabric blooms. Hang the pomander from a ribbon or decorative handle, so she can carry it with ease as she walks down the aisle.

Parasol or Umbrella

Shield the flower girl from the sun or rain with a charming parasol or umbrella embellished with floral motifs or decorative trim. Choose a parasol in a color that complements your wedding palette.

Older Flower Girl Ideas

While the role of a flower girl traditionally falls to young girls, there's no reason why older flower girls can't add their own unique charm to your wedding ceremony. Here are some delightful ideas to make older flower girls feel special and included in your big day:

Junior Bridesmaid Role

Consider inviting an older flower girl to take on the role of a junior bridesmaid. This allows them to participate in pre-wedding events like getting ready with the bridal party and walking down the aisle alongside the bridesmaids.

Special Responsibilities

Give older flower girls special responsibilities to make them feel more involved. This could include assisting with wedding planning tasks, helping younger flower girls with their duties, or even giving a reading during the ceremony.

Personalized Attire

Allow older flower girls to have a say in their attire, whether it's choosing a dress style that reflects their personality or selecting accessories like jewelry or hairpieces.

Customized Bouquet

Instead of scattering petals, older flower girls can carry a small bouquet of flowers down the aisle. Work with your florist to create a personalized bouquet that complements the overall floral theme of your wedding.

Escorting Duties

If you have multiple flower girls, consider pairing older flower girls with younger ones to provide guidance and support during the ceremony. This can help younger flower girls feel more at ease while also giving older ones a sense of responsibility.

Solo Performance

Give older flower girls the opportunity to shine with a solo performance during the ceremony or reception. Whether it's singing a song, reciting a poem, or showcasing a talent, this allows them to showcase their unique skills and talents.

Flower Girl Alternatives

While the traditional role of a flower girl adds a charming touch to wedding ceremonies, there are alternative options for couples looking to put a unique spin on their procession. Here are some creative alternatives to flower girls for your wedding.

Petal Tossing Pups

Invite your furry friends to join in the festivities as petal tossing pups. Adorn their collars with flowers or attach small baskets to their backs filled with petals to scatter along the aisle as they walk.

Bubble Blowers

For a whimsical and eco-friendly alternative, have guests blow bubbles as you make your grand entrance. This adds a playful element to the procession and creates stunning photo opportunities.

Balloon Bearers

Replace flower petals with balloons carried by young attendants. Whether they hold a single large balloon or a bunch of smaller ones, it adds a colorful and fun twist to the ceremony.

Lantern Carriers

Create a magical ambiance by having young attendants carry lanterns down the aisle instead of flower baskets. Fill the lanterns with fairy lights or candles to cast a warm glow as you walk towards your partner.

Ribbon Wavers

Provide ribbon wands for young attendants to wave gracefully as they walk down the aisle. Choose ribbons in your wedding colors or opt for a mix of pastel hues for a whimsical effect.

Book Bearers

Have young readers carry books down the aisle instead of flower baskets. Choose books that hold special meaning to you as a couple or ones that reflect the theme of your wedding.

Music Makers

Enlist young musicians to serenade you down the aisle with live music. Whether it's playing the violin, flute, or guitar, their musical talents will add an extra layer of romance to your procession.

Confetti Throwers

Encourage guests to toss biodegradable confetti as you walk down the aisle. This adds a festive atmosphere and allows everyone to participate in the celebration.

Thank You Gift Ideas

Consider showing your appreciation for your ring bearer and flower girl with thoughtful gifts that they can treasure long after the wedding day.

For Your Flower Girl

To thank her for being part of your special day, gift possibilities include personalized jewelry, a stuffed animal, or a charm bracelet featuring symbols of your wedding theme.

Another option would be to create a custom wedding coloring book with pictures of the bride and groom, best man, maid of honor, and the wedding party, along with her and the ring bearer.

For the Ring Bearer

Gift possibilities for the little man in your wedding could include a personalized toy or keepsake box, a mini sports jersey, or a themed book.

Consider gifts, or at least thank you notes, for the kids’ parents, too. Without their help, it wouldn't be possible to have their children in your wedding.

More Ideas

Incorporate the ring bearer and flower girl into your wedding photoshoot, capturing candid moments of their excitement and joy. Have your flower girl pose with the bridal party while the ring bearer poses with the groomsmen.

Include the children in pre-wedding festivities like the rehearsal dinner or bridal party preparations, making them feel like integral members of the celebration.

Provide age-appropriate entertainment and activities to keep the little ones engaged during downtime at the reception, such as coloring books, puzzles, or a designated play area.

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How to Ask Her Parents for Permission to Propose

How to Ask Her Parents for Permission to Propose

In a world where traditions often evolve or fade away, the act of asking a woman's parents for permission to propose remains a significant gesture for many couples.

This is especially true in the United States. In fact, the 2022 Real Weddings Study by The Knot found that 71% of its survey respondents asked their partner’s parent or parents for permission before proposing.

In this guide, we'll delve into the history behind asking for a woman's hand in marriage, explore why some still choose to uphold this tradition, and provide advice on navigating this delicate conversation.

A Tradition Steeped in History

The tradition of asking the future bride's father (or parents) for her hand in marriage dates back centuries and spans cultures worldwide.

In many countries, the idea of marriage based on romance didn't emerge in the 18th century. Before then, marriage was considered more than a union between two individuals. It was a merging of families, assets, and alliances. During that time, seeking the father's permission was essential: It signified his approval of the union and ensured the continuity of lineage and familial bonds.

Even though the dynamics of modern relationships have shifted, the tradition of approaching one's future father-in-law, or other family members, before proposing endures.

The Tradition Today

For some, asking for permission to propose is a way to honor and acknowledge the role that parents have played in their lives and relationships.

It's a gesture of respect for the family's values and traditions and an opportunity to seek their support and guidance as the couple embarks on a new chapter together.

In an interview with WeddingWire, relationship and life coach Jonathan Bennett noted that asking permission to marry someone’s child can also be a way to show them you value their input on their child’s future. “This can come as a relief to many parents who might fear that they are completely ‘losing’ their child to marriage,” he said.

Is It Right for You?

Before deciding whether to ask your future father-in-law or future inlaws for permission to propose, we encourage you to consider the dynamics of your relationship with both your partner and her parents. While the tradition may hold sentimental value for some, it may not be appropriate or necessary for everyone.

Make sure that both you and your partner are on the same page about this. Some individuals may find the tradition of asking a parent for their daughter's hand outdated or even patriarchal, while others may appreciate the gesture. Along the same lines, consider your partner's family dynamics and whether her parents would welcome or expect such a request. Asking your future in-laws for permission to marry their daughter could result in newfound respect and a bonding experience. Or, it could fall flat.

Ultimately, the decision should be guided by mutual respect and understanding.

Tips to Consider

If you've decided to ask your future father-in-law or in-laws for permission before proposing, approaching the conversation with thoughtfulness and sensitivity is paramount.

Here are some tips for talking to a girlfriend’s parents about proposing.

Choose the Right Setting

Select a time and place where you can have a private and uninterrupted conversation with your significant other's father or both of her parents.

This should be an in-person conversation, not a call, text, or even a formal letter.

Express Your Intentions

As you talk with your future bride's parents, be genuine and sincere when expressing your desire to marry their daughter. Share your love and commitment to her and your intentions for the future.

Acknowledge Their Role

Recognize the significance of family members in your partner's life and express your respect and appreciation for their support and guidance.

Be Prepared for Questions

Anticipate that her parents may have questions or concerns, and be prepared to address them honestly and openly.

Listen and Respond with Empathy

Be attentive to family members' reactions and concerns and respond with empathy and understanding.

Try not to let yourself get defensive or argumentative if they express reservations.

Respond with Respect

Remain respectful after your partner's parents give you their decision, whether it's a wholehearted blessing or a request for more time to consider.

Here are a few more dos and don'ts to keep in mind when you speak with the family of your future wife:

-Do: Approach the conversation with humility and sincerity.

-Do: Listen actively to their perspectives and concerns.

-Don't: Pressure or manipulate them into giving their blessing.

-Don't: Disregard their feelings or opinions.

-Don't: Assume that their response will be positive.

Handling Rejection

In the event that your partner's parents express reservations or decline your request initially, it's essential to respond with grace and understanding.

Take the opportunity to address any concerns they may have and offer reassurance about your commitment to their daughter and your readiness for marriage.

Give them time to process their feelings and consider your proposal before revisiting the conversation.

Alternatives to Asking for Permission to Marry

While seeking parental permission remains a cherished tradition for many couples, it's not the only way to honor and involve parents in the proposal process.

Here are some alternatives that may be a better fit your your family values.

Seeking the Father's Blessing

Instead of asking for permission to marry, consider seeking your partner's father's blessing as a gesture of respect and inclusion.

Along the same lines, don't limit the conversation to your partner's father; talk with both of your girlfriend's parents.

Involving Parents in the Proposal

Invite your future inlaws to be part of the proposal itself, whether it's through a surprise engagement party or a special moment shared with both families.

Hosting a Family Celebration

Plan a celebration with both families after the proposal to announce your engagement and share the joyous occasion.

Personalizing the Tradition

Adapt the tradition to suit your relationship and family dynamic, whether it's involving both sets of parents or incorporating cultural customs.

Asking for permission to propose remains a meaningful gesture that strengthens familial bonds and underscores the importance of mutual respect and understanding.

Aim to approach the conversation with thoughtfulness, sensitivity, and an open heart, and be prepared to listen and respond with empathy. Whether the response is a wholehearted blessing or a request for more time to consider, remember that the most important thing is the love and commitment you share with your partner.

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An Unforgettable Boho Wedding: Ideas for a Chic, Relaxed Celebration

Boho weddings have become increasingly popular over the past few years, offering couples a relaxed, charming, and effortlessly chic way to celebrate their marriage.

If you're drawn to bohemian style and want to incorporate it into your big day, this guide will give you plenty of ideas for pulling off an unforgettable boho wedding.

What is a Boho Wedding?

A boho wedding embraces bohemian influences through natural elements, vintage accents, and free-spirited style. Boho weddings are all about creating a relaxed, romantic vibe that encourages guests to kick back and have fun.

Couples planning a boho wedding tend to favor flowy dresses, natural hair and makeup, abundant florals, earthy colors, handmade decor, and a loose schedule without excessive formality. There's an emphasis on personal touches over tradition. The overall aesthetic is dreamy, whimsical, and effortlessly beautiful.

Why Choose a Boho Wedding?

There are many reasons why making a wedding boho appeals to couples. Here are some of the biggest benefits:

-It allows you to fully express your personal style. Boho weddings celebrate individuality.

-The casual vibe creates a laid-back, stress-free celebration. There's less pressure, so you and your guests can relax.

-A bohemian wedding brings nature's beauty to your wedding. Natural elements like foliage, flowers, natural wood, and stone create a magical backdrop.

-Vintage and handmade details add quirky, romantic charm. These personal touches make your wedding unique.

-The look photographs beautifully. Billowy dresses, flower crowns, and dreamy details lend themselves to gorgeous wedding photos.

-It's budget-friendly. The casual approach allows you to cut costs without sacrificing style.

If you want to infuse that free-spirited boho style into your wedding, here are some fun ideas to consider.

Boho Wedding Invitations

Your invitations offer the first glimpse into your wedding style. Opt for boho flair with:

-Floral designs: Select fresh flower watercolor designs or real pressed flowers under glass on your invitations.

-Nature motifs: Leafy greenery, trees, butterflies, feathers, and other natural elements make artistic invites.

-Rustic materials: Consider wood paper, seed paper, or kraft paper printed with beautiful calligraphy.

-Macrame and lace: Incorporate fabric textures and details through woven accents, lace layers, or fabric wraps.

-Painted designs: Find a local artist on Etsy to hand paint your invites with custom boho designs.

-Whimsical shapes: Die-cut your paper into fun unconventional shapes like moons, stars, or leaves.

-Unique fonts: Use swooping, flowy, handwritten fonts and lettering. Mix and match styles.

-Muted color palettes: Keep your color scheme soft and neutral with cream, taupe, or blush paper. Metallic ink adds sheen.

-Quirky map inserts: Have a map leading to your wedding venue printed on the inside.

Boho wedding decorations

Your decor sets the aesthetic tone for your whole wedding. For a laid-back, bohemian feel, look for:

-Greenery: Incorporate lots of leafy foliage like ferns and eucalyptus. Suspend greenery from the ceiling, line aisles and alter with garlands, and place stems in vases and hanging arrangements.

-Abundant florals: Choose loose, natural-looking flower arrangements in muted tones like ivory, blush, mauve, and sage. Garden roses, peonies, and dahlias work beautifully.

-Macrame: Incorporate the boho woven style through wall hangings, plant hangers, bowls, and more.

-Dreamcatchers: Hang these above your head table or ceremony altar for a whimsical, spiritual touch.

-Candles: Place candles in glass jars, lanterns, and vintage containers to create a glowing, romantic vibe that complements your boho wedding theme.

-Rustic wood: Use wood slices, crates, and logs to add organic texture.

-Eclectic furniture: Skip the traditional banquet chairs and tables. Choose mismatched seating, lounge furniture, and low tables for a relaxed vibe.

-Filmy fabrics: Light and billowy fabrics like chiffon, silk, and voile add dreamy texture when draped over seating, tables, tents, or hung from trees.

The Boho Bride: Wedding Dresses

Your dress sets the tone for your whole bridal style. Seek out:

-Flowy silhouettes: Look for long, floaty skirts and dresses with movement. Asymmetrical and high-low hems add drama.

-Whimsical details: Seek out ruffles, lace, macrame straps, or crocheted accents.

-Earthy fabrics: Silk, cotton, or linen in ivory or nude shades add a boho touch.

-Floral motifs: Subtle floral embroidery, beading, or lace elevates the dress.

-Off-the-shoulder or strapless necklines: Bared shoulders emit a carefree, bohemian vibe.

-Simple veils: Opt for elbow-length, fluttering veils that complement the dress without overpowering it.

Reception Tables

Your reception tablescape is hugely impactful. Create a relaxed feel at your boho wedding with:

-Eclectic linens: Mix different fabrics like cotton, lace, or silk in neutral tones instead of using formal tablecloths. Place runners down the center.

-Full floral centerpieces: Choose loose arrangements in mismatched vases and vessels. Let flowers drape over the edges for a garden feel.

-Candles: Cluster pillar candles, taper candles, or tealights for a dreamy glow.

-Wood and stone elements: Incorporate slices of wood, geo stones, or potted succulents for organic texture. Place cards on stones, wood slices, or in mini terrariums.

-Mismatched dinnerware: Allow each place setting to be unique by mixing vintage china, painted plates, and patterned napkins.

Special Touches for Your Boho Wedding

Looking for details that will enhance the bohemian wedding theme you're going for? Get inspired with:

-Flower crowns: Provide or encourage flower crowns for guests and the wedding party. A bride in a flower crown is stunning.

-Boho wedding shoes: Opt for embroidered flats, sandals, or soft lace-up boots. Add sparkle with beaded details.

-Free-flowing bouquets and ceremony florals: For a true bohemian wedding feel, the looser and more abundant, the better.

-Macrame ceremony backdrop: Hang macrame and florals on the arch, altar, chuppah, or backdrop display.

-Rose petals on the ceremony aisle: Scatter loose petals down the aisle for an ultra-romantic touch.

-Readings from poems, lyrics, or literature: Choose whimsical, nature-inspired passages.

-Relaxed seating: Scatter throw pillows, poufs, and cozy lounge seating around fire pits, tables, and relaxing spaces.

-Festival lighting: Incorporate string lights, cafe bulbs, and paper lanterns for a magical ambiance.

Boho Wedding Food and Drinks

Adapt your menu to match the bohemian wedding theme vibe:

-Family-style service: Skip the plated dinners for a communal feel.

-Al fresco dining: Host your reception outdoors if possible. Have picnic blankets available.

-Local and seasonal cuisine: Work with your caterer to include fresh, local ingredients.

-Food stations: Swap the typical buffet for interactive global food, slider, or taco stations.

-Signature cocktails: Create a custom drink in keeping with your bohemian wedding theme. Add fun garnishes.

-Wine, beer, mimosas: Offer day-drinking appropriate beverages. Provide passed versions during cocktail hour.

-Late-night snacks: Have bite-sized snacks like fries, pizza, or sliders available for late-night cravings.

Boho Wedding Color Palette

Pull together a color scheme that reflects your bohemian style. Possibilities include:

-Earth tones: Sand, terra cotta, sage green, stone

-Pastels: Lavender, blush, butter yellow, soft pinks, seafoam

-Metallics: Rose gold, brass, copper

-Whites: Ivory, cream, eggshell

Flowers and Plants for Your Boho Wedding Theme

Florals play a major role in boho wedding decor. Ideal picks include:

-Garden roses: These dainty blooms epitomize bohemian wedding style. Choose them in soft shades.

-Peonies: The ultimate boho wedding flower. Use them generously in arrangements.

-Dahlias: All varieties work beautifully.

-Ranunculus: Gorgeous when clustered or floating in arrangements.

-Anemones: These delicate blooms come in purple, white, and blush shades.

-Hydrangeas: Big, billowy hydrangea blossoms exude boho wedding vibes.

-Poppies: The vibrant colors of poppies pair beautifully with soft pastels.

-Wildflowers: Using loose wildflowers or even wheat and herbs embodies the bohemian aesthetic.

-Eucalyptus: This leafy green foliage meshes perfectly with florals.

-Ferns: All varieties of ferns lend an earthy, whimsical texture.

-Moss: Use reindeer moss or sheet moss as part of your floral decor.

-Succulents: Mix in succulents like echeveria or cacti for added texture.

-Fruit: Slice lemons, oranges, or grapes and add them to arrangements.

-Herbs: Rosemary, lavender, and sage sprigs enhance boho bouquets.

Boho Wedding Music

Set the perfect free-spirited mood for your boho wedding with:

-Indie acoustic playlists: Feature bands like The Lumineers, Mumford and Sons, or Ray LaMontagne during the ceremony and cocktails.

-Upbeat folk rock: Play bands like Of Monsters and Men, Fleet Foxes, and First Aid Kit later in the reception when you want to get people dancing.

-Eclectic mix: Ask your DJ to blend favorite indie folk/rock songs with vintage jazz standards, reggae beats, or rhythmic world music sprinkled throughout the night.

-Live music: Consider hiring solo acoustic musicians, a folk band, or even a fiddle player to welcome guests to your boho wedding.

-Relaxed vibe - Avoid overly produced songs. Keep music organic.

-Personally meaningful songs: Incorporate songs with significance to you, and share the stories behind them.

Capturing Your Boho Wedding Memories

A boho wedding's dreamy, whimsical details make for incredible wedding photos and videos. When planning, keep these tips in mind:

-Schedule a "first look:" Take photos with your partner privately before the ceremony so you can get couple portraits out of the way. This leaves more time for relaxed, natural photos during the reception.

-Do a creative shoot: Head to a field, forest, beach, or other scenic spot for gorgeous nature shots. Wear your dress and suit or more casual boho-inspired outfits.

-Get ready shots: A professional can photograph your dress details, bouquet, rings, invitations, and other pretty particulars.

-Lifestyle shooting: This photojournalistic style captures authentic moments as they happen throughout the day without overly posing. It results in joyful, real memories.

-Drone photography: Use overhead drone shots to exhibit venue details and give a unique aerial perspective. Just avoid disturbing guests.

-Prioritize golden hour: Take as many photos as possible during the magical lighting of sunset. The rays make everything glow.

-Candids during dancing: Let your photographer mingle inconspicuously to get fun reaction shots.

-Videography: Include both highlight and full-length professional wedding videos so you can relive every moment.

-Photo booth - Set up a fun backdrop and props with a boho aesthetic so guests can snap shots in a photo booth corner.

Boho Wedding Favors

Share your boho wedding vibe with guests via:

-Mini succulents: Pot these in small terra cotta pots tied with twine.

-Flower seed packets: Let guests take home seeds to plant. Include care instructions.

-Himalayan salt candles: These pretty pink candles make great gifts.

-Dreamcatchers: Mini versions work perfectly as favors.

-Donate to charity: Provide cards sharing the couple's donation in place of favors.

A Boho Grand Exit

Even your send-off can tie in with your boho wedding. Consider the following ideas:

-Floral send-off: Guests shower the new couple with fresh petals as they exit. Or they wave single stems.

-Ribbons or flags: For a festive farewell, have guests wave these items.

-Getaway car: Rent a vintage car or create a "just married" sign for the back of your getaway vehicle.

The Bell Tower on 34th, a wedding venue in Houston, TX, has helped thousands of recently engaged couples make their wedding vision a reality.

Our venue, with full event-planning services, offers customizable packages for large or small events.

The Pinterest-Worthy Design Guide for Your 2024 Corporate Event in Houston

Planning a corporate event comes with plenty of moving parts, not the least of which is figuring out how your venue space will transport attendees into an immersive environment that brings your company’s brand and culture to life visually.

Selecting the perfect decor and design scheme is crucial for crafting the mood and messaging you want to achieve. Here at The Bell Tower on 34th in Houston, Texas, we stay on top of the Pinterest-worthy and hottest trends in the corporate event venue world from fresh floral inspiration to creative lighting displays. We want to ensure that every company that books their next business bash with us has the advantage of unlocking a stunning backdrop tailored exactly for their event goals and audience.

Wow-Worthy Corporate Event Details: Leading Decor Themes This Season

Mocktails Take Center Stage

As the modern corporate event continues evolving beyond the standard open bar, innovative non-alcoholic offerings are stepping into the spotlight.

Companies want to create an inclusive atmosphere while upholding health-conscious values. That’s why at The Bell Tower on 34th, mocktails reign supreme with our seasonal blends impressing guests with fresh flavors in zero-proof concoctions. Our bar team loves experimenting with new mixtures featuring house juices, aromatic waters, botanical garnishes, spices, and more mixing magic.

These craft “spirit-free” options offer a vibrant alternative for event guests to sip on, while still sparking that festive vibe. They also make for sensational photo ops and interactive drinking experiences when colorfully bottled and labeled to match the decor theme. Signature cocktails might have met their rival with this popular corporate event trend that enlivens space with positivity, creativity, and fun.

Mood Lighting

Lighting has become a major moment-maker. Advancements in event tech now allow venues like ours to transform rooms through customized intelligent lighting schemes and projected displays on surfaces and floors rather than relying solely on static fixtures.

Programmable RGB LED lights allow event organizers to completely theme out rooms, shifting colors and patterns to match decor elements or amplify the mood for each part of an event’s program or agenda.

Abstract and Geometric Designs

We’re noticing bolder and edgier decor elements coming onto the 2024 corporate scene, reflecting more modern and artistic sensibilities.

Corporations are now embracing abstract sculptural lighting features, asymmetrical floral displays with “unorganized” looks, and overlapping geometric patterns used prominently on staged furniture backdrops and in branded graphic projections.

This direction speaks to the innovation today’s professionals want to see corporations championing. The feedback so far from The Bell Tower on 34th guests is extremely positive, as these conversation starter displays help galvanize the innovative spirit.

Good Food Presentations

Culinary and cocktail experiences remain a key part of corporate event decor and ambiance.

Interactive food stations allow catering to take a starring role with high visual interest displays. Out with cookie cutter banquet dishes and in with vertical presentations, ornate small plate layouts, botanical garnishes, and decorative grazing tables the guests can interact with.

Bring Your Corporate Event Vision to Life with The Bell Tower on 34th

Let our experienced team guide you in selecting the perfect mix of decor details for your next corporate event that will leave your team and clients feeling wowed and inspired during their time at The Bell Tower on 34th!

Contact us today to start crafting your custom decor vision.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018
(713) 868-2355

Creating a Wedding Crest

If you’re looking for ways to make your wedding uniquely your own, option is to display a custom wedding crest.

A wedding crest is a symbolic design that represents a couple and their union. These crests are a longstanding wedding tradition that adds a personal touch and sense of heritage to the celebrations.

As weddings become more customized, custom crests are making a comeback.

Here's a closer look at these crests and ideas that you can use if you'd like to incorporate one into your wedding.

Understand the Difference: Wedding Crests and Monograms

Before we go into wedding crests, though, we'd like to clarify the differences between wedding crests and wedding monograms.

A monogram contains only the couple's initials, usually styled and overlapped in some way. It might, for example, display the initials "J" and "S" for "John Smith" and "Jane Doe" becoming the intertwined monogram "JS."

A crest aims to tell a richer, more personal story of who the couple is together than a monogram. Crests are more customized art pieces that are used as stand-alone focal points.

A crest can include initials, but it will also incorporate meaningful symbols, illustrations, dates, mottoes, flowers, and other design elements. It represents your family history, interests, values, and relationship journey.

What to Include in Your Wedding Crest

If you decide to create a wedding crest, you can include any details that hold significance for you. Traditional crests contain such elements as:

-Last name initials of the bride and groom: Use your first, last, or married initials.

-Date: Display your wedding date or the year you met.

-Symbols: Depict symbols that represent your love, interests, or values.

-Flowers: Incorporate your wedding flowers or botanicals with special meaning to you.

-Mascot: Add an animal mascot if one is special to you as a couple.

-Cities: Highlight cities important to your relationship.

-Motto: Include a meaningful quote, verse, or motto.

Reasons to Design a Wedding Crest

A wedding crest adds deeper meaning and personalization to your wedding day. Here are some of the top reasons couples opt to have a wedding crest.

Honors Your Heritage

A wedding crest allows you to pay tribute to your family histories, ethnicities and cultural traditions.

Symbolizes Your Union

Your wedding crest visually encapsulates your relationship and the promises you make to each other on your wedding day.

Adds a Personal Touch

You can make your crest completely unique by weaving in details that tell your love story, from a pet portrait to an image that symbolizes your first date.

Ties in Your Wedding Theme

Create a crest that aligns with your wedding style and mood.

Unifies Your Wedding Details

The crest visually brings together all your wedding stationery, decor, and details.

How to Create Your Wedding Crest

You have several options for bringing your wedding crest to life.

Hire a Custom Crest Designer

Many graphic designers, artists, and stationers on sites like Etsy offer custom crest design services.

Provide them with your vision, symbols, color scheme and any other crest elements you want incorporated. They'll create a digital file you can print anywhere. Prices range from $150-$500.

Design Your Own Custom Crest

For full control over the process, use Photoshop, Canva, Illustrator, or other design tools to craft a custom crest yourself.

Start with a template or blank canvas, and add shapes, imagery, text and other elements to create your layout.

Watch tutorials for guidance. Print through an online service.

Order an Emblem Stamp

Get your crest made into a wax seal stamp or custom ink stamp to emboss paper goods.

Research Family Crests

If your family has a historic coat of arms, you may be able to incorporate this traditional crest into your wedding symbol. Check genealogy resources and ask relatives if your family has a crest already.

Where to Display Your Wedding Crest

Your wedding crest can be incorporated throughout your wedding day decor and stationery. Common places to display your crest include:

Wedding Stationery/Invitations

The crest looks lovely framed or printed on your invitations and save-the-dates.

Wedding Website and Email Signatures

Upload the crest as your header image or add it to your email signature line.

Signage

Display the crest on welcome signs, seating charts, photo booths, bars, or buffets.

Favors and Gifts

Have the crest etched, printed, or embroidered on wedding favors, welcome bags, or your gifts for your parents or the bridal party.

Ideas for Custom Crests

When designing your wedding crest, the possibilities are endless. Get creative with these ideas:

-Hobbies: Showcase your favorite hobbies like hiking, baking, books, or wine.

-Careers: Reference your jobs, degrees, or how you met at work.

-Travel: Highlight your favorite travel destinations or your honeymoon location.

-Food: Feature favorite foods, family recipes, or your wedding cake.

-Pop culture: Work in movies, shows, or music you both love.

-Humor: Add an inside joke or play on your names.

-Vows: List key words from your vows or reading passages.

Matching Your Wedding Theme

Your crest should align with your overall wedding aesthetic. Here are some ideas:

-Classic/Formal: Use traditional imagery like flowers, a motto, and initials in an elegant style.

-Rustic: Depict autumn leaves, mountains, or trees in an earthy style.

-Vintage: Add a banner, ornate frame, and old-fashioned typography.

-Modern: Keep it simple with clean lines and minimal symbols. Avoid intricate detailing.

-Whimsical: Get playful with bright colors, charming illustrations, or fantasy elements.

-Boho: Incorporate nature motifs like feathers, dreamcatchers, or botanicals.

Wedding Crest Trends

The wedding crest is timeless, but here are some current trends:

The Watercolor Crest

Watercolor crests, growing in popularity, are an artistic way to add soft, dreamy style to your wedding.

The wash of watercolor in shades like sky blue, lavender, pink, and sage green create a romantic ethereal crest perfect for modern rustic, boho, or whimsical weddings.

When designing a watercolor crest, it works best to keep the design simple. Focus on just a few key symbolic elements so they can be recognized within the flowing, liquid texture of the watercolor. Delicate flower blossoms, flowing banners with vows or dates, creatively rendered tree branches, and minimal outlines of shapes work well. Avoid too many small details.

The crest artwork can be custom painted on paper or digitally for versatile use on your invitations, signage, website, and more.

Watercolor crests lend themselves to creative, artistic freedom since they don’t need perfect precision. Each crest will have a unique, one-of-a-kind painted look.

Including Beloved Pets

For many couples today, pets are part of the family. Showcasing furry companions in your wedding crest has become a popular way to honor their role in your relationship.

Pets provide endless inspiration: Use their names, breeds, paw prints, fun characteristics, or things they love in your wedding crest.

Getting custom portraits of your pets drawn in the style of your crest is a particularly thoughtful touch. Pet portraits make wedding crests more lighthearted and capture your quirky personalities.

Final Tips

Here are a few more suggestions for creating your custom wedding crest:

-Select two to four focal motifs you want to feature. Avoid cluttering your wedding crest with too many design elements.

-Choose a color scheme that coordinates with your wedding palette.

-Size your wedding crest correctly for readable details, scaling it on invitations, signs, and favors.

-You can add a frame, wreath, or other border if desired.

The Bell Tower on 34th is a Houston wedding venue dedicated to delivering excellent events that no one will ever forget.

Our team works closely with newly engaged couples to help them realize their wedding vision.

Contact us to learn more.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

Juggling Your Wedding and Honeymoon Planning

Planning your dream wedding can be an exhilarating, extremely satisfying experience. And at times, it can be tremendously stressful.

Add simultaneous honeymoon planning to the equation—not to mention work and other personal responsibilities—and it’s easy to start feeling overwhelmed.

The good news is with careful planning, clear communication with your spouse-to-be, and letting go of perfectionism when needed, you really can plan a beautiful wedding and dream honeymoon without losing your mind.

Here are some tips to help you successfully balance these two big planning projects.

Set Realistic Expectations

It’s easy to get swept up in the Pinterest and Instagram wonderland of gorgeous weddings and over-the-top honeymoons. But remember, real life has limits like budgets and limited paid time off.

To minimize your stress and protect your relationship, sit down early with your partner to have an honest discussion about what’s achievable for your wedding and honeymoon. This will help avoid unrealistic expectations that can lead to disappointment and stress.

Prioritize What’s Most Important

For both the wedding and honeymoon, focus on the elements that are most important to you as a couple.

Is having extended family there on your special day a top priority? Or is your idea of a dream wedding a smaller, more intimate event?

For the honeymoon, decide if adventure and unique experiences are more important than luxury and relaxation.

Divide and Conquer Major Tasks

Before you dive into your wedding planning and honeymoon arrangements, sit down together and divvy up responsibilities.

For example, maybe one of you will tackle the overall wedding vision and decor while the other spearheads venue selection and catering.

For the honeymoon, one person might handle the flights and lodging research while the other plans activities. This way you each own your realm.

Create a Master Wedding Planning Calendar

One way to manage the planning process, and make sure nothing slips through the cracks, is to get a large calendar you can hang on the wall and map out your entire wedding planning timeline from now to the big day.

Mark key deadlines for payments, RSVP dates, meetings with vendors, dress fittings, and other key tasks and days.

Include your honeymoon planning tasks too. Seeing it all visually lets you assess what needs to get done when so you can balance wedding and honeymoon projects week by week.

Coordinate Honeymoon Dates with Your Wedding Date

Before booking anything for the honeymoon, choose your wedding date and location first. Then coordinate travel dates based on the timing that works best for your wedding events like the rehearsal dinner and day-after brunch.

Factor in how much time you want between the wedding and honeymoon—you may need a few days to rest and emotionally recover.

Have a Realistic Honeymoon Budget

Create a honeymoon budget by researching costs for flights, hotels, activities, food, and other expenses at your destination(s).

Be realistic about what you can afford after your wedding costs.

It will be worth your time to request quotes and estimates to ensure your budget is accurate. If it's looking too high, you may need to scale back on luxury experiences, shorten the trip length, or choose a more affordable destination.

You can always explore creative ways to finance your honeymoon. One option is to create a wedding fund that your wedding guests can support as a wedding gift.

Communicate Constantly

Even with assigned domains, you still need to communicate on all wedding and honeymoon plans and decisions.

Consider setting weekly or monthly planning meetings to get on the same page. Share inspiration images and options as you research.

Avoid making any big decisions without checking in with each other first. Consistent communication will help ensure you’re both happy throughout the wedding planning process.

Let Go of Perfectionism

The Pinterest-worthy wedding and luxurious honeymoon you’ve envisioned likely won’t play out perfectly when it's time for your own wedding.

Try to accept that small hiccups or disappointments along the way are inevitable. Whether the florist gets your bouquet wrong or a fancy restaurant is closed during your honeymoon, learning to go with the flow will save you considerable stress and heartache. What matters most is you’re marrying your soulmate.

Get Help When Needed

Don't feel guilty about admitting you need help. Do yourself a favor and delegategate some of your wedding planning tasks to trusted family and friends who offer.

Taking advantage of help when needed gives you more bandwidth to focus on high-priority items.

Consider a Professional Wedding Planner

For busy brides overwhelmed with coordinating every wedding detail while also planning their dream honeymoon, hiring a wedding planner can be a sanity saver.

Here are some of the key wedding planning items a professional wedding planner can help with:

-Providing expert guidance on wedding planning best practices to keep you on track

-Recommending trustworthy local vendors and negotiate contracts plus manage communication and payments with them

-Creating and maintaining the master wedding planning timeline and scheduling vendor appointments

-Suggesting creative wedding design ideas that match your vision and budget parameters

-Ensuring all rentals, special décor, and other items are ordered and delivered on time

-Managing the wedding day rehearsal and coordinating with all vendors for seamless event execution

-Orchestrating the flow and timing of the event on the big day so everything runs smoothly

-Handling any last-minute issues behind the scenes so you can relax and enjoy

-Providing month-of coordination support or start helping a year or more out if you hire them early on

Having an experienced wedding planner quarterback the many moving parts of your wedding planning would allow you to focus your energy on honeymoon dreaming.

Just be sure to sync regularly on wedding planning items with your planner and always keep your partner in the loop so you make decisions together.

Leverage Travel Experts for Honeymoon Help

In addition to collaborating with a planner to create your dream wedding, working with a travel service can make honeymoon planning much smoother.

Consider the following benefits of using a travel agent or agency:

-Takes the hassle out of research: They'll suggest destinations, hotels and activities based on your vision, budget, and preferences

-Handles bookings from flights to hotels to tours and provides 24/7 support in case issues come up

-Has insider knowledge and relationships for perks like room upgrades, dining reservations, and more

-Can coordinate group travel if you're planning a "buddymoon" or "familymoon"

-Will monitor price changes and rebook at lower rates when available

-Can organize on-the-ground transportation, guided excursions, packing lists, and more

-Offers personalized packages and deals not available directly to consumers

For busy couples, having an expert travel pro handle honeymoon planning from start to finish makes the process so much easier.

Try Apps and Tools

Another option is to harness apps and online tools that can simplify your planning and keep everything organized in one place.

To manage wedding preparations, you can try apps like WeddingHappy, a virtual wedding planner of sorts, or Pantone Studio, which can help with color design. Tello, a task management tool, can help you and your future spouse keep track of which planning tasks have been tackled so far.

You also can use a honeymoon planning app or travel tool like TripIt to manage your itinerary and bookings. Collaboration apps like HoneyBook also help you stay on top of everything in one dashboard.

Planning a Wedding is Hard Work: Don’t Forget Self-Care

Between wedding dress fittings, calls with caterers, researching hotels, and booking flights—plus work and life—you'll get burned out quickly.

Be intentional about self-care through the planning process. Schedule regular date nights with your partner. Plan relaxing girls' spa days for wedding pampering. And take advantage of the pre-wedding appointments like facials and massages. Staying zen will help you juggle it all more smoothly.

While juggling wedding preparations and honeymoon planning is far from easy, staying organized, communicating constantly, letting some things go, and asking for assistance when you need it will help you plan both events successfully.

The Bell Tower on 34th is a Houston wedding venue where team members are committed to delivering unforgettable events that no one will ever forget.

Our stylish venue with full event-planning services works closely with couples to help them realize their wedding vision.

Learn more about holding a wedding here.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

How to Throw an Amazing Engagement Party

An engagement party is a wonderful way to celebrate the exciting journey toward marriage. And, this special occasion is an opportunity to bring family and your closest friends together to share in your joy.

If you're considering hosting an engagement party, this guide will walk you through the essential elements to ensure it's a memorable occasion for everyone involved.

Is an Engagement Party Right for You?

There are good reasons to host an engagement party, but also a few drawbacks to keep in mind.

Some of the upsides of engagement parties include:

Celebration of Love

Engagement parties allow friends and family to join in the celebration of your love and upcoming marriage.

Intimate Gathering

The celebration provides an opportunity for a more intimate gathering before the larger wedding event.

Formal Introduction

An engagement function gives couples a chance to formally introduce families and friends who may not have met before.

Engagement party downsides include the following:

Added Expense

Another event means added expenses, so consider your budget before committing to and planning an engagement party.

Logistical Considerations

Planning multiple events may be challenging, especially if you have a short engagement period.

When do you have an engagement party?

Typically, engagement parties are held one to three months after the proposal. This gives you time to announce your big news before sending formal wedding invitations.

Consider timing and look at your wedding planning timeline when choosing a date.

Selecting a Venue

Choose a venue that aligns with the atmosphere you want. It could be a cozy backyard gathering, a private room at an elegant restaurant, or an event venue.

Consider the number of guests and the overall vibe you want to create as you narrow down choices.

Who Should Host the Party?

While you can host your own engagement party, traditionally, the bride's parents host this event.

Friends or other family members handle the event planning, too.

Budgeting and Expenses

Establish a budget early on to guide your planning process. Consider expenses such as venue rental, catering, decorations, and entertainment.

Invitations and Guest List

Send out invitations well in advance, ensuring guests have enough time to RSVP.

Your engagement party guest list can include close friends, family, and anyone who will play a significant role in your wedding.

It's fine to have a bigger engagement party guest list than your wedding invite list.

What to Wear: Set Expectations

Provide dress code details on your engagement party invitations so guests can plan their attire.

Casual, cocktail attire or black-tie optional are common options.

Food and Drinks

Offer an assortment of passed hors d'oeuvres or display them in an appetizing spread. Popular options include:

-Meatballs

-Stuffed mushrooms

-Bruschetta

-Mini quiches

-Cheese and fruit skewers

-Shrimp cocktail

-Pinwheels or tea sandwiches

-Chicken satay

-Bacon-wrapped dates

-Mini crab cakes

If you're offering a seated dinner, opt for crowd-pleasing entrees like pasta, chicken, salmon, or steak. Consider buffet stations so guests can easily serve themselves. Some full meal ideas include:

-Pasta bar with different sauces and toppings

-Taco/nacho bar with all the fixings

-Slider or mini sandwich bar

-Salad bar with protein additions like chicken or shrimp

-Interactive stations with made-to-order menus

Don't forget desserts: Sweet treats like cupcakes, a cake or pie bar, or an ice cream sundae station make fun additions. Opt for bite-sized desserts or small servings so guests can sample a variety.

For drinks, consider hiring a bartender to serve beer, wine, champagne, and signature cocktails. Offer non-alcoholic options too.

Your Engagement Party Theme

A theme can help set the tone and style of your party.

Try an engagement party theme that reflects your personalities or complements your wedding theme.

Some ideas:

-Back garden barbecue: Set up picnic tables, hang string lights, and serve classic barbecue cuisine. Provide lawn games like cornhole.

-Retro cocktail party: Play oldies music, serve classic cocktails and finger foods, and encourage vintage attire. Decorate with retro decor.

-Mexican fiesta: Serve tacos, margaritas, and other south-of-the-border food. Add festive flowers, paper banners, and piñatas. Play Latin music.

-Luau: Set a tropical vibe with tiki torches, leis, and Hawaiian cuisine. Incorporate grass skirts, limbo, and beachy music.

Dessert party: Fill the room with sweet treats like a sundae bar, cake pop tower, or rows of macarons.

Black & white formal: Require black and white attire and serve elegant appetizers. Choose accent colors like gold or pink for a classy look.

Entertainment

Plan entertainment that enhances the celebratory atmosphere.

This could be a live band, a DJ, or a playlist curated for the occasion.

Fun Engagement Party Games

Engagement parties are all about bringing people together to celebrate the couple. Adding some interactive games can encourage guests to mingle and get to know one another.

Some ideas for fun engagement party games include:

-The Newlywed Game: The bride-to-be and future groom are asked questions about each other, and the engagement party guests guess the answers.

-Wedding Trivia: This game tests guests' knowledge of wedding traditions.

-Wedding Mad Libs: Hand out funny Mad Lib stories with blanks for guests to fill in. Read the silly stories aloud.

-Find the Guest: Hand out clues describing each guest and have people mingle to figure out who it is referencing.

-Wedding Advice Cards: Supply note cards for guests to write down marriage tips for the newly engaged couple. Share the funniest bits of advice.

Engagement Party Decorations

Engagement party decor doesn't have to be over-the-top.

Possibilities include string lights, balloons, flower arrangements, a photo backdrop, engagement photo displays, and fabric drapery.

Use colors and props that tie into your theme.

Toasts

Designate time for speeches and toasts to express gratitude and share anecdotes. Make sure that key people, such as parents and close friends, have an opportunity to speak.

Follow Etiquette Rules

Don't use the party to fish for gifts or wedding RSVPs. Send handwritten thank-you notes to guests and hosts after the event.

More Tips and Engagement Party Ideas

Photography and Memories

Consider hiring a photographer or designate someone to capture moments throughout the party.

Gifts

While gifts are not mandatory, some guests may bring them. Be prepared with a designated area for gifts.

Relax and Enjoy

Most importantly, relax and enjoy the celebration. It's a time for joy and anticipation, so savor every moment.

The Bell Tower on 34th is a Houston wedding venue where team members are committed to delivering excellent events that no one will ever forget.

Our venue near Cypress, TX, offers complete event planning and works closely with newly engagement couples to help them realize their wedding vision.

Learn about holding a wedding here.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

Bridesmaid Trends for 2024

If you're a bride-to-be planning your wedding, you'll want to know the hottest trends for your bridesmaids.

The good news is that you and your bridal party have a wealth of stunning options for dresses, hair, accessories, and more this year.

Here's an overview of some of the top bridesmaid trends for 2024 and a look at their strengths.

Bridesmaid Dresses: Matchy or Mismatched

One of the decisions you'll need to make is whether to match bridesmaids' dresses or allow some mismatched styles.

Matching dresses can create a very uniform, elegant look. But mismatched dresses are fun too—they let each bridesmaid's personality shine through.

For 2024, both matching and mismatched bridesmaid dresses are fashionable. Just pick the option that best fits your wedding vibe and bridesmaids' tastes.

If going matched, consider picking a style, designer, or particular color but allowing the members of your bridal party to choose their own silhouette or neckline to suit their body types.

For mismatched bridesmaid dresses, give your bridal party a color palette to pull from. That way they can pick unique dresses but that ultimately coordinate.

Here are a few more bridesmaid dress trends to be aware of.

Dress Colors

In terms of color trends for bridesmaid dresses, jewel tones like emerald, ruby, and sapphire are in. These rich tones pair beautifully with metallics like rose gold and gold for a luxe, opulent style.

Pastels are still pretty popular too, with shades like lilac, powder blue, and peach lending a soft, romantic vibe.

Navy is another safe classic that works for any time of year or wedding style.

When selecting colors for your bridesmaid dresses, think about choosing one dominant color like blue and then having each bridesmaid pick a different shade, like sky blue, navy, or dusty blue. This keeps things cohesive while still allowing for individuality.

Dress Materials

When it comes to the fabrics for your bridesmaid dresses, flowy chiffons, crepes, and lightweight satins are perfect for the warmer months. These materials drape beautifully and won't leave your wedding party sweltering.

For fall and winter nuptials, velvet, brocade, and heavier-weight satins keep bridesmaids comfortable and chic.

Lace bridesmaid dresses also work year-round and provide timeless elegance. Look for on-trend lace details like illusion sleeves or backs rather than head-to-toe lace dresses.

Relaxed Bridesmaid Dresses

In addition to more formal dress options, relaxed bridesmaid dresses are also a trendy choice. These comfortable, effortless styles allow your bridal party to feel at ease throughout the wedding day. Flowing chiffon, jersey, or satin wrap dresses are great examples of relaxed bridesmaid dresses.

Dress Patterns

For a whimsical spring or summer wedding, bridesmaid dresses in breezy floral prints are big this year.

Chinoiserie prints with watercolor blooms are one ethereal option for outdoor nuptials. Midi-length wrap dresses with bold, splashy florals are right on trend, too.

Elegant solids, metallics, or Art Deco-inspired patterns like geometric shapes or scallops make a rich style statement for a black-tie wedding.

Sleeves

The sleeves or sleeve length on bridesmaid dresses provides another opportunity to mix up your wedding party's look.

Off-the-shoulder and cold-shoulder styles are still a popular choice for tastefully showing some skin.

Long sleeves lend elegance for fall and winter.

For outdoor summer events, short and capped sleeves will help you make sure your brides feel comfortable.

Dress Cuts

When it comes to the silhouette and cut of bridesmaid dresses, there are lots of flattering options to suit different body types:

A-line dresses are universally flattering with their fitted top that flows out to a wider skirt. For curvier figures, an A-line with a V-neck helps draw eyes up. An empire waist A-line works well for petite brides.

Another great option is to go with wrap bridesmaid dresses, which cinch in the waist and hug curves in all the right places. Jersey wrap dresses are comfortable, while satin or lace wraps are more formal.

Slip dresses are effortless and elegant. Made of satin, silk, or chiffon, the slender column silhouette flatters taller, slender frames. Add a sheer overlay for more coverage.

Skater dresses have a fit-and-flare shape that flatters a woman's natural waist. The swingy, bouncy skirt is youthful and fun for casual or formal weddings.

Sheath dresses are figure-hugging with a slim skirt. Look for strategic ruching or shapely seams to accentuate curves. Sheaths work best for slender or athletic builds.

Trumpet or mermaid dresses accentuate hips and thighs with a narrow skirt that flares below the knee. These sexy silhouettes look gorgeous on hourglass figures.

Bridesmaid Dress Embellishments

Enhance your bridesmaid dresses with pretty embellishments. Here are some on-trend ways to elevate a dress:

-Sequins, crystals, and beading add eye-catching sparkle. Spotlight them on the skirt, bodice, or straps. Opt for artful, minimal embellishments rather than all-over bling.

-Lace elevates any dress style. Use it for sheer long sleeves, illusion necklines or backs, or as an overlay on skirts. Go for delicate rather than heavy lace.

-Ruffles bring playful movement to dresses. Cascading ruffles down skirts or sleeves add drama. Or just use some flirty trim.

-Cutouts show a tiny bit of skin tastefully. Keyholes above necklines or on backs work beautifully.

-Metallic fabrics like satin lend instant luxury. Try rose gold, silver, or bronze for shimmer.

-Add dimension with 3D floral appliques. Roses, calla lilies, or crystals clustered into corsages make a pretty focal point.

Necklines

Neckline details provide another opportunity to make bridesmaid dresses unique.

Off-the-shoulder and sweetheart necklines remain popular for showing just a touch of skin. More modest boatneck, jewel, and square necklines offer coverage while still being chic.

Consider mixing and matching different necklines within your bridal party. For example, you could do an off-shoulder look for some while others wear a high boat neck. Just be mindful of your venue and overall formality—more revealing styles may not suit a formal church wedding.

The key is finding necklines that flatter each bridesmaid while keeping an overall cohesive aesthetic on your big day.

Bridesmaid Hairstyles

You also have a wide range of trendy hairstyle options for your bridal squad.

Braided looks are still going strong, especially loose braided updos or fishtail braids.

Low messy buns are laid-back yet elegant.

For a more formal wedding, polished high buns or neatly straightened hair never go out of style.

Take the season and dress style into account when deciding on bridesmaid hairstyles. Make sure they'll match the formality of the dresses and accessories. It's also thoughtful to consider your bridesmaids' hair types and lengths, not just current trends.

Bridesmaid Jewelry

When it comes to bridesmaid jewelry, coordinating necklaces or earrings can add a synchronized touch without going overboard.

Simple pendant necklaces or dainty drop earrings in the same metal and color keep things unified but unfussy. For example, each bridesmaid could wear a small gold disc necklace paired with their unique dress choices.

Another option is to encourage each bridesmaid to pick her jewelry rather than matching everything exactly.

Shoes

Nude, blush, or metallic heels are solid choices for bridesmaids' footwear. The neutral or shimmery shades complement most colors.

Thin ankle strap sandals or classic pumps work for both formal and casual weddings. If wearing long dresses.

Consider letting your bridesmaids choose their own shoe styles since they won't be visible. Just set a heel height minimum to keep everyone even.

For warm-weather weddings, fun embellished flats, espadrilles, or block-heel sandals allow bridesmaids mobility and comfort. Add pops of color like bright blue or pink shoes under patterned dresses. Just keep things in the same color family.

Bridesmaid Bouquets

Cascading bouquets of lush blooms let bridesmaids make a stylish statement coming down the aisle. Peonies, roses, ranunculus, anemones, and hydrangeas make stunning handheld arrangements. For a unique twist, hang bouquets from wrist corsages to keep hands free.

Alternatively, a few stems make simple yet elegant bouquets. Have each bridesmaid carry just three to five stems of a coordinating flower like white Snapdragons or blush roses. The minimalist route creates an organic, effortless look.

These are just a few of the many trendy options brides have for dressing and accessorizing their bridesmaids. The most important tip is keeping their comfort, budget, and personal styles in mind while creating a cohesive wedding day look. Take inspiration from Pinterest and Instagram, but don't overdo matching details. Let your bridesmaids feel beautiful and like their best selves as you gather your close friends and family to celebrate your marriage.

The Bell Tower on 34th is a Houston wedding venue where team members are committed to delivering excellent events that no one will ever forget.

We work closely with recently engaged couples to make their wedding visions reality.

Learn more about our wedding packages.

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901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

How to Plan an Unforgettable Prom

Proms create memories that can last a lifetime.

But when you're on a prom committee responsible for pulling a prom together, the idea of creating a perfect event can be daunting to say the least.

With that in mind, we've put together guidelines to help you along the way. Follow it to plan an unforgettable prom that all of the attendees will rave about.

The Planning Process

Organizing a prom takes organization, creativity, and a fair amount of time. Give yourself at least three to four months to plan so you have time to get everything just right.

Here are some tips for the planning process:

Recruit a Prom Committee

Get a responsible group of students (and possibly faculty members) together to brainstorm and delegate tasks. Aim for five to 10 people.

Pick Your Prom's Theme

The prom theme ties all of your event's elements together. Brainstorm fun themes based on current pop culture or trends.

Make a Budget

Your prom planning committee will need to talk with your school administrators about your prom night budget.

Factor in venue, food, decor, entertainment, attire, and any other applicable expenses.

Find a Venue

Research venues that fit your budget and theme. Hotels, event venues, or even outdoor spaces can all work beautifully.

Handle Logistics

Figure out how students will get tickets and get to/from the venue.

From there, plan your prom's decorations, food, and entertainment. These are the fun details that make your prom a special night.

Your Prom Planning Checklist

Use this essential checklist while planning to stay on track:

-Set a date

-Determine budget

-Select a venue

-Choose a theme

-Hire entertainment (DJ, band, etc.)

-Organize ticketing

-Plan food and beverages

-Develop event schedule/timeline

-Arrange transportation

-Purchase decorations

-Assign committees (decor, entertainment, food, etc.)

-Promote the event

-Make photo area for pictures

Delegating Responsibilities

Prom requires too many moving parts for just one person to handle. Delegate these responsibilities to your prom planning committee members:

-Venue: This committee will research options, make a recommendation, and provide the school administration with details on costs and making a reservation.

-Entertainment: Responsible for researching options and providing details on booking a DJ or band.

-Food: Committee members make food recommendations and provide details on lining up a caterer or purchasing snacks.

-Decorations: This committee will develop ideas for decor based on the prom theme, then purchase or make the decorations.

-Ticketing: This committee manages ticket sales and collects money.

-Transportation: Responsible for researching and organizing transportation services.

-Promotion: Committee members will make posters and social media posts to get the word out about prom night.

-Photography: Committee members will make recommendations for hiring a photographer and set up picture areas,

-Safety: This committee will contact police about providing traffic control and arrange chaperones.

The more tasks you delegate, the less overwhelmed you'll feel.

Selecting a Prom Venue

One of the biggest decisions you'll be making is where to host your prom.

Consider these factors when selecting a venue:

Budget: Hotels and banquet halls often have minimum spends. Know how much you can spend.

Size: Make sure the venue accommodates your expected number of guests.

Amenities: Many offer food, decor, sound systems, and more in one package.

Atmosphere: Formal ballrooms, outdoor gardens, historic buildings all have great ambiance.

Availability: Reserve your venue six to 12 months in advance.

Accessibility: Ensure the venue is Americans With Disabilities Act compliant.

Location: Consider travel time and transportation logistics.

Parking: Ensure adequate parking or valet arrangements.

Your venue sets the tone for the entire event, so choose it carefully.

Fun Prom Themes

A creative theme brings the entire prom together in a cohesive way. Consider these popular prom themes or come up with your own:

-Masquerade ball

-Black and white affair

-Twenties throwback

-Under the stars

-Tropical paradise

-Arabian nights

-Hollywood glam

You also can tie themes to pop culture. Movie themes like Star Wars, Grease, or The Great Gatsby give you lots of inspiration for decor. Or, try music themes like Country Western, 1990s throwback, or rock bash.

Prom Trends

Stay on top of current prom trends to really wow your classmates.

-Photo booths with fun props are a must for selfies.

-Silhouette artists capture elegant black and white profiles.

-Donut walls full of stacked, decorated donuts are big right now.

-Flashy party buses or classic limos are popular for transportation.

-Committees are opting for dramatic floral arrangements on tables or backgrounds.

-Custom drink glasses that guests can take home are fun.

-Another big trend is incorporating eco-friendly elements like plant centerpieces.

Selecting Entertainment

The entertainment makes or breaks the event. Be sure to:

-Hire a DJ or band that plays current hits. We recommend giving them a do-not-play list, too.

-Check references: What kind of job have they done at other proms?

-See if they provide lighting like a disco ball.

-Request songs or genres ahead of time.

-Have a backup playlist just in case.

-Hire an emcee to pump up the crowd if you don’t have a host at your venue.

-Consider live entertainment like magicians or dancers for a wow-factor.

Safety Considerations

Don't let safety take a backseat to fun. Be sure to:

-Have police direct traffic around your venue as guests arrive and depart.

-Hire security guards to check for banned items at entry.

-Have plenty of chaperones from your school staff.

-Talk with your venue; it should have an emergency plan.

Planning prom does take effort, but the payoff of giving your classmates an incredible night will be incredibly rewarding.

The Bell Tower on 34th is a Houston event venue known for delivering excellent events that no one will ever forget.

Our Instagrammable venue, near The Woodlands, TX, is known for our beautiful balloons and sweeping staircase.

Contact us to learn about holding an event here.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

Rustic Wedding Decor Trends for 2024

Rustic weddings are all about embracing the simplicity and natural beauty of the outdoors. They evoke a sense of warmth, comfort, and intimacy. It's no wonder many couples are drawn to rustic style when planning their big day.

In 2024, we expect to see rustic details incorporated in creative ways. Couples will use natural elements with a refined, elegant touch. This could take the form of an outdoor ceremony adorned with greenery and cafe lights. A cocktail hour in an outdoor setting surrounded by wildflowers. An intimate wedding reception filled with homemade touches.

Rustic weddings allow you to make your wedding venue your own. You can infuse it with personal details that reflect you as a couple.

Here are some of the top rustic decor trends we expect to see this year along with rustic wedding day ideas that you can make your own.

Natural Touches

Ceremony backdrops will be inspired by natural surroundings this year.

Arbors and altars will be decorated with greenery, wildflowers, and organic textures. If this appeals to you, try incorporating macrame, leafy garlands, and overflowing flower arrangements into your ceremony decor.

An outdoor ceremony can incorporate native grasses, branches, stone, and wood textures. Aisle runners can be jute, lace, or raw-edged linen.

Rustic Wedding Color Palettes

Earthy neutrals like beige, brown, and sage green are staples for a rustic wedding.

In 2024, we'll see these basics punched up with more vibrant accent colors including deep reds, coral, plum, and metallics like rose gold and copper.

Don't be afraid to get creative with your color pairings. Navy blue works beautifully with neutrals. Blush pink can add femininity. Turquoise and citrine yellow bring brightness.

Al Fresco Dining Stations

Rustic wedding receptions are all about a relaxed, informal vibe.

Couples are swapping plated dinners for bountiful buffets and food stations. Grazing tables, BBQ dinners, family-style platters...we'll be seeing lots of delicious variety this year.

A tip to consider: Decorate each station based on cuisine. You can adorn a taco bar with bright pinatas and cacti. Offer Italian-themed antipasti with checkered tablecloths.

Creative Seating Arrangements

An outdoor wedding reception opens so many seating possibilities. Create lounge areas with pillows and poufs. Use wooden benches and picnic tables. Arrange bistro tables with wildflower centerpieces.

You also can enhance your rustic wedding style by mixing seating types, heights, and arrangements. Scatter tables throughout your venue, under trees or by ponds.

Add unique lighting like string lights and lanterns. The options are endless.

Rustic Wedding Tablescapes

Rustic table decor is all about natural materials and textures. Wood slabs make fabulous rustic tabletops. For centerpieces, cluster items like lanterns, antlers, books, and greenery.

Additional ideas include floral runner wreaths, potted herbs or succulents, or loose wildflower arrangements.

Scatter gold votive candles for warmth. Use elements like lace, burlap, stone, and distressed wood to add texture.

Rustic Wedding Cakes

Buttercream-frosted wedding cakes are being replaced by unfrosted naked cakes, wheels of cheese, stacks of pies, towers of donuts, and even edible wood slices.

For small cutting cakes, shades of nude, blush pink, or lavender suit a rustic palette.

Or you can brighten up your wedding cake with watercolor details.

These cakes pair beautifully with natural wedding decor including floral wreaths, berries, greenery, and votive candles.

Bar Stations With Personality

Infuse your bar area with wedding decorations that represent you.

Display your favorite brews on vintage crates. Serve mason jar cocktails. Add twinkle lights, pub signs or a handwritten drink menu on a chalkboard.

Other bar ideas include floral tap handles, herb-planted Moscow mule mugs, or dessert-flavored martinis.

Surround seating areas with rug patterns, colorful pillows, and patio umbrellas.

Mixing Metals and Textures in Lighting

When designing the lighting you want to display at your wedding venue, think beyond votives and string lights.

Incorporate varied metallic textures like brass, copper, gold, and rose gold.

Try utilizing modern filament bulbs along with vintage pieces. Suspend single bulbs at different heights.

Work in natural elements like wood, stone, grass, vines, water, and fresh flowers.

Creative lighting takes rustic wedding decor up a notch.

Photo Booth Props That Pop

Photo booths are a wedding reception staple and a perfect choice for a rustic wedding.

Elevate yours with playful props related to your rustic wedding theme. Create a bandana-print backdrop. You also can provide cowboy hats, boots, denim jackets, bandanas, and toy guns.

For a farm-inspired version, use mini bales of hay, milk cans, sheer floral overlays, and gardening tools.

Don't forget cheeky signage like "Y'all lookin' good!"

Infusing Rustic Style With Elegance

The key to a successful rustic wedding style at your wedding reception is balancing rustic decorative elements with refined details so your decor doesn't become too kitschy or theme-y. Luxe metallics, glassware, linens, and florals provide elevated style.

If you use wooden farm tables, for example, add crystal chandeliers overhead.

Incorporate burlap and lace. Display lush greenery in gorgeous hammered metal vessels. The combination of natural and sophisticated creates a beautifully curated rustic chic aesthetic.

More Rustic Wedding Ideas: Working In Personal Touches

One of the best parts of a rustic-themed wedding is the opportunity to your personality in the look and feel of the day.

Try displaying photos from your relationship or childhood. You can also create a DIY photo booth with quirky country-themed props. Have guests sign a custom cornhole set.

Other ways to add personal flair include: custom drink cozies, s'mores favor bags, lawn games, musical instruments as decor, or incorporating your pets somehow.

The best rustic wedding ideas will stem from elements of your unique love story.

The Bell Tower on 34th is a Houston wedding venue committed to delivering excellent events that no one will ever forget.

The myriad decisions and details that arise during wedding planning can seem overwhelming. Our team works closely with recently engaged couples to help them realize their unique wedding vision.

Learn more about holding a wedding here.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

The Art of Dating to Find True Love

In an era when we have countless technological innovations meant to make our lives easier, at least one aspect of modern life appears to be getting more difficult: dating.

According to Pew Research Center, about 47% of Americans say dating is harder now than it was 10 years ago.

And in some ways, our technology is part of the problem. Internet dating, social media, and even reality TV have dramatically changed the dating dynamic—and not necessarily for the better.

"In today’s world, we have so many options: what to order on Uber Eats, where to go on a trip, and now, who to date," therapist Vanessa Vitiello wrote in a recent blog for Mental Health Match. "No longer are the days of meeting someone at your local bar or at work. Instead, we turn to the world wide web, and the options are endless.”

Even worse, online dating decisions are often made in less than a second and based on looks, Vitiello continued. "Dating today focuses on the surface stuff," she wrote "Although we can disclose aspects of ourselves on a dating app, it is hard to get to know someone authentically. Dating and romantic relationships cannot exist without vulnerability and authenticity.”

So, yes, today's dating world can be challenging, and many singles are asking themselves, Will I ever find true love?

That's not to say that finding the right person and nurturing a healthy relationship can't be done. We're simply saying that getting there these days requires a strategy so to speak.

As dating coach Emyli Lovz said during a recent interview with USA Today, men's and women's searches for love should begin with empathy for one another.

“To help women and men fall in love again, both genders must learn new skills made for an evolving world" said Lovz, co-founder of emlovz, which coaches men and women to cultivate loving, healthy, long-lasting relationships.

"Men must learn how to approach and pursue women appropriately…while women must respect that it’s difficult for men to put themselves out there and be more welcoming to their approach," Lovz said.

If you're hoping to develop a long-term relationship, we have a few thoughts about dating to keep in mind. Remember, though, that developing the strategies and habits that lead to healthy relationships takes time. Finding your soul mate likely won't happen overnight. What's more, turning to others—from those already in solid relationships to professional coaches—for dating advice, deeper relationship insights, and guidance is always a smart approach.

What Is a Healthy Relationship?

As we discuss pursuing long-term relationships, we want to be clear: We're talking about healthy relationships that are beneficial for both parties.

What does that look like?

Hallmarks include:

You Feel Safe

Both partners experience a profound sense of safety, allowing them to be emotionally vulnerable and authentic.

Trust, respect, and honesty form the foundation, creating an environment where open communication thrives.

 Balanced Power

The relationship maintains a sense of equality and fairness, with both partners contributing and compromising.

Power dynamics are balanced, fostering a partnership where decisions are made collaboratively, and each individual's needs are considered with equal importance.

Confidence in Love

Your relationship is characterized by a secure attachment, where both individuals feel confident in each other's love and intent.

There is an absence of excessive jealousy, and partners support each other's independence while remaining deeply connected.

Supporting Growth

The relationship nurtures intimacy and affection that meet the needs of both partners.

Each person encourages the other's personal and emotional growth, creating a supportive environment for individual aspirations and shared dreams.

Productive Conflict Resolution

Effective communication is a cornerstone of a thriving relationship.

Partners engage in open, empathetic dialogue and work through conflicts productively.

Listening is prioritized, fostering understanding and strengthening the emotional bond.

Laughing and Enjoying Life Together

Your relationship strikes a balance between seriousness and joy. Shared laughter and the ability to enjoy life together contribute to the resilience of your partnership.

Heading in the Same Direction

Alignment in core values and life vision is crucial.

Partners share a common direction, ensuring a unified journey towards shared goals and aspirations.

Supporting Each Other's Interests and Friendships

You support each other's interests and maintain friendships outside the relationship, understanding that constant togetherness is not a prerequisite for a strong bond.

Working as a Team

In essence, a healthy relationship encompasses a harmonious blend of emotional safety, mutual respect, and shared aspirations. It is a journey where both partners grow together, creating a fulfilling and lasting connection.

Now that we've taken a look at the goal, let's talk about some potential strategies that can help you get there.

Navigating the Dating Scene: Finding Quality Connections in Safe and Healthy Ways

 As we mentioned, in today’s world of online dating and an abundance of options, finding the right person for a meaningful, long-term relationship can be a daunting task. However, with mindfulness and a focus on safety, you can navigate the dating scene in ways that foster genuine connections.

 Here are some suggestions to help you find people to date in safe, healthy ways.

 Choose Reputable Dating Platforms

 If you want to use an online dating site, proceed with care. Opt for reputable and well-established platforms.

 Look for sites that prioritize user safety, verify profiles, and have positive reviews. Look for news articles about users’ experiences. We also recommend researching the platform's safety features and policies.

 Be Mindful of Personal Information

 Exercise caution when sharing personal information, both online and offline. Avoid revealing sensitive details too soon and be mindful of the information available on your social media profiles.

 Utilize Friend and Community Networks

 Leverage your existing social circles and community networks to meet new people. Attend social events, gatherings, or activities aligned with your interests.

 Friends can also play a valuable role in introducing you to potential matches within their circles.

 Devote Time to Hobbies and Activities

 Pursue your passions and interests through clubs, classes, or groups.

 Devoting time to activities you love not only provides an opportunity to meet like-minded people but also ensures that you connect with people who share similar interests.

 Practice Open Communication

 If you’d like to date someone, clearly communicate your intentions and expectations from the beginning. Honesty will set the foundation for a healthy connection.

 Trust Your Instincts

 Pay attention to your instincts and gut feelings. If something feels off or uncomfortable, trust your intuition. It's okay to step back and reassess a situation before moving forward. Prioritize your own well-being throughout the dating process.

 Take Time to Get to Know Each Other

 Building a solid connection takes time. Resist the urge to rush into decisions or commitments. Take the time to get to know the person you're dating, both their strengths and potential areas of incompatibility. This patient approach enhances the likelihood of forming a genuine connection.

First Date Tips for Men and Women: Breaking the Ice

You finally meet someone promising. What can you do to set the stage for a positive first date?

For both sexes, the keys are relaxing, listening, and asking the right questions. Try open-ended and engaging questions about non-controversial topics like:

-Favorite childhood memories or vacations

-Hobbies or interests

-Movies/music/books/art preferences

-Their pet peeves or personal philosophies

Avoid interrogation mode. Keep it light and let the person you're with share at their own pace. Find common ground by asking follow-ups. Share your own experiences to keep it reciprocal.

Steer clear of anything inappropriate or too personal early on. First dates are about gauging basic chemistry.

First Date Red Flags

We likely all have first-date horror stories.

Poor manners, inappropriate advances, or other red flags that tell you this is someone to avoid.

Beyond the obvious no-nos, subtler behaviors also signal someone may not be relationship material, like:

-Disrespecting service staff

-Rudeness or meanness about others

-Pressuring you to drink excessively

-Making crude or sexual jokes/comments

-Dominating the conversation

-Checking phone constantly

-Negatively judging your appearance

-Monopolizing the conversation

-Pressuring for physical intimacy

-Blatantly checking out other men or women

-Displaying a temper or volatile mood

-Being excessively critical or judgmental

Everyone can be nervous on a first date and put the wrong foot forward. But patterns of selfishness, volatility, manipulation, or disrespect are signs this person lacks maturity or integrity. Don’t ignore red flags or make excuses. Value yourself and walk away.

Nurture Your Budding Relationship: Cultivating Growth and Connection

If you decide you’d like to progress beyond your initial few dates with someone, it will be important to continue taking strategic steps to nurture and cultivate your budding relationship.

Here are some approaches to consider.

Prioritize Open Communication

Maintain the open lines of communication established during the early stages. Share your thoughts, feelings, and aspirations with the person you’re dating. Encourage them to express themselves as well. Effective communication is one of the most important things you can do to build trust and understanding.

Be Present and Engaged

In a world filled with distractions, make a conscious effort to be present and fully engaged when spending time together. Put away devices, listen actively, and show genuine interest in each other’s experiences and perspectives.

Celebrate Shared Moments

 Cherish and celebrate the special moments you share. Whether it's a significant milestone, a shared accomplishment, or a simple joy, acknowledging and commemorating these moments strengthens your bond and creates lasting memories.

 Continue Exploring Together

 Keep the sense of adventure alive by exploring new activities and experiences together. Trying new things not only adds excitement to the relationship but also provides opportunities for personal and mutual growth.

Show Appreciation and Gratitude

Regularly express your appreciation and gratitude for your partner. Recognize their efforts, both big and small, and communicate the positive impact they have on your life. Feeling valued fosters a sense of security and satisfaction.

 Respect Individual Space

While spending quality time together is essential, respecting each other's need for individual space is equally crucial. Allow room for personal growth and maintain healthy boundaries to ensure a balanced and harmonious relationship.

 Navigate Challenges Together

Every relationship encounters challenges. Instead of viewing them as obstacles, see them as opportunities for growth. Work together to navigate challenges, communicate openly about concerns, and collaborate on finding solutions.

 Support Each Other’s Goals

 Encourage and support each other's personal and professional goals. A healthy relationship involves two individuals who inspire and motivate one another to reach their fullest potential.

 Celebrate each other's achievements and provide encouragement during setbacks.

 Maintain Affection

 Sustain the physical and emotional intimacy that brought you together. Regular displays of affection, both verbal and physical, contribute to a strong emotional connection.

 Adapt and Grow Together

 Recognize that individuals evolve, and relationships must adapt to these changes. Embrace the journey of growth together, understanding that continuous adaptation is a key element in building a lasting and fulfilling connection.

 Remember that finding and building a thriving relationship is requires work by both parties. It's a continuous journey of mutual support, shared experiences, and a commitment to growth. And, it's well worth the effort.

The Bell Tower on 34th is a Houston wedding venue committed to delivering excellent events that no one will ever forget.

Our venue, known for exceptional service, helps newly engaged couples realize their wedding visions down to the smallest details.

Learn more about holding a wedding here.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

Exploring Houston's Wedding Florists and Designers

Houston, a major wedding destination, offers couples a huge selection of quality flower shops and design services. The only tricky part is deciding which business to go with.

To help you get started, we’ve put together a sampling of Houston floral industry businesses that receive strong customer reviews.

Please keep in mind that if a Houston-area flower business is not included in this article, it does not in any way suggest that we don’t suggest checking them out. This isn’t a comprehensive guide, just a few examples of some of the great options that the Bayou City has to offer. We suggest picking up your research where we leave off so you can find the florist or floral designer that’s best for you.

We should point out that a florist is a professional or business that arranges and sells flowers and plants, while a floral designer decorates weddings and special events. Both have value to offer.

Tips for Selecting Your Houston Wedding Florist

We realize that finding the best fit for your wedding vision can be daunting. Here are some tips to guide you through the selection process:

Define Your Style

Before you begin considering florists, determine your wedding style and the floral aesthetic you're looking for. Whether it's classic, romantic, modern, or bohemian, knowing your style will help you find a florist whose work aligns with your vision.

Research and Reviews

Look beyond the list provided and explore other Houston-area florists. Read reviews on platforms like Yelp, Google, or wedding forums to get insights into the experiences of other couples. Pay attention to comments about communication, flexibility, and the overall quality of service.

Schedule Consultations

Once you've shortlisted potential florists, schedule consultations to discuss your ideas. Bring inspiration photos, color swatches, and any other details that convey your vision. Pay attention to how well the florist listens to your preferences and whether they offer creative suggestions.

Review Portfolios

Ask to see portfolios or photo galleries of the florist's previous work, especially projects similar to what you have in mind. This will give you a visual representation of their style and capabilities.

Budget Considerations

Be upfront about your budget during the consultation. A good florist will work with you to create stunning arrangements within your financial constraints. Ask about package options, customizations, and any additional fees.

Experience and Awards

Consider the florist's experience in the wedding industry. Businesses with a longer history often have a better understanding of logistics and can handle unforeseen challenges. Take note of any awards or recognitions they have received for their work.

Flexibility and Adaptability

Weddings can be unpredictable, so it's essential to choose a florist who is flexible and can adapt to last-minute changes. Inquire about their policies regarding changes to the floral plan and their ability to accommodate unforeseen circumstances.

Additional Services

Some florists, like Dream Bouquet (described later in this blog), offer additional services such as event rentals. Consider whether you need any supplementary items like vases, arches, or candle holders, and inquire about the florist's offerings.

Visit the Studio

If possible, arrange to visit the florist's studio. This gives you a behind-the-scenes look at their workspace and a chance to meet the team. A well-organized and clean studio is often indicative of a professional operation.

Clear Communication

Effective communication is key. Ensure that the florist is responsive to your emails and calls. This is a positive sign that they prioritize client interactions and are committed to delivering excellent customer service.

Contract Details

Carefully review the contract before making a decision. Ensure it includes all agreed-upon details, such as floral selections, delivery times, setup fees, and any other pertinent information. Clarify cancellation policies and payment schedules.

So, with that said, here are some highly rated options for Houston wedding florists and floral designers.

College Park Flowers

4300 S. Wayside Drive, Suite 107, Houston, TX 77087

Customer comments: Reviewers say the owner makes the  wedding planning process enjoyable, is highly professional, and captures the mood and look customers want. Others commented on the beauty and artistry of their wedding flower arrangements.

The company was founded by Amie Savell, who started working in floral in high school and now has 20 years of experience in the industry.

Things to know: College Park Flowers describes itself as a fine floral and events company that specializes in botanical-inspired arrangements. “Our designs are inspired by the places they grow and the surroundings you find them in,” its website says.

Dream Bouquet

8723 Knight Road, Houston, TX 77054

Customer comments: Dream Bouquet has been praised for respecting customers’ budgets, delivering stress-free experiences, flawlessly executing brides’ visions, gorgeous flowers, and a friendly team.

The business was by Rebekah Graves Cunningham, who began her design career in 1991 and launched the company in 1996. Dream Bouquet averages more than 300 weddings a year. 

In addition to weddings, the company provides floral design services for corporate events, social events, holiday celebrations, parties, and Quinceañeras.

Things to know: The company also offers a wide range of event rentals.

Exotica The Signature of Flowers

5600 NW Central Dr., No. 136, Houston, TX 77092

Customer comments: Reviewers describe the business as easy to work with fabulous flowers, the artistry of arrangements, excellent customer service, and a friendly and communicative team.

The business prides itself on adding unique style and perspective to Houston-area weddings and events, and it has won wedding industry awards for its services.

Things to know: In addition to Houston weddings and events, the florist serves numerous surrounding communities.

Maxit Flower Design

1301 W. 20th St., Houston, TX 77008

Customer comments: Maxit Flower Design is praised in reviews for natural and romantic designs, professionalism, artistry, and an intuitive sense of what customers want.

This floral design business was founded by Maria Elisa Maxit, who has more than 18 years of flower design and styling experience. Maxit, born in Argentina, honed her craft in the Houston art community and during years of work for other Houston-area floral designers.

Things to know: Maxit Flower Design sees customers by appointment. In addition to weddings, the business creates designs for corporate and social events.

Mibellarosa

1815 Taylor St., Houston, TX 77007

Customer comments: One reviewer noted that Mibellarosa’s work is “truly art.” Other reviews say the floral design team is easy to work with and the owner exceeds customers’ wildest expectations.

Phuong Nguyen founded Mibellarosa in 2011. Her work has been featured on Good Morning America, Martha Stewart Weddings, the Magnolia Rouge and other media outlets.

Things to know: The business describes itself as a luxury floral boutique that specializes in full, lush, and opulent floral designs for destination weddings and events.

Plants N’ Petals

3810 Westheimer Road, Houston, TX 77027

Customer comments: Customer reviews mention an efficient and professional team, stunning floral arrangements, and the ability to capture customers’ visions

Founded in 1981, Plants N’ Petals carries a wide selection of fresh-cut flowers and offers tropical flowers from around the world.

The staff’s approach is to get a feel for the customer’s ideas and personality and then “springboard that into a customized design idea.”

Things to know: The company describes itself as a high-end floral and design company that does full-service event production.

Royal Luxury Events

10060 W. Sam Houston Parkway S., Suite 180, Houston, TX 77099

Customer comments: Royal Luxury Events reviewers mention positive experiences, a courteous team that goes above and beyond, gorgeous products, and beautifully arranged flowers and décor.

Royal Luxury Events, a full-service florist, provides floral design services, bouquets, centerpieces, floral installations, floral backdrops, floral table runners, flower walls, ceiling decor and more.

Things to know: The company also offers full-service event production along with luxury decor and rentals.

Secret Floral Garden

8181 Commerce Park Dr., No. 722, Houston, TX

Customer comments: Secret Floral Garden is praised for professionalism, being easy to work with, spectacular floral designs, and knowledgeable staff.

Lead designers Linda Nguyen and Steve Huynh have more than 17 years of combined experience in their industry. The company specializes in floral designs for weddings, private events, corporate events, and galas.

Things to know: The company also offers rentals, including chairs, furniture, and decor elements.

The Bell Tower on 34th is a Houston wedding venue committed to delivering excellent events that no one will ever forget.

We work closely with recently engaged couples to help them bring every detail of their wedding vision to life.

Take a look at our indoor and outdoor event spaces.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

Wedding Rehearsal Etiquette

One of the biggest favors you can do for yourselves if you and your partner are planning a large wedding is to have a wedding ceremony rehearsal.

This run-through of your ceremony is a valuable safeguard, a way to ensure that everything comes together the way you want it to.

But, since you can’t have a ceremony rehearsal without including the participants, it’s important to consider their needs and feelings as much as possible. That’s where etiquette — a way to show others that you respect and appreciate them — comes into the picture.

Below, you’ll find tips for having a rehearsal that’s not only helpful for you, but also a pleasant experience for the people who join you.

Identify the Participants

The key people you’ll want at the ceremony rehearsal, in addition to you and your partner, are your parents, the officiant, and, ideally, as many members of the wedding party as possible. If you’re planning to include children in the ceremony, they should be present as well. Additional participants could include ushers, people who will be doing a reading or performing

Communicate Clearly

Once you’ve identified the people you’d like at the rehearsal, ask them to attend as early as possible so they can make the necessary plans. In the case of your flower girl or ring bearer, you’ll need to ask their parents if at least one of them can attend as well.

Make a point of providing all of the participants with details about the day, time, location, parking, where they should enter the rehearsal location, dress code,  and anything else that could be helpful. As the rehearsal approaches, send reminders with the day, time, and location.

Be Child-Friendly

If you are expecting children at your rehearsal, talk with their parents about arranging a timeline that factors in their usual mealtime and bedtime as much as possible.

Try to get the rehearsal started on time and moving along promptly. (All of the participants will appreciate that.) Keep your instructions for the participating children short and to the point.

Give them a chance to do more than one run-through if you think it will be helpful.

Make the Participants Comfortable

Start the rehearsal with brief introductions — This may be some of your participants’ first opportunities to meet.

Cover the Details

The person coordinating the rehearsal should make sure everyone knows where and when they’ll be gathering before the actual ceremony begins, who will be paired with who, the order they’ll be in, when to enter, when music or readings begin, and where they should be standing or sitting. The rehearsal is a great time to give ushers their instructions, as well.

Stick with the Essentials

Remember that a rehearsal is not the time to practice your wedding toast or plan out special surprises. Keep the focus on the main event — getting everyone ready for the big day — and don’t keep participants at the rehearsal longer than necessary.

Provide Rehearsal Dinner Details

Whether you’re having your rehearsal dinner at the same place as the rehearsal or somewhere else, make sure your participants know where and when it will be and about any dress guidelines they should be aware of. Make sure you touch base far in advance to ask about allergies and food preferences.

Harness Technology

In today's digital age, consider utilizing video conferencing for participants who cannot attend in person. This can be particularly helpful for those who live far away or have other commitments.

Emergency Plan

Discuss a backup plan for unforeseen circumstances, such as bad weather if your ceremony is outdoors.

Having a plan in place reduces stress on the actual wedding day.

Comfort for Elderly Participants

If you have elderly participants, consider their comfort during the rehearsal.

Provide seating if needed, and make sure they are aware of any uneven surfaces or obstacles in the ceremony space.

Ceremony Props and Accessories

If there are specific props or accessories used during the ceremony (unity candles, special readings), ensure they are present at the rehearsal.

This helps participants familiarize themselves with these elements.

Photographer and Videographer Involvement

If you've hired a photographer or videographer for your wedding, consider having them attend the rehearsal. This allows them to plan their shots and familiarize themselves with the venue.

Gratitude and Acknowledgment

Take a moment during the rehearsal to express your gratitude to everyone involved.

Acknowledge their time and effort, as it sets a positive tone for the wedding day.

Refreshments and Hydration

Provide light refreshments and water during the rehearsal, especially if it's a lengthy process. This ensures everyone stays focused and energized.

Essentially, most of these etiquette rules boil down to considering participants’ needs and being courteous. When you do that, you’ll help ensure a successful rehearsal and an unforgettable wedding ceremony.

The Bell Tower on 34th is a Houston wedding venue committed to delivering excellent events that no one will ever forget.

Our venue, with customizable packages and full event-planning services, works closely with recently engaged couples to help them bring their wedding vision to life.

Learn more about holding a wedding here.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

Don’t Forget These Crucial Wedding To-Dos

Your wedding day will likely fly by in a beautiful, blissful blur of "I do's," first dances, and celebration.

With so much going on, it's no wonder that most brides tend to overlook a few key details during wedding planning.

Based on common things brides forget when preparing for their wedding, we've put together this guide with valuable to-do's for your final stretch of preparations.

Pack Emergency Kits for Peace of Mind

Hopefully, everything will go smoothly on your wedding day, but it's wise to prepare for minor fashion or beauty mishaps by packing an emergency kit.

Consider including the following:

-Extra stockings and lingerie

-Bobby pins, hair spray, deodorant

-Breath mints, lip color touch-up

-Clear nail polish for minor snags

-Stitching kit, safety pins, double-sided fashion tape

-Stain-removal wipes or pen for your wedding gown

-Bottled water and granola bar (or a similar snack)

Having these quick fixes on hand means you can focus on fun instead of wardrobe woes. Assign your maid of honor or friend to be the keeper of the bridal emergency kit.

Have a Backup Plan

Like your emergency bridal kit, preparing backup plans gives peace of mind that you've got things covered on your wedding day no matter what curveballs get thrown your way.

Consider including the following:

-Have rain plans in place for an outdoor ceremony and tent rentals or covered backup spaces scoped out.

-Ensure vendors from caterers to photographers have alternate contacts, are aware of all timelines/locations, and have contingency plans themselves if needed.

-Designate a point person such as your wedding planner, close friend, or day-of-coordinator to handle any issues.

-Prepare an emergency contact list of vendor numbers so anyone can get help immediately if needed.

Don't Forget to Pack an Overnight Bag

Between pre-wedding preparations and sending off wedding vendors at the end of the night, you likely won't make it back home before heading off to your honeymoon.

Make sure to have an overnight bag packed with:

-Toiletries, makeup remover, chargers

-Change of clothes for travel

-Prescriptions, contact case/solution

-Glasses, contacts (and related supplies), sunglasses

-Passport, ID, boarding passes (if your honeymoon will be outside of the country)

If possible, assign the task of transporting your bag to the hotel or airport to a family member or bridal party member.

Say Thanks with Wedding Party Gifts

They've stood by your side throughout the ups and downs of wedding planning and will be supporting you on the big day. Show some love for your wedding party with thoughtful gifts.

Bridesmaids/Bridal Party Gifts

Possibilities include:

-Monogrammed tumblers filled with gifts like candles, cozy socks, face masks, or jewelry.

-Custom bouquets featuring their favorite blooms and colors

-Embroidered apparel like denim jackets, silk robes, button-ups, or PJs

Bridesman/Groomsmen Gifts

-Engraved knife/bottle opener sets

-Leather dopp kits packed with monogrammed travel essentials

-Sets of cufflinks featuring special locations, dates, or details

Maid of Honor/Best Woman/Best Man/Man of Honor Gifts

Go a step above with higher-end or more personalized gifts:

-A nice watch or piece of jewelry

-Custom artwork featuring special memories

-Upscale barware kits

Navigating the Marriage License Process

While wedding planning often revolves around the wedding gown, venue, food, and decorations, it's crucial not to overlook the less glamorous, yet equally vital aspect—the marriage license.

Securing this piece of paperwork is the key to making your union official. Here's a guide to help you navigate the process seamlessly:

Research Local Requirements

Marriage license requirements vary by location, so the first step is to research the specific regulations in the area where you plan to tie the knot. Check with the county clerk's office or local authorities to understand the necessary documentation, waiting periods, and fees.

Timing is Everything

Many jurisdictions have specific timelines for obtaining a marriage license. Be sure to plan accordingly, as some licenses have expiration dates, and obtaining it too far in advance may result in it being invalid on your wedding day.

Both Partners Present

In most cases, both partners will need to be present when applying for the marriage license. This ensures that both individuals can provide the necessary information and sign the paperwork. Check with your local authorities for any exceptions or special circumstances.

Bring the Required Documentation

Prepare the necessary documentation in advance. This typically includes government-issued identification (such as a driver's license or passport), proof of age, and sometimes a Social Security card.

Additionally, if either partner has been previously married, you may need to provide divorce or death certificates.

Understand the Fees

Marriage licenses often come with fees, and the costs can vary. Budget for this expense and inquire about acceptable payment methods.

Some locations may offer reduced fees or waive them altogether for premarital counseling or other qualifying factors.

Factor in the Waiting Period

Many jurisdictions impose a waiting period between obtaining the marriage license and the actual ceremony.

This can range from a few days to a few weeks, so plan accordingly. Use this time to double-check the accuracy of the information on the license.

Secure a Safe Place

Once you have the marriage license in hand, keep it in a safe and easily accessible place.

Designate someone, like your maid of honor or best man, to be responsible for bringing the license to the ceremony.

Transporting Your Wedding Gown

One often underestimated aspect of planning is ensuring the safe and pristine transport of the bride's wedding dress to the ceremony venue. After all, that stunning gown deserves to make its grand entrance without a wrinkle or blemish.

To avoid any last-minute hiccups, consider the following tips:

Early Planning is Key

Don't leave the transportation of your wedding dress to the last minute.

Begin making arrangements well ahead of your wedding day to allow for any unforeseen circumstances. This will also provide you with ample time to find the best solution for your unique dress.

Professional Help

If the venue is not too far from your home or the location where you're getting ready, a reliable friend or family member can assist with your wedding gown transportation. However, for longer distances or if your dress is particularly intricate, consider hiring a professional wedding dress transport service. They specialize in handling delicate garments and will ensure your dress arrives in impeccable condition.

Invest in a Garment Bag

A high-quality garment bag is a bride's best friend when it comes to dress transport.

Choose a bag that is spacious enough to accommodate the full volume of your wedding gown and is made of breathable, non-abrasive material.

Hanging hooks inside the bag can help prevent any unwanted creases.

Pet Care During the Honeymoon

Amidst the whirlwind of wedding excitement, it's essential to remember that our four-legged friends also need a little extra love and attention, especially when you're jetting off for your romantic honeymoon.

While you're busy planning the perfect getaway, don't forget to make arrangements for your beloved pets. Here's how to ensure they're well taken care of while you're away:

Choose the Right Care Option

Depending on your pet's personality and needs, you have several options for their care. Consider whether they'd be more comfortable in their familiar home environment with a pet sitter, enjoy the company of other animals at a reputable boarding facility, or perhaps benefit from a stay with a trusted friend or family member.

Inform Your Pet Sitter or Boarding Facility

If you're entrusting your pet to a friend, family member, or professional pet sitter, provide them with detailed information about your pet's routine, dietary needs, and any specific quirks or behaviors. Ensure they have contact information for your veterinarian and clear instructions in case of emergencies.

Prepare an Essentials Kit

Put together a kit containing all the essentials your pet will need during your absence.

This may include their regular food, treats, medications, toys, grooming tools, and any comfort items that will help them feel at ease.

Update Identification and Microchip Information

Ensure your pet's identification tags are up-to-date with your current contact information.

If your pet is microchipped, confirm that the registration details are accurate. This extra precaution can be invaluable in case your pet goes missing or requires medical attention.

Schedule a Pre-Honeymoon Vet Visit

Visit the vet before your departure to make sure your pet is in good health.

Ensure vaccinations are up-to-date (you'll need proof of this to board your pet) and discuss any concerns or special care instructions with your veterinarian.

This proactive step can prevent potential issues while you're away.

Considerations for Out-of-Town Wedding Guests

Also during your planning, don't forget to take steps to ensure the comfort and convenience of out-of-town guests.

-Provide a list of recommended accommodations. This could include hotels, inns, or vacation rentals near the wedding venue. Negotiate group rates if possible and ensure that the options cater to different budget preferences.

-Include detailed information about local transportation options, especially if your wedding venue is not easily accessible. Consider arranging shuttles or transportation services to and from the reception venue to simplify the travel logistics for your guests.

-Craft welcome packages for out-of-town guests staying at designated accommodations. Include a map of the local area, a schedule of wedding events, contact information for key wedding party members, and perhaps a list of recommended local attractions or dining spots.

-Share your favorite local eateries, coffee shops, and attractions with your out-of-town guests. Consider creating a curated list of must-visit places to give them a taste of the local culture and enhance their overall experience.

-If your wedding is in a location with unpredictable weather, be sure to inform out-of-town guests about the expected conditions. This will help them pack accordingly and be prepared for any climate surprises.

Plan a pre-wedding or post-wedding group event. This could be a casual welcome dinner, a guided tour of the city, or a brunch the day after the wedding. These gatherings foster a sense of community and allow guests to bond.

-Set up an information station at the wedding venue with important details. Include a guestbook, a schedule of events, and contact information for key personnel. These measures will help guests easily find the information they need and feel well-informed throughout the celebration.

-Consider leaving small welcome snacks and refreshments in your guests' hotel rooms. After a journey, these thoughtful gestures will be greatly appreciated and provide a warm welcome.

-Designate a person to serve as the point of contact, whether it's a member of the wedding party or a trusted friend, to assist out-of-town guests with any questions or concerns. Having someone available to provide guidance can ease potential stress.

Reminders for the Groom

While the spotlight often shines on the bride during wedding preparations, the groom plays an equally essential role in ensuring a smooth and memorable celebration. Here's a guide to help the groom navigate the often-overlooked aspects of wedding planning:

-Don't leave the groomsmen's attire to the last minute. Coordinate with your groomsmen to ensure they have ordered or rented their suits or tuxedos well in advance. Confirm accessories like ties, cufflinks, and shoes for a polished look.

-Arrange transportation not only for the wedding day but also for any pre-wedding events. Confirm details such as pick-up and drop-off times, routes, and transportation methods for you, your groomsmen, and immediate family members.

-Take the time to thoroughly review and understand wedding vendor contracts. Be aware of payment schedules, cancellation policies, and any additional fees. This knowledge can prevent misunderstandings and ensure a smooth collaboration with your vendors.

-Consider your wedding morning logistics. Where will you and your groomsmen get ready? Ensure you have the essentials like suits, accessories, and personal items organized and ready to go. Don't forget about any pre-wedding traditions or rituals you want to include.

-Consider adding personal touches to your wedding attire. Whether it's a custom suit lining, special accessories, or a sentimental item, infusing your look with personal details adds a unique and meaningful touch.

-If you plan to give a speech or toast on your wedding day, take some time to prepare. Express your gratitude, share anecdotes, and convey your love in a way that feels authentic to you. Practice, but allow room for spontaneity and emotion.

Self-Care Amidst Wedding Planning Chaos

In the whirlwind of wedding preparations, it's important not to lose sight of one of the most important aspects of this journey—self-care.

Taking care of yourself is not a luxury; it's a necessity to ensure you are at your best physically, mentally, and emotionally on your wedding day.

Here's how to incorporate self-care into your wedding planning adventure:

Schedule 'Me Time' and Sleep

Carving out time for self-reflection and relaxation is paramount. Amidst the countless to-do lists and appointments, intentionally schedule time for yourself. This might be a quiet moment with a cup of tea, a short walk, or a chapter of your favorite book.

Also important, make you are getting enough sleep each night, especially as the wedding day approaches. Quality rest not only rejuvenates your body but also contributes to a clear mind and glowing complexion.

Delegate Responsibilities

You don't have to carry the weight of every wedding-related task on your shoulders. Delegate responsibilities to trusted friends, family members, or a wedding planner.

Knowing that you have a support system can alleviate stress and free up valuable time for self-care.

Mindful Eating, Getting Exercise

Nourish your body with healthy, energizing foods.

Even as you enjoy tastings and celebratory meals, it will be important to maintain a balanced diet.

Hydrate well and indulge in treats in moderation, ensuring you feel your best from the inside out.

-Consider a yoga class, a jog in the park, or a dance session in your living room—any activity that brings you joy and helps release tension.

Disconnect from Wedding Planning

Designate specific times to disconnect from wedding planning.

Constantly checking emails, Pinterest boards, or wedding forums can be overwhelming. Set boundaries, and allow yourself breaks from the wedding-related chatter.

Pamper Yourself

Treat yourself to a spa day, a massage, or a DIY pampering session at home. Taking the time to indulge in self-care rituals not only benefits your physical well-being but also enhances your overall mood and confidence.

Practice Mindfulness

Embrace mindfulness techniques such as meditation or deep breathing exercises.

These practices can help center your mind, reduce stress, and allow you to savor the joyous moments leading up to your wedding.

The Bell Tower on 34th is a Houston-area wedding venue committed to delivering unforgettable events that no one will ever forget.

Our venue near The Woodlands, TX, with full planning services, works closely with recently engaged couples to help them realize their vision for their big day.

Learn more about holding a wedding here.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355

Hosting Successful Corporate Events at The Bell Tower on 34th in Houston

Corporate Event Venue: Elevating Business Celebrations in Houston, TX

In the ever-evolving landscape of corporate engagements, the art of celebration holds a crucial place. These moments serve as more than just markers of success; they are opportunities for businesses to forge stronger connections, honor achievements, and set the stage for future endeavors. Amidst the dynamic business scene in Houston, Texas, The Bell Tower on 34th emerges as an exceptional venue, offering a tapestry of elegance and excellence to craft memorable corporate events.

Nestled in the heart of Houston, The Bell Tower on 34th stands as a paragon of sophistication, providing an unparalleled setting for a spectrum of corporate events. Our architectural brilliance seamlessly blends modern amenities with timeless grandeur, offering versatile spaces that cater to various business gatherings.

The Bell Tower on 34th’s allure lies in our ability to metamorphose into the perfect setting for diverse corporate events. From intimate meetings to expansive conferences, the venue's adaptable spaces provide a canvas for businesses to paint their vision. The ability to customize ensures that each event resonates with the unique essence of the hosting company.

No celebration is complete without exceptional cuisine, and The Bell Tower on 34th excels in this aspect. Our culinary artisans craft menus that tantalize the palate and elevate the dining experience. From delectable hors d'oeuvres to elaborate multi-course meals, each dish is a testament to culinary excellence, adding a touch of refinement to corporate gatherings.

At the core of The Bell Tower on 34th’s success in hosting corporate events lies our unwavering commitment to impeccable service. Our team of seasoned professionals meticulously tend to every detail, from event planning to execution, ensuring a seamless and stress-free experience for businesses and their guests.

Designing Unforgettable Corporate Events in Houston

The Bell Tower on 34th serves as more than just a venue for corporate events in Houston; we’re a partner in creating indelible moments for businesses. Our versatility and meticulous attention to detail make our venue an ideal choice for a wide range of corporate events.

For companies seeking to host conferences that foster innovation and collaboration, the Bell Tower on 34th offers state-of-the-art facilities equipped with cutting-edge technology. The venue’s adaptable spaces facilitate engaging presentations and networking opportunities, fostering an environment ripe for meaningful discussions.

Recognizing and honoring accomplishments is integral to corporate culture. The Bell Tower on 34th’s opulent spaces provide the perfect backdrop for gala dinners and award ceremonies, elevating the occasion and paying homage to the achievements of teams and individuals.

Establishing and nurturing connections is pivotal in the corporate world. The Bell Tower on 34th’s sophisticated ambiance and seamless service create an ideal environment for networking, enabling professionals to forge meaningful connections in an elegant setting conducive to relationship-building.

The Bell Tower on 34th Experience: Beyond Expectations

What sets The Bell Tower on 34th apart is our dedication to surpassing expectations. The venue not only provides a picturesque backdrop but also ensures that each moment of the corporate event is laden with significance and prestige.

Understanding the unique nature of every corporate event, The Bell Tower on 34th team collaborates closely with businesses to tailor every aspect according to their vision. From thematic décor to entertainment choices, each element is carefully curated to reflect the brand's identity and objectives.

In the realm of corporate events, the smallest details often make the most significant impact. The Bell Tower on 34th staff pays heed to every aspect, ensuring that ambient lighting, seamless logistics, and flawless execution contribute to an unforgettable experience.

With a track record of hosting exceptional events, The Bell Tower on 34th has earned trust and acclaim from businesses across industries. Our legacy speaks volumes, attracting corporations seeking not just a venue but a partner dedicated to realizing their event's full potential.

Celebrating Success in Style

In the fabric of corporate endeavors, celebrations mark milestones, foster connections, and inspire future achievements. The Bell Tower on 34th stands as a beacon of luxury and sophistication, offering businesses in Houston a platform to orchestrate unforgettable corporate events. With our grandeur, culinary mastery, impeccable service, and commitment to exceeding expectations, The Bell Tower on 34th exemplifies the art of celebration, elevating corporate gatherings to unforgettable heights.

For businesses seeking not just an event venue but an experience resonating with prestige and excellence, The Bell Tower on 34th in Houston, TX, stands as the premier destination for crafting moments that are etched in the annals of success.

In the realm of business, celebrations are more than occasions; they are catalysts for future triumphs. At The Bell Tower on 34th, these celebrations transcend expectations, making every corporate event an affair to remember.

The Perfect Venue in Houston for Corporate Events

As the proud steward of The Bell Tower on 34th, our commitment to excellence in hosting successful corporate events in Houston remains unwavering. We understand the significance of these occasions in shaping the narrative of success for your business. Our endeavor is not just to provide a venue but to curate an experience that exceeds expectations, leaving an indelible mark on every attendee. We invite you to elevate your corporate celebrations with us, where every moment is crafted with sophistication, every detail meticulously tended to, and every event transformed into a masterpiece.

Contact us today to embark on a journey of unparalleled corporate event experiences at The Bell Tower on 34th, where celebration meets excellence.

The Bell Tower on 34th
901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018
(713) 868-2355

The Grand Exit: Ending Your Wedding in Style

As the final moments of your wedding reception wind down, the excitement continues to build for one last memorable wedding day event—the grand exit.

This departure marks the official conclusion of festivities (unless you’re planning a wedding after-party), so couples aim to leave guests with a lasting, positive impression.

With creative touches and smart planning, you can craft a personalized, meaningful sendoff that encapsulates the tone of your special day.

Consider these tips when orchestrating your own distinctive, show-stopping exit.

Defining the Grand Exit

The big moment when the bride and groom depart their wedding goes by several names including the wedding send-off, grand exit, the getaway, and the farewell. Whatever you call it, this event transpires after you complete any final reception traditions.

The DJ or band typically announces the couple’s impending departure and invites wedding guests to gather. In most modern weddings, attendees form two parallel lines, creating a pathway for the newlyweds to pass through on their way out. Guests will cheer, wave glow sticks, blow bubbles, toss flower petals or confetti, or partake in other activities to celebrate and bid the couple farewell.

The exit may occur from the reception venue, hotel lobby, or another nearby location en route to your post-wedding transportation.

Purpose and Significance

Beyond concluding festivities on a high note, the wedding send-off carries deeper symbolic meaning. This dramatic, public departure embodies your joyous transition into married life together.

Passing through the channel of loved ones ushers you into your next adventure as a wedded couple.

The images also make for emotive photographic mementos, capturing the outpouring of love and support from your community.

Creative Wedding Send-Offs

When considering your wedding sendoff style, remember this moment marks a pivotal point between two stages of your relationship—commemorating not just the end of an era but the beginning of a new one filled with promise.

So as you plan this moment, aim to infuse personalized details that speak to your partnership so far while hinting at future dreams.

Here are some wedding send-off ideas to inspire you.

Bubbles

Few things convey playfulness quite like bubbles floating on air.

Supply guests with individual bubble bottles or bubble wands. Have everyone blow bubbles enthusiastically during your wedding send-off.

This option, by the way, photographs fabulously both day and night.

Bonus: Bubbles symbolize hopes floating into the future.

Flower Petals

Some couples adorn their exit path with flower petals for wedding guests to grab and toss.

Roses provide classic romance, but any petals can work. Consider sustainability using faux or dried petals. For added symbolism, use flowers from your bouquet or floral arrangements. Let nature’s beauty bless and surround your departure.

Ribbon Wands

For a whimsical effect, hand out ribbon wands for people to wave during your wedding send-off.

Choose ribbons in your wedding colors. As you pass through sparkling ribbons, dancing in air, you'll be creating a vibe of love and childhood delight.

Use organza or satin; you can curl the ends for added texture and movement.

Beach Ball Exit

Provide famiy and friends with a beach ball (or mini beach balls) printed with "Just Married" or the names of the bride and groom and your wedding date.

Yes, beach balls are more casual, but they add to the fun of your wedding send-off.

Glow Sticks

At your evening reception, give each guest a glow stick, bracelet, or necklace.

As you walk through the magical glowing path, have your wedding photographer snap epic long-exposure photos.

Glow sticks and similar items also double as dance floor accessories earlier in the reception.

Paper Airplanes

Another playful idea is to hand out paper airplane templates and markers for family and friends to customize with sweet notes then toss them as you run through laughs and uplifted spirits.

Bells

Another creative exit idea is to have family and friends ring handbells as you exit to create a festive, jubilant feel.

Have your photographer capture images of smiling faces and bells mid-shake during your wedding send-off.

(Of course, if you hold your wedding at The Bell Tower at 34th you'll also be able to incorporate the ringing of the bells in our tower into your wedding celebration. Bells are a time-honored wedding tradition.)

Giveaway Send-off Items

Offer eco-friendly bubbles or ribbons as wedding favors. Guests can then use them to celebrate during your wedding send-off.

Lanterns

For an evening wedding celebration string paper lanterns above your exit route or allow guests to hold lantern sticks with electric candles.

The bohemian vibe makes stunning photos at dusk. Choose lanterns in wedding hues or metallics for glam. Be mindful of fire safety.

Helicopter Exit

If you're seeking serious fanfare for your wedding send-off, depart via private helicopter!

Hire one to land near the reception site. Board ceremonially as guests ooh and ahh. Relish waving goodbye as you soar into the distance. Begin planning this early to arrange permits, management logistics, and budget.

Thematic Ideas

Match your wedding send-off style to your wedding personality, or your wedding theme, for maximum impact. Here are some thematic concepts:

Romantic - rose petals, lanterns, sparkling lights, limo exit

Whimsical – bubbles, ribbons, parasols, vintage car.

Bohemian – flower crowns, loose flowers, glow sticks

Classic elegant – white luxury car, Champagne toast, black tie attire

Beachy – seashell confetti, tropical floral leis, “Just Married” sign on vintage surfboard

Winter wonderland – sleigh ride exit, fur wraps, falling snow machine, lanterns

Etiquette and Logistics

When planning your wedding send-off, keep these pointers on timing, location logistics, and etiquette in mind:

-Announce the exit 10-15 minutes prior so guests can prepare.

-Thank guests and say some of your individual goodbyes before your wedding send-off if possible.

-Have supplies ready, and assign someone you trust to organize guests. Recruit the DJ/band or coordinator to assist.

-Choose an exit spot with space for guests to gather safely. Ensure good lighting at night.

-Provide clear instructions on throwing items before your wedding send-off. Have ushers oversee.

-If you're considering glitter, confetti, or loose petals for your wedding send-off, respect your wedding venue policies and cleaning fees.

-Consider exits in inclement weather. Have umbrellas or an alternative indoor area planned.

Capturing Your Final Moments

Photographing and filming your grand wedding exit provides treasured memories and immortalizes the energy surrounding you.

Discuss these camera-ready tips with your photography team to get the wedding photos you want:

-Light the area sufficiently for quality images. Use string lighting if the wedding send-off will be outdoors at night.

-Request both wide shots of the entire spectacle along with close-ups of emotional expressions.

-Ask your photographer to capture guests waving, cheering, and engaging actively in your send-off.

-Arrange for videos of the action that will take place during your wedding send-off, including soundbites of clapping and the moments when guests cheer. This conveys the excitement well.

-Request shots in black and white or sepia tones for classic dramatic looks.

-Ask your photographer to be creative with angles, including low perspectives, faraway zoomed shots, movement, and panning effects.

Create the Exit You Want

Not every bride and groom will feel comfortable as the center of the spectacle for long periods.

If you’d rather escape sooner than later, keep your wedding exit short and simple. Waving quickly as you dash towards the car still makes an impression!

Or if you'd rather avoid a big public scene altogether, discretely sneak off early without major farewells.

Determine what level of drama and attention suits you best.

What’s Trending in Grand Exits

Grand wedding exit trends evolve constantly as couples seek ever-more elaborate sendoffs. Blame social media for raising the bar! Here are some hot send-off ideas gaining popularity.

Neon Signs

What says rock star departure better than exiting under a custom neon sign proclaiming “Just Married” or the names of the bride and groom during a nighttime grand wedding exit?

You can rent freestanding signs for this wedding send off idea, or affix your sign(s) to the getaway vehicle.

Farewell Songs

Moving beyond the classic “Goin’ to the Chapel,” newlyweds are selecting special songs for their wedding send-off.

Whether you go with a sweet ballad or an upbeat anthem, a poignant tune adds emotion. Work with your DJ or band to time the song perfectly.

Opt for Eco-Friendly, Biodegradable Items

Most wedding farewell activities litter the environment with non-biodegradable plastics and chemicals. Wedding send-off materials like metallic confetti and wax-filled rice can harm local wildlife, landfills, and waterways.

But you can minimize your impact by making conscientious choices:

Bubbles

Buy biodegradable soap bubble solutions. Avoid glycerin products containing detergents.

Confetti

Switch to biodegradable confetti options or alternatives to traditional confetti, like dried flowers, leaves, lavender buds, or wood shreds, during your wedding send-off.

Flower Petals

Fresh flowers or dried petals serve as beautiful organic alternatives to plastic confetti during a wedding send-off.

Rice

While it has long been a tradition to see guests shower a newly married couple with rice, it's not a great option for wildlife. Uncooked rice can swell in birds’ stomachs so opt instead for birdseed, grass seed, dried beans/lentils, or salt, which dissolve over time.

Additional options include almond slices or walnuts in the shell.

Lanterns

Select paper lanterns made without wires; choose reusable fabric lanterns; or opt for battery-operated LED candles.

Adding Meaning with Personal Touches

While trendy concepts can provide inspiration for your wedding send-off, the most memorable way to wrap up your wedding day could be to incorporate details specially chosen for you.

Customize your vision using these symbolic ideas.

Location

After leaving your reception site, pass through a favorite date-night restaurant or nearby park.

Décor

Incorporate wedding flowers, candles, and other decorative items from the ceremony for continuity.

Reuse reception centerpieces to adorn your exit path for added meaning.

Attire

Don luxury going-away outfits evoking old Hollywood glamor during your wedding send-off.

Consider fur capes, sequins, or a full-length gown. Play out fairy tales!

Accessories

Attach “Just Married” signs, streamers, bows, or personalized license plates to your getaway car.

Add window paint and trailing tin cans.

Transport

Hire a vintage car like a Rolls Royce, Model T, or Cinderella-style horse-drawn carriage relating to your history.

Or take your own first-date car.

Music

Pick a sentimental love song for your wedding send-off backdrop.

Your wedding song lyrics also offer continuity. Coordinate timing with meaningful choruses.

Reading

Have your officiant, sibling, or best friend read a short poem or blessing before you depart. This element is quick but impactful.

Farewells

Make time to hug VIPs like grandparents and mentors. Show gratitude to the parents who raised you and members of your bridal party. Share inside jokes or whispered words with your new spouse.

Whatever your budget, guests mostly care that you live happily ever after, not splashy gimmicks. Focus on infusing nostalgia from your past, wedding highlights, wishes for the future, and authentic intimacy.

These personal touches shine brightest.

Your Unforgettable Exit

Don’t underestimate the power of your wedding day grand finale. This theatrical departure not only bids guests goodbye with panache but also kicks off your marriage in style.

Despite the flurry of excitement, do pause briefly to soak in this milestone. Let magical moments wash over you before dashing onwards to a spectacular honeymoon and a future filled with promise.

The Bell Tower on 34th is a wedding venue committed to delivering excellent events that no one will ever forget.

Our Houston venue near Cypress, TX, offers an elegant backdrop for fabulous wedding pictures and special memories.

Learn more about holding a wedding here.

The Bell Tower on 34th

901 W 34th St, Houston, TX 77018

(713) 868-2355